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Alpha Body Language: What It Is And How To Get It
Perhaps you have been wondering why other men get more attracted glances from the opposite sexes than you when you thought that theres nothing really that much difference between them and you especially if youd talk about physical appearances. And because you worry too much about this concern, you probably have splurged and treat yourself to gigantic makeovers just to make sure you wont be left behind in terms of alpha male visual appearance or even aiming to outdo this lucky male species around. This action of yours could bring your aura a difference and could elevate your charm into a higher level but it seems this is not entirely enough. Those lucky guys are still getting those glances from the dreamy eyes of many women. What could be those alpha males possess that you dont?
With this case at hand, you should have looked long ago on how your vibes are affecting those human beings who belong to the opposite sexes. Notice how high-status-man strut their trot around; notice how they move carelessly but confidently; notice how they project so well when you thought they really lack the real value of a face or physique. Perhaps, you have been too consumed on the belief that physical being per se is the most important aspect in order to attract women. This is where you could be wrong but you can change your outlook easily and emanate the charm and attraction you so crave about. The secret of alpha males lies in their body language.
The truth why these males move around with so much difference than the likes of you is they know how to project their body language and ooze with so much animalistic appeal that make them hot stuff among women. The alpha males body language make women drool over them they practically would follow them around just so theyd get a chance to meet these hot stuffs. These alpha males move around with ease, natural, and relaxed way you would almost believe they are oblivious to what is happening around them but in truth, alert and smart enough to know the buzz around.
Alpha males dont allow worries to grasp their attention too much, they let these slip away from them and instead take things in neutral manner so that they wont dwell much on thoughts that would take their logical sense away. You would find these alpha males generally move unhurriedly but with an exact sense of direction and greater control of time so that they evidence of nervousness wont appear and do not produce jerky movements like that with beta males. Simple body languages like these are not that difficult to master.
If you would want to portray aura like of those alpha males and end those lousy beta male movements of yours, it wouldnt take you long before you realize that more women would be clamoring for your attention. First off, start with assessing your body language. Perhaps you only need to break the thin line etched between being a beta male and transform yourself into an alpha male. Perhaps, your body language is the one that needs a total makeover and gain that impression and characteristic that alpha males are rich of. By starting to eliminate your body language or your movements and behaviors that convey lack of confidence on your part or being unsure of yourself, this could be the turning point to release those unconscious turn-off habits of yours.
As mentioned earlier, the key to being an alpha male is by being relaxed in all your movements. If you ooze a natural appeal, you could be easily trap attention and instantly get noticed by those human species belonging to opposite sexes without exerting too much effort on your part.
BONUS : Alpha Male And Nurturing Love
A woman can love basically in two ways:
- Adult Love
- Nurturing Love
Nurturing love is an instinct. As such it is stronger than her will. In a word: women are hardwired to nurture. This instinct is meant to have children grow up safely.
Nature is sometimes a bitch. Instincts are very primitive brain features and they are meant to overcome our conscious will. Sometimes they direct themselves there, where they should not.
As alpha male if you let a woman nurture you what will happen is that it will destroy her sexual desire towards you and also her respect towards you will die sooner or later.
A good example of how a real male relates to his own weaknesses is from the life of Julius Caesar. He suffered of terrible headaches and he treated them by.. long, strenuous marches with all the weathers.
As alpha Male your destiny is to protect other people and live your life without being nurtured too much. You are alone with that job. You should not fear death and sickness. You should cope without nurturing.
Having said that we can distinguish two group of women in regard of how they express nurturing love.
The HSE (High self-esteem ) woman is very often not completely conscious of what she is doing when she is nurturing someone – there are of course exceptional women who have a full touch into their instincts but they are rare. When a HSE woman nurtures someone her nurturing is full of joy and positive frames. She enjoys it fully and it is for her a happy activity. Another feature of the HSE woman is that she will lose very fast her love and interest in an adult male if he lets her nurture him too much. Her nurturing is made for children and people who are weak and sick not for her big guy.
The LSE (Low self-esteem ) woman exhibits what I call malignant nurturing. You can recognize malignant nurturing by the fact that it is full of negative, depressive frames and tends to castrate the male early on by demonstrating that: ”You can't cope without my nurturing” and soon after: ”You are not a real man because you need me so much.” either said straightly or sub-communicated. This is especially a feature of LSE LD (Low self-esteem low sexual drive ) women.
How a healthy alpha male relates to nurturing? Simple: that is stuff for children, not for him.
One feature of some women is that they will very often feel ”offended” or ”uneasy” if a guy who enters a relationship with them does not let them nurture him.
Keep your positions then: don't let her do it to you. You need to live your life by being totally undependent from the need for nurturing. You do not need to be extreme in refusing nurturing: sometimes it is nice to be offered a cup of coffee or measured temperature when sick but the overall frame should be: a big man does not need nurturing!
Effects of nurturing on sexuality and respect:
- If a male lets his woman nurture him too much what will happen is that the sexual desire of this woman and her respect for him will die. Period.
- An alpha male can remain alpha in a relationship with a woman by practicing adult love with her and kindly refusing of being nurtured. Period.
- A beta male should never even start a relationship with a woman and/or a fatherhood before he has freed himself completely from the need of being nurtured. Period.