I Have Kids Should I Tell My Date

I Have Kids, Should I Tell My Date?

Yes, yes, and yes! Let your date know you have kids on your first date. If your date can’t accept the fact that you have kids then this is a red flag that you should not go on a date with this person. Your kids are part of who you are, if your date has a problem with this then they have a problem with you.

Kenneth says to himself, I really like Sharon, and I know she is single and has no kids cause I overheard her tell her trainer Irene at the gym that she doesn’t. I really want to ask her out on a date, but I have four kids that I’m raising on my own and I don’t think she’ll like me when she finds out. I’m not sure what I should do.

Sharon says to herself, there’s this guy I met at the gym his name is Kenneth. I really like him, he always seems to know the right things to say and is so polite! I’d really like to go out with him. I just don’t think he’ll go out with me. I’m feeling guilty because I lied to my trainer Irene the other day and told her that I don’t have any kids. I actually have three children. I told Irene this out loud so Kenneth could hear what I said and maybe he might want to date me. I’m not sure what I should do now. I’d really like to go out with Kenneth. I just don’t know how I should tell him about my kids.

How do I go about telling my date about my kids? You can tell your date about your kids by using some of these tips:

1) Invite your date to pick you up for your date at your home and introduce them to your kids.

2) Consider making a meal for your date at your home and have your kids take part in the meal. This is the perfect opportunity for you to introduce you date to your kids.

3) During your date while making conversation, let your date know you have children. Also take the opportunity to find out if your date has children as well.

4) If you correspond with your date via telephone or email prior to seeing each other in person, let your date know you have kids.

You say, I told my date that I have kids and they don’t want to go on another date with me, what should I do? Do nothing, consider yourself lucky that you found out that your date does not like kids. You didn’t need to be with that person anyway. Good ritenance to them. Just move on! Date someone who will accept you and your kids, that’s more important.

The sooner you let your date know you have kids the sooner you can get past this issue if it becomes a problem. The whole idea of dating is to date someone you are compatible with and who will want you for who you are no matter if you have children!

BONUS : I’ve Met Someone, How Do I Get Our Conversation Started On Our Date?

That’s good, you’ve made it to first base! The effort you took to get this date has paid off, and now you need help on what you should say to keep the person interested. Well, you could try some of these tips that my help you get your conversation started:

1) Always and foremost, be yourself! Don’t fake who you are or pretend you’re someone you’re not. This will certainly catch up with you later! Being yourself on your date is the best way to go. The person you are seeing gets to see the real you. They can decide if they’re going to continue to be interested in you or not. If they are still interested that’s good! If not, that’s okay too. Just move on to someone who will like you for you!

2) Break the ice by introducing yourself and providing information about yourself that you feel comfortable letting someone know about you. You could tell your date about your hobbies, occupation, movies or games you would like to see and play, and other interests that you may have.

3) Smile. That’s right, smile sometimes with your date. This can help you and your date to release nervous tension you may have built up before and during your date. Smiling helps you to relax and become more comfortable with each other. So go ahead, try it! It won’t hurt. Your date will probably love your beautiful or handsome smile.

4) Get comfortable with your date by considering being creative to assist in keeping the conversation going between the two of you. Maybe, you and your date can pick a topic to discuss such as; current events, sports, movies or plays you have seen. This could make your conversation very interesting and you’ll get to learn more about each other. Isn’t that great? I thought so!

5) Remember your first impression to your date may be your last impression. So make sure you remain true to who you are and the person you’re dating. If it is meant for you to be with the person you’re dating, then you’ll know. If not, you’ll know you should move on to someone else. Just remember to put your best foot forward and remain honest. Not only will you keep your self respect, others including your date, will respect you too.

So, you’ve got some tips to assist you with what you can do to get the conversation started once you get your date. Go ahead, you can do it! Just start using some or all of these tips to help you to get your conversation started for your date.