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Dating Advice For Men Essential Guide
When it comes to dating, it's not just the women who worry about, will he like me, will we get on, what shall I wear etc etc. In actual fact, most man go through all the above fears just like women do. It would be nice if we could read just one book or article and know everything we need to know about women, relationships and dating. Unfortunately it doesn't work that way.
The best dating advice often seems to come from people who have been in the same situations as ourselves and have gained some comforting wisdom that we can relate to.
When dating, the thing we should always remember is that advice is simply what someone else thinks might assist you. The person giving this advice may not necessarily have any idea of your true state of mind of your particular circumstances, therefore it is always important to take note of what advice you have been given, others opinions are valuable, as it may help you to form your own opinion on what's right for you.
Below are some helpful hints and advice, some may suit you and others may not. Remember these hints are not set in stone, you may want to adjust some to suit your own personal goals.
1. The worst thing you could do when going on a date is to turn up unshaven and looking dirty. You would be appalled if she turned up in the same state. It may be fickle but unfortunately it's true appearances count for a lot.
2. Whatever you do, don't turn up late, you will definitely give her the wrong impression. Not only will she think you've stood her up, she will also think you're unreliable.
3. Be a gentleman, open the door for her, pull out her chair in the restaurant. Women like to feel special, treat her like a lady and you'll do well.
4. Compliment her. A woman loves to be complimented, even if she doesn't show it. Don't go overboard though, but let her feel you are attracted to her.
5. Ask questions and genuinely listen to her answers. After all you are going on a date to get to know her. There is nothing more that a woman likes than when someone is interested in what they have to say.
6. Prepare yourself for the date. Think about what it is you would like to find out about her. Also think about what she might ask you. The last thing you want is for the conversation to dry up half way into the date.
7. It is advisable that you dont bring up adult matters or sex toys for example on at least the first 3 dates. In the long run this can only do you good and she will certainly be more interested in you if you hold back.
8. When it comes to paying the bill, offer to pay. If she insists on paying, then offer to go halves and split the bill.
9. What about the goodnight kiss? Some women prefer not to kiss after a first date, while others will be disappointed if you don't. Judge the situation for yourself, her body language will give you a good idea of what's right.
10. When leaving, only ask for her number or tell her you will call if you really mean it. In the long run this will be best for both of you. If you do like her and are interested, then don't be afraid to let her know.
BONUS : Dating Advice - Tips To Follow When Using Online Dating Sites
Online Dating Advice: The Big problem
When you respond to an ad, posted by a lady, youhave to know that you are not the only one. Its more likely that you r the 35-th person that is writing to her Id like to make a suggestion. Right here, right now, log on to the web and register yourself at match.com section as a lady (about 23 y/o, nice and slim).
Be sure that you use an e-mail that is not valuable for you - getting a new free one for the purpose is a good idea.
This is going to be a small experiment. After a couple of days youll find out two things:
its cool to be a lady in the NET :)
the approximate number of people you are competing with.
Something more important - youll get the idea about what are the other guys writing about. This is valuable information.
Dont hesitate and be desperate if you get 40 emails the first day from all sorts of guys willing to go on a date with you.
Ill tell you how to make women think you differ from them.
Online Dating Tip 1
The usual mistake
Well, lets suppose u did the experiment that I suggested. I bet youll find a couple dozens of variations of the following:
Hi! My name is Bob. Im 2x/3x/4x y/o. I live in PutTheName City. Im (body measures&eye-hair colour follows). I work at a ImagineSomeBusiness
Company. I like doing (this varies a lot). We might give it a try if u r interested ;) Bob
This sounds pathetic, doesnt it?
Bob is wasting his time.
Of course - he has his own chances.
If his job or hobby matches the ladys ones, hell probably get an answer. If also the lady is posting an ad for the first time, and Bob is the first one to answer, again hell probably get a reply.
Pay attention to the word first. 1 is the loneliest number
Where is he mistaking .
Bob might be a cool guy, but he shows nothing of it.
What he does is a simple announcing of facts. His personality remains covered. As I said, he could be a good psychologist, witty, emotional and educated - whole bunch of features that women consider valuable.
But if all this remains hidden behind these plain body/work/hobby facts, its quite easy for a lady to decide that nothing of it exists With other words -
Bob is wasting his valuable online time. As I said, only the fact-match remains something that can hook a lady.
This is something very thin to rely on
Online Dating Tip 2
So, what to do?
The answer is simple - you have to put some personality in your e-mail.
Once you do this, you can be sure that you can leave an impression. If you manage to do this, your work is done.
Remember the features I was talking aboutpsychologist, witty, emotional and educated. You have to convince the lady that you can think, have sense of humour and you havent missed the classes at school.
Make her laugh, make her think; dont disturb her with spelling mistakes and your chances to get a reply increase dramatically. It doesnt matter if the lady is educated or not - she wants you to be such. Let me say a few words about each one of these features
Be a psychologist!
Online Dating Tip 3
When you e-mail a lady you have to show yourself as a psychologist.
Well, how are you supposed to do this? Simple - you have to make a small prediction that comes out to be true.
First you have to read the ladys ad and gather all the valuable information.
Try to understand what is the proper motivation for her to post an ad. It might be stated directly - than it is useless for you to mention it.
If she does not say it clear, then go for it - shell be pleased to hear that someone understands her. One thing that you can always use is the fact that quite a lot of people write something similar to the ad that I showed you above.
You can predict that the lady is probably already tired of ads, telling about heights, weight and eyecolour. Say that you wont bother her with useless facts. Promise to send her a picture instead in some of your following letters.
Of course - do it if she replies. If you manage to make such a working prediction, this will convince the lady that the space between your ears is not filled with air. You know, even if you are not quite right, she might reply to tell where you are wrong. This is also a base for conversation. Use it. Be witty!
Showing some sense of humour - well, something that is difficult to achieve sometimes. What I can say is JOKE WITH YOURSELF, NOT WITH HER! REMEMBER THAT! Dont use any of the info that she gives as a material for jokes!
It might work, but its more likely that you back the lady off. Try to get her point of view - shell say Who the hell is he to speak like that?! Dont risk! In the same time, you can always make laugh from the way you look. Use phrases like It could be damn worse or I dont cover the mirrors with
sheets at my place when talking about your appearance.
Its a basic thing to show that you like yourself. If you dont, well this is a little bit far from the topic of this article, but do an effort not to show it (and constantly work to change this).
Its a basic statement that you have first to like and love the person that you see in the mirror in order the others to like and love you. Back to humour -keep the lines that are supposed to make her laugh unexpected and short.
Online Dating Tip 3
Telling long stories with funny end is not a quite good idea - the end might not be that funny and the whole reading might be in vain. Coming up with a witty line at the moment of writing an e-mail is not always possible.
Its a good idea always to keep your ears opened for funny things, quotes, etc. Write them down the moment you hear them, or when they come to your
mind.
To get even more dating advice visit http://www.datingadvice.ws
Online Dating Advice: The Big problem
When you respond to an ad, posted by a lady, youhave to know that you are not the only one. Its more likely that you r the 35-th person that is writing to her Id like to make a suggestion. Right here, right now, log on to the web and register yourself at match.com section as a lady (about 23 y/o, nice and slim).
Be sure that you use an e-mail that is not valuable for you - getting a new free one for the purpose is a good idea.
This is going to be a small experiment. After a couple of days youll find out two things:
its cool to be a lady in the NET :)
the approximate number of people you are competing with.
Something more important - youll get the idea about what are the other guys writing about. This is valuable information.
Dont hesitate and be desperate if you get 40 emails the first day from all sorts of guys willing to go on a date with you.
Ill tell you how to make women think you differ from them.
Online Dating Tip 1
The usual mistake
Well, lets suppose u did the experiment that I suggested. I bet youll find a couple dozens of variations of the following:
Hi! My name is Bob. Im 2x/3x/4x y/o. I live in PutTheName City. Im (body measures&eye-hair colour follows). I work at a ImagineSomeBusiness
Company. I like doing (this varies a lot). We might give it a try if u r interested ;) Bob
This sounds pathetic, doesnt it?
Bob is wasting his time.
Of course - he has his own chances.
If his job or hobby matches the ladys ones, hell probably get an answer. If also the lady is posting an ad for the first time, and Bob is the first one to answer, again hell probably get a reply.
Pay attention to the word first. 1 is the loneliest number
Where is he mistaking .
Bob might be a cool guy, but he shows nothing of it.
What he does is a simple announcing of facts. His personality remains covered. As I said, he could be a good psychologist, witty, emotional and educated - whole bunch of features that women consider valuable.
But if all this remains hidden behind these plain body/work/hobby facts, its quite easy for a lady to decide that nothing of it exists With other words -
Bob is wasting his valuable online time. As I said, only the fact-match remains something that can hook a lady.
This is something very thin to rely on
Online Dating Tip 2
So, what to do?
The answer is simple - you have to put some personality in your e-mail.
Once you do this, you can be sure that you can leave an impression. If you manage to do this, your work is done.
Remember the features I was talking aboutpsychologist, witty, emotional and educated. You have to convince the lady that you can think, have sense of humour and you havent missed the classes at school.
Make her laugh, make her think; dont disturb her with spelling mistakes and your chances to get a reply increase dramatically. It doesnt matter if the lady is educated or not - she wants you to be such. Let me say a few words about each one of these features
Be a psychologist!
Online Dating Tip 3
When you e-mail a lady you have to show yourself as a psychologist.
Well, how are you supposed to do this? Simple - you have to make a small prediction that comes out to be true.
First you have to read the ladys ad and gather all the valuable information.
Try to understand what is the proper motivation for her to post an ad. It might be stated directly - than it is useless for you to mention it.
If she does not say it clear, then go for it - shell be pleased to hear that someone understands her. One thing that you can always use is the fact that quite a lot of people write something similar to the ad that I showed you above.
You can predict that the lady is probably already tired of ads, telling about heights, weight and eyecolour. Say that you wont bother her with useless facts. Promise to send her a picture instead in some of your following letters.
Of course - do it if she replies. If you manage to make such a working prediction, this will convince the lady that the space between your ears is not filled with air. You know, even if you are not quite right, she might reply to tell where you are wrong. This is also a base for conversation. Use it. Be witty!
Showing some sense of humour - well, something that is difficult to achieve sometimes. What I can say is JOKE WITH YOURSELF, NOT WITH HER! REMEMBER THAT! Dont use any of the info that she gives as a material for jokes!
It might work, but its more likely that you back the lady off. Try to get her point of view - shell say Who the hell is he to speak like that?! Dont risk! In the same time, you can always make laugh from the way you look. Use phrases like It could be damn worse or I dont cover the mirrors with
sheets at my place when talking about your appearance.
Its a basic thing to show that you like yourself. If you dont, well this is a little bit far from the topic of this article, but do an effort not to show it (and constantly work to change this).
Its a basic statement that you have first to like and love the person that you see in the mirror in order the others to like and love you. Back to humour -keep the lines that are supposed to make her laugh unexpected and short.
Online Dating Tip 3
Telling long stories with funny end is not a quite good idea - the end might not be that funny and the whole reading might be in vain. Coming up with a witty line at the moment of writing an e-mail is not always possible.
Its a good idea always to keep your ears opened for funny things, quotes, etc. Write them down the moment you hear them, or when they come to your
mind.
To get even more dating advice visit http://www.datingadvice.ws
