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Why Do Women Love Jerks Unveiling The Untold Secret Mystery With
Let us view the other side of the coin. What is it that a Jerk has, that makes women respond to him better? Even if they are voicing their dissent nobody treats me nicely! The answer to this dilemma is simple: Jerks exude self-confidence, without even knowing it!
Consider how Jerks carry themselves:
1. When he is livid, he makes no bones about it, its all over his face and actions.
2. He hardly cares for the opinion of others. His ego state is at an all time high: Im OK; rest of the world is NOT OK. Most importantly he does not idolize women.
3. He positions himself and his needs much before anything else. His sole priority is me. And talk about rejecting women? They do it faster than a wink!
4. He does not allow people to act rude or cheeky with him.
5. He doesnt care if actions hurt or insult a woman.
Though it may sound irrational, but it is these qualities of a Jerk that a woman sucks up to! It is no wonder then that a jerk gets his way around. But a jerks problem starts right here. He goes to the extremes, thereby appearing to be a selfish, egoistical, coarse individual. There is of course a middle path, but it is essential for you to realize and appreciate why these people emerge triumphant. It is not rare that we hear women refer to such guys as jerks, as if they were talking in very derogatory terms about them, and all you Nice Guys go home believing that it is the opposite behavior that women are looking for.
The truth of the matter, when you hear such whining, lies in an amalgamation of two factors:
1. Women voicing their protest, because they can no longer be in the drivers seat, so as to exercise control over the mans behavior, which they are so used to, and,
2. The guys unpardonable jerkish qualities
Come to think of it, if it was really true that this alleged jerk was so abominable that no woman would touch him with a bargepole, they would not associate with him in the first place. Of course, his aggressive nature is attractive, his selfishness is very macho, and his unrefined, coarse ways are cute to women, hence the attraction.
Incidentally, guys who have been dumped by women after being identified as jerks are out of my consideration set, because here the woman has validated her opinion by dumping him. I am essentially discussing about men, who women love to date, be friends with, and simultaneously crib about.
An admirable man is a true and honest gentleman, whose manners and deportment are impeccable. So, what are the qualities of a Jerk you must learn to avoid being that admirable man:
1. Unreasonable and unjustified throwing of tantrums (teach yourself some self-discipline and self-control)
2. Physical or mental abuse
3. Impolite and discourteous manners.
4. Purposefully bringing mental agony and trauma to the woman.
5. Haughty, self-centered and impolite attitude
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BONUS : Why Flaky Women And Dating Seldom Works
Flaky women and dating do not mix. Although there are exceptions when a woman does have a valid excuse to flake out and a little leeway is appropriate. However this should not be the case all the time.
Dating flaky women can be quite disheartening for most men. Flaky women tend to string men along and at the last minute drop them. This is both frustrating and exasperating for any man.
However there are some men that do live on this type of rejection, especially if a man really loves the woman. In this case, no matter how flaky the woman may be does not seem to discourage the man. But a man that continues to accept this type of degrading treatment can only expect to receive the same treatment every time.
Keep in mind that flaky women may take advantage of this and may even do it on purpose. A man who displays weakness can easily be tricked into believing that a woman likes them. When in fact she is simply toying with his affection.
Things to Remember when Dating Flaky Women
Dating flaky women can be quite confusing. However, the main thing is to be levelheaded and to be composed once a woman starts flaking out. It does not help to go nuts simply because a woman cancels a date at the last minute.
There may in fact be a logical reason for the cancellation. Although this scenario does not happen quite often, it is still better than thinking of the actual truth. As calmly as possible let her know that it is perfectly okay for her to cancel the date. Just keep in mind that there are a lot of women out there who would be more than willing to go out on a date.
Possible Reasons for Women Flaking Out
There are a number of reasons why women flake out. Most of the time some women are not really interested in a guy and have a hard time saying it.
The woman is afraid to hurt the feelings of the man could be possible although not at all times. In most cases, it may be because she simply wants to be friends with a man. Although this happens mainly to women with the men they date, it can also happen to men with the women they ask out on a date.
A man that gets the telephone number of a woman in a bar should not wait longer than three days to call them. Keep in mind that some women have short-term memories and would probably not remember what transpired more than five days ago on their social calendar. At best if a woman forgets, it is best to remind her gently and simply make a joke out of it so as not to appear foolish.
Sometimes it is best to be honest and tell a woman when she is flaking out. Most women are not aware of the fact that they are flaking out unless their attention is called. Doing so can certainly bring to a halt the possibility of flaking out. However proceed with caution, as some women are more likely to take this the wrong way.
The key is to be assertive yet gentle so as to sound dignified. Most women appreciate a man who is tactful and one who knows how to express his thoughts without looking like a fool in public.
Lessons for Dating Flaky Women
A man should never show a woman how eager he is to date her. A man who is too eager to date a woman is a prime target for flaking out. Eagerness at this point is a sign of weakness that the woman may take advantage of. Keep in mind that some women have learned from men the art of stringing men along.
Men should take a hint once a woman has already flaked out several times on a date. In most cases it is simply a waste of time to wait for a woman who does not have the time and possibly the inclination to go on a date.
Bear in mind, there are other women in the world who would gladly show up for a planned date. It is not a case for the mans self-respect to go downhill, as it is not his fault when a woman flakes out on a date.
Flaky women and dating do not mix. Although there are exceptions when a woman does have a valid excuse to flake out and a little leeway is appropriate. However this should not be the case all the time.
Dating flaky women can be quite disheartening for most men. Flaky women tend to string men along and at the last minute drop them. This is both frustrating and exasperating for any man.
However there are some men that do live on this type of rejection, especially if a man really loves the woman. In this case, no matter how flaky the woman may be does not seem to discourage the man. But a man that continues to accept this type of degrading treatment can only expect to receive the same treatment every time.
Keep in mind that flaky women may take advantage of this and may even do it on purpose. A man who displays weakness can easily be tricked into believing that a woman likes them. When in fact she is simply toying with his affection.
Things to Remember when Dating Flaky Women
Dating flaky women can be quite confusing. However, the main thing is to be levelheaded and to be composed once a woman starts flaking out. It does not help to go nuts simply because a woman cancels a date at the last minute.
There may in fact be a logical reason for the cancellation. Although this scenario does not happen quite often, it is still better than thinking of the actual truth. As calmly as possible let her know that it is perfectly okay for her to cancel the date. Just keep in mind that there are a lot of women out there who would be more than willing to go out on a date.
Possible Reasons for Women Flaking Out
There are a number of reasons why women flake out. Most of the time some women are not really interested in a guy and have a hard time saying it.
The woman is afraid to hurt the feelings of the man could be possible although not at all times. In most cases, it may be because she simply wants to be friends with a man. Although this happens mainly to women with the men they date, it can also happen to men with the women they ask out on a date.
A man that gets the telephone number of a woman in a bar should not wait longer than three days to call them. Keep in mind that some women have short-term memories and would probably not remember what transpired more than five days ago on their social calendar. At best if a woman forgets, it is best to remind her gently and simply make a joke out of it so as not to appear foolish.
Sometimes it is best to be honest and tell a woman when she is flaking out. Most women are not aware of the fact that they are flaking out unless their attention is called. Doing so can certainly bring to a halt the possibility of flaking out. However proceed with caution, as some women are more likely to take this the wrong way.
The key is to be assertive yet gentle so as to sound dignified. Most women appreciate a man who is tactful and one who knows how to express his thoughts without looking like a fool in public.
Lessons for Dating Flaky Women
A man should never show a woman how eager he is to date her. A man who is too eager to date a woman is a prime target for flaking out. Eagerness at this point is a sign of weakness that the woman may take advantage of. Keep in mind that some women have learned from men the art of stringing men along.
Men should take a hint once a woman has already flaked out several times on a date. In most cases it is simply a waste of time to wait for a woman who does not have the time and possibly the inclination to go on a date.
Bear in mind, there are other women in the world who would gladly show up for a planned date. It is not a case for the mans self-respect to go downhill, as it is not his fault when a woman flakes out on a date.
