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Ive Met Someone, How Do I Get Our Conversation Started On Our Date?
Thats good, youve made it to first base! The effort you took to get this date has paid off, and now you need help on what you should say to keep the person interested. Well, you could try some of these tips that my help you get your conversation started:
1) Always and foremost, be yourself! Dont fake who you are or pretend youre someone youre not. This will certainly catch up with you later! Being yourself on your date is the best way to go. The person you are seeing gets to see the real you. They can decide if theyre going to continue to be interested in you or not. If they are still interested thats good! If not, thats okay too. Just move on to someone who will like you for you!
2) Break the ice by introducing yourself and providing information about yourself that you feel comfortable letting someone know about you. You could tell your date about your hobbies, occupation, movies or games you would like to see and play, and other interests that you may have.
3) Smile. Thats right, smile sometimes with your date. This can help you and your date to release nervous tension you may have built up before and during your date. Smiling helps you to relax and become more comfortable with each other. So go ahead, try it! It wont hurt. Your date will probably love your beautiful or handsome smile.
4) Get comfortable with your date by considering being creative to assist in keeping the conversation going between the two of you. Maybe, you and your date can pick a topic to discuss such as; current events, sports, movies or plays you have seen. This could make your conversation very interesting and youll get to learn more about each other. Isnt that great? I thought so!
5) Remember your first impression to your date may be your last impression. So make sure you remain true to who you are and the person youre dating. If it is meant for you to be with the person youre dating, then youll know. If not, youll know you should move on to someone else. Just remember to put your best foot forward and remain honest. Not only will you keep your self respect, others including your date, will respect you too.
So, youve got some tips to assist you with what you can do to get the conversation started once you get your date. Go ahead, you can do it! Just start using some or all of these tips to help you to get your conversation started for your date.
BONUS : I Want To Date My Friend, Should I Ask Them Out?
Maybe yes, maybe no, this depends on the relationship you have with your friend. Will asking your friend out make them uncomfortable? Or,is it that you both feel the same way but dont know how to approach each other about this subject.
You say, you dont want to ruin the relationship you have with your friend, if you ask them out for a date and they say no. You couldnt deal with the rejection and embarrassment that you may feel later on.
Sandra has known Tom for three years and they are close friends. Tom has had a crush on Sandra for the last two years but does not know how to let Sandra know how he feels. Ironically, Sandra has wanted to date Tom since they met while attending college classes three years ago. She has been wanting Tom to ask her out on a formal date, but he hasnt. She even thought about asking him out, but she was unsure if this would create problems for their friendship. Neither one of them know what they should do, so they havent done anything about how they feel.
Could it be that your friend is feeling the same way you do, but also has a fear of rejection as well! Theres got to be an easier way to break the ice, to get us both past this, if we think our relationship can be more than a friendship.
Are there some signs that you both are giving off that may make you think you are attracted to each other in a romantic way outside of your friendship? Well, here are some signs that you may want to look for, when you consider approaching your friend about going on a date and developing your romantic relationship:
1. You both enjoy spending lots of time together and never seem to get enough of each other.
2. Both of you find yourselves staring at each other for long periods of time but dont say how you feel about each other romantically.
3. You both spend almost everyday with each other and you feel like that no day is complete without spending time together.
4. Both of you feel butterflies inside when you see each other and are very anxious and happy to be together.
5. You and your friend think about each other all the time. You both find that you say each others names all the time. You even sometimes complete each others sentences.
Well, if you and your friend have any of these signs then it sounds like youre more than just good friends! You must be in love! Its probably a good idea at this point to go for it! Ask your friend out on a date. Chances are, your friend may have wanted to do the same thing. Youll be happy you did. Both of you will probably wonder why you didnt do this sooner. Looks like Sandra and Tom will be asking each other out on a date soon!