Romance What If You Are Not An Alpha Male

Romance - What If You Are Not An Alpha Male?

There is a lot of talk about alpha male in the articles. Who is an alpha male? Somebody who looks very confident, a winner, has animal appeal, knows how to attract women and leads from the front. Unfortunately most of us are not alpha males. I wonder how many of our romantic poets were alpha males? What to do if you are not an alpha male? How to be a romantic?

What is romance? In simple English to be in romance means to love each other intensely. It does not mean anything more than that. How do you get a girl to fall in love with you that is intense and passionate? For that is it necessary to have looks like a movie star? No. What it needs is intensity in the eyes. Create intensity in your eyes. Let your eyes give that come hither look. Let your eyes have that dreamy look. Let your eyes speak about your love. Gaze into the eyes of your beloved without speaking a word for few minutes and you will win her forever.

What about words and voice? Do you need to have husky voice and great vocabulary? No. Does saying I Love You need great vocabulary? It is the way you speak that affects the hormones. Make your voice as love filled as possible. Let the girl feel very special with your words. Let her feel that she is the princess and you are trying to win her over. Speak few words. But speak them with a voice full of love and care. Handle her as if she is as fragile as a china piece. Treat her as if she is more precious than the whole world. Let her feel very wanted. Let her feel loved. Let her feel the love and let her dream of that. Take her to a world with your voice and actions to a world she had never dreamt of. She will be yours forever.

BONUS : Romantic Birthday

You are in love and your beloved's birthday is coming soon. Imagine the explosion of feelings. Already in romance, a person
loses all his sanity. Combine that with birthday of the beloved and you will get a perfect madcap.

I know of a lover who had sent 32 mails to his beloved on her 32nd birthday. He had no chance of sending anything else. It
was difficult to select 32 ecards, and hence all the mails went together, each expressing one particular message of love. Why
does one act like this? It is because of love. Love brings out the best in our nature. We feel on clouds all the time. Waiting to hear the beloveds voice itself becomes a great celebration. Looking at her/him is a bonus, and if one can be together for some time it is as if Gods themselves gifted this. It is romance.

A person in love will have the most difficult time on his/her beloveds birthday. What to do? What gift to give? Where to meet? When to meet? Mind goes in a spin thinking of all this. And the feeling of love is the icing on the cake. Till now we have spoken of love. Now let us talk of birthdays. You will find even people well beyond their every age, enjoying their birthday as if there will be no tomorrow. I have always wondered, why the birthday changes everything. The mood is different.

How the day manages to do this trick has always been a question for me. In the case of beloveds birthday, the combination is
of love with birthday. The result as I said earlier is explosive. Enjoy this explosion. Not everyone is lucky.

Enjoy life. Please do not let a single moment of pleasure slip away from your hands. You never know what the next minute will
bring. Life can be treacherous at times. Enjoy the moment with all your might and float in the bliss. The day may never come
again, as it happened with the lover of the story above. He was never given a chance to send 33 mails. The beloved had turned
into his biggest foe. The protector had turned the killer. Let that not happen to anyone again. So please, enjoy. I wouldsay, birthday or no birthday, enjoy your romance at all the times.