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Identifing Narcissistic People Early
Narcissistic men and women are so self centered and self indulgent that they see friends and lovers as mere extensions of themselves. They are obsessed with flattery and demand to be adored and have attention to themselves at all times.
Unfortunately, these narcissistic types are very seductive and you may at first be attracted to them without realizing what you are stepping into. Because their egos are so very fragile, they constantly crave attention which eventually puts their partner at risk of being on the loosing end of the relationship.
To help you with some tips on identifying whether or not he or she is a narcissistic type, ask yourself the following questions:
1. Does he or she loose interest when they are not the center of attention?
2. Are most conversations about them, whether you try to change the subject or not?
3. Is your partner always fishing for compliments?
4. If you criticize him or her, do they literally fall apart at that criticism, especially if it refers to their looks or their mistakes?
5. Do you catch them talking about all of their supposed 'lost loves' whom each seemed to have had major flaws in which he or she had to break up with them?
6. If he or she is not getting special treatment or constant attention do they get mad or have a temper tantrums? For example if when they are not waiting on fast enough in restaurants, or did not get the best seats at the movies, are they upset?
7. Do you find a pattern of this person using people just to get what they want and then discarding them when their own needs are met?
If the man or women you are interested in shows any number of these types of behaviors then you may want to be careful. These are not the type of people to get involved in a relationship with if you want equal attention and love.
BONUS : If Youre An Actual Mommys Boy, Dont Even Bother To Seduce A Woman
Men have a weakness for insatiable desire for sex. A woman will toy with this desire but once she gives in to sex, the man will get back in control. and if she witholds sex, he simply looks elsewhere. With so many articles on how to seduce women. There are that many books on how to impress a Woman. But how, really, do you get her attention, keep her attention, and make her come back for more of the wonderful you? Do you follow the mens versions of The Rules, that say you wait x number of times, you avoid a, b, c, and you be sure to always do d, e, and f? Do you follow the special advice on how to seduce women who are hot or who are rich? Do you go with the psychology of genders, and follow the generalizations that all girls want Brad Pitt, all women are on diets, and all girls love to shop?
If you do try to abide by the rules of any of the above, arent you eliminating a number of options to meet and maybe get involved with a woman who loves cars and can drop an engine, rebuild it, and replace it in three weeks? Wont you be leaving out the women who have no money but are potential money-makers as they are working two jobs and taking classes at night to become a veterinarian or a geologist?
You get the idea. Following some (I said some) advice on how to seduce women might in fact have the opposite effect: you may gross her out (if shes not like the girls targeted in the how-to-seduce-women-manual) when you were trying to intrigue her, you may make her laugh when you intended to make her swoon, or you may make her scream when you meant to make her giggle or laugh.
So how about this? How about following a few righteous and fair methods that work almost every time because you werent working at them or werent working her?
Therefore it would be wiser to use intelligent ways to seduce a woman then just act smart. Or what do you think? There are more ways to do this, there are the good and better ways and some worse. For example, Most men are so immoral that they use their wits to coarse women just to have sex, and manipulating them like sex objects albeit cunningly. This kind of approach will require you to have a little intelligence, you'll have to know how the woman mind work in order to outsmart them, control the game and win it using their own weapons. But before you get to keen on the idea just remember that there are other, more honest ways of winning a woman's admiration.