What Is The Right Way To Approach A Woman

What Is The Right Way To Approach A Woman

Many men feel that the act of approaching a woman especially in case she is very beautiful stranger a difficult and embarrassing one. Not only that, they usually choose the wrong attitude of being too nice and over openhanded with flowers, invitations for dinners and expressing their lack of confidence and low self esteem.

The women on their part are not fascinated to insecure, hypocrite, wussy men. They will either decline him on the spot or possibly more shocking take advantage of the situation by exploiting him to furnish her meal after meal, gift after gift and normally go out with additional man for real love, romance and sex. In this situation the woman has two men a provider and a lover.

The good boy, fawning, wussy approach may be seen Whenever a man is inviting a woman to dance or offer to pay for her drinks a drink without first to develop the attraction or chemistry.

Is Cocky rather then Wussy is the answer?

The sweet boy attitude isn't the best way as we explained before and acting really mean and rude will not succeed as well, the best way which has proven 90% of the times to work magically with women is the confident, bold, cocky and funny attitude.

In this tactic you build the relationships on a give and take, a compliment and a bust (with a smile), you indicate the woman you'r confident enough to criticize her, you express yourself naturally around women, you are not scared of her, you are not concerned if she cares about you or not, you'r honest and express your opinions openly, you are playing the self assured hard to get funny guy. Now you bring her self confidence to the test, you challenge her, you intrigue her, you build the attraction. Let her chase you! You ought to be her prize, a reward for her hard earned efforts for playing her cards right with you.

For instance you start and Say something like: I like your jacket it's really nice (a compliment), then comment: but it doesn't fit so well with your shoos does it ? (a bust), you do it on purpose, you should practice on it.

You must manipulate her like hand it to her and then take it away in the last minute, be spontaneous, unexpected, a teaser and fascinating.

How would you know if she is interested in you?

Its simpler than you believe and it goes like that: You engage with her: What a beautiful pair of boots you'r wearing , I really like them, She is looking who is it and then say: Thank you. You: arent you melting in them at such a hot weather? (smiling) or are you trying to hide your feet from me? She: (smiling) hell, no, I love them thats all, Ill bet my feet are nicer compared to yours, Mr. long nose. (she responded therefore she is engaged too *-). You: wow, I understand you own a very good opinion about yourself pretty lady, why wont we arrange a feet contest...

The crucial thing is to keep it going with light humoristic and fun attitude. Without ever even realizing it you are both engaged in developing a relationship and building your mutual attraction.

When you start dating with a woman take into account you are not on a job interview, don't cause it feel like questions and answers, don't make it boring, don't try to show off, talk with her about general stuff she understands and sympathize with, such as popular Television shows and such, it can look to you at the begining somewhat superficial but this is the way to take. Try to keep away from, at least at first, to talk about your problems at work, your relations with your parents etc'.

BONUS : What Kind Of Dating Partner Are You Searching For?

Do you know about what kind of dating partner are you looking for? Have you broadly specified the qualities that you are looking for in your dating partner? If not it is time you do that. Otherwise, you will never get satisfied with any dating partner. If you yourself do not know what you are looking for, how will you succeed?

Unfortunately, when we look for to buy anything, we try to find out what we are looking for. But when it comes to a dating partner, many of us have no clue about what kind of person will satisfy them. Let us look at some qualities that may specify your partner.

Physical - Are you looking for a great specimen? A smashing looker? Will you be happy, even if the other person is lacking in intelligence but has a great body? Or you need more intelligence and an Ok, body? Are you prepared to compromise on looks if your partner is otherwise good, or good looks are a must? Please think hard and decide.

Emotional - What should be the emotional makeup of your partner? Will you be emotionally satisfied only if you find a caring partner? Or you need someone for who you will care? Should your partner have his/her emotions ruling over the head? Are you looking for a very compassionate person or someone very tough and emotionally strong? Someone who begins crying looking at a miserable scene or one who will say - this is what life is and walk away? Emotions rule every facet of our life. We must know our emotional make up and also know about the emotions we desire in our partner. Please prepare a long list of questions about emotions you desire your partner to have in plenty and try to find out before you proceed further. If your partner is short tempered and if you hate anger, you will never love him/her. Am I correct? Please define your priorities.

Intellectual - Will anyone with normal intellect satisfy you, or you need someone who can write volumes on any given subject. What is your intellectual level and what kind of partner are you seeking in this area? Please decide very carefully about this. This quality is many times responsible for destroying relationships. Sometimes, people of average intellect manage to attract some one of very high intellect and then suffer from this complex all through their life.

Goals - What are your values in life? What are your goals about money, children, family life and other areas? If your partner has different values and life goals, it will be destruction right from day one.

If we know what we are looking for, we present ourselves as thinking individuals who know their minds to any dating partner. You will be respected for that and will surely attract the one you desire.