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Finding The Right Adoption Agency

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Finding The Right Adoption Agency

Adoption services and agencies are one of the most remarkable services in the world, because of the emotions involved. These are places where families who have been longing for years to have a child of their own are matched with children who have been orphaned by circumstances and in need of what they can call a family of their own. Adoption services have brought so much relief and happiness to an untold number of people worldwide. Adopting a child is always a joyful thing to both the adoptive parents and the adopted child but it's not all roses. The adoption process can also be a frustrating and confusing experience; therefore, it is always very important to make the right choice of adoption agency. There are several things that should be considered before deciding that an adoption agency is good enough for you.

Adoption agencies are usually licensed by the state authority and are subjected to rigorous inspections and regulations, which are carried out periodically, to ensure optimum services. Most agencies have staff scattered in different countries of the world who are on the agency's regular payroll. These staff members are required to aid international adoption. Such an arrangement is better than hiring individuals who only work in cooperation with the agency. An agency with international staff strength is bound to be more effective. This an important question to ask when dealing with an adoption agency, especially one that claims to be international in operation.

Another thing to consider when going in search of an adoption service is your budget. The whole process make a hole in your pocket, especially when you are not so buoyant financially. Depending on your pocket, your choice of service could vary. For those with a large budget, a private sector agency would be the best option. These agencies would help you research potential children available for adoption based on your criteria, however, the limitation to the use of such service is the price involved. Most families will not be able to afford such services in addition to adoption fees, travel costs, and other costs associated with adopting a child. A more budget-friendly option is the not-for-profit sources and social service agencies.

Nevertheless, whatever your budget and choice of adoption service, before opting for an adoption service, you will have to consider what you know about the agency. Where are they located and what service would they provide to you? Are they affiliated with government agencies, healthcare services or churches? The more that you know about the service, the better you can be prepared. To get first hand information on whatever service you want to use, you may have to first contact your state's licensing office to see if the agency's license is up to date. The Better Business Bureau (BBB) would be a good place to see if the agency has had any serious case files against it. You could also surf the Internet and make contacts with individuals who have used this particular agency's service in the past and hear what they think of it. You will find several chat rooms and news bulletin board that allow such communication and contacts.

Alternatively, you could request a list of previous clients from the agency itself, arrange to meet them and hear what they think of the agency and how satisfied they were with their service. No information is too much to protect you from the heartbreak that accompanies a failed adoption attempt.

In addition, an adoption agency should not mind telling you how they operate. You need to know what process they follow in connecting you with the baby you want to adopt. You have to know how the children and parents are selected and what you need to do to be qualified for the service. You also need to know what the agency does for legal matters. How involved do they want to be, legally? For instance, what happens when the birth mother decides to change her mind? Will the adoption agency handle the legal paperwork for you, or are they going to leave you to your fate. You have to know the roles of the birth parents in the whole process, to avoid interference from them when the adoption process is over. You deserve privacy and freedom with your adopted child, just like any other parent. You will also have to know where the babies are coming from and how they were gotten; to be sure it's completely legal.

You will need this, and much more information, to choose the right adoption service and to ensure that you will be getting an excellent service and a flawless and joyful adoption experience.
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BONUS : Focus On The Family: Can Working Mothers Have Their Cake And Eat It Too Without Parenting Burnout?

Not long ago “bringing home the bacon” was the father’s role but now working mothers are “bringing home the bacon” too. Today, 50% of the mothers in our country (with children living at home) are working full time and most experience the stress of trying to balance it all especially when it comes to parenting. Sound familiar?

The Only Way Working Mothers Can Have It All

Although working mothers bring home some of the bacon (and if you are a single mother all of the bacon), it hasn’t changed the fact that most working mothers are literally cooking the bacon too.

In The Widening Gap: Why American Working Families are in Jeopardy and What Can Be Done About, Dr Jody Heymann found that 80% of women report doing far more of the household chores than their spouse. In addition to taking on more chores, it is common for working mothers to have unrealistic expectations of themselves—parenting perfectly and being the perfect career woman also.

When asked if it is possible for working mothers to have it all, I always answer, “Yes. It is possible for working mothers to have it all but only when they ask for and accept help.”

The trouble is most working mothers have difficulty doing this—asking for help.

Preventing Working Mother Parenting Burnout

Even though most moms know it take a village to raise a child, most mothers don’t ask their village for help. This puts undue pressure on moms and their families.

Three simple ways mothers can ask for help and prevent parenting burnout:

Parenting is a big job in and of itself. Get real. You can’t do it all, by yourself. Realize that the best thing you can do for your family is to ask for help. Burning your candle at both ends only leads to burnout parenting!

Graciously accept help. When someone asks if they can help you, always answer “yes” and then figure out how. Let others in your life, especially your children and spouse, help you more. Remember to thank them and focus on what they did well so they will want to help you in future.

Find ways to farm out the things you don’t like to do. Don’t like to iron? Consider sending them to the cleaner and use this extra time to focus on your family. Don’t like to clean but love to cook? Trade chores with household members or with a girlfriend who loves to do the things you don’t.

How Mothers Can Focus on the Family and Get Their Work Done

The day you die your inbox will have messages unanswered, your laundry hamper will hold dirty clothes and your to do list will have items left incomplete. But on that day, will you look back and feel that your focus on the family was a fulfilling parenting journey, or sadly realize it had become a chore you felt you had to do?

Make certain your focus on the family is satisfying by choosing to balance your work and family by finally hanging up your “Super Mom” cape and letting others help you.
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