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How To Overcome Your Shyness With Women
Dont worry about. Many men are shy with women. Some dont really get over it, but the good news is, most men do. Its just about self-confidence. Most men are shy because they fear rejection. Being rejected or turn away can be quite an embarrassing situation, but if you handle it right theres nothing to it. This is a very normal reaction, but if you never take the risk, you risk losing the woman who might very well be the right one for you. Shyness shouldnt hold you back.
If you continue to be dominated with your shyness you will live a life that is lonely and depressed. It will interfere with the natural ability to coexist with the opposite sex, you will just be holding yourself back from enjoying their company. If you are shy with women, you will lose the ability to communicate well with them, you will be too preoccupied with their reaction and your actions, in other words, youll be uptight. Shyness is easily noticeable, women will perceive this as a sign of weakness, thus losing the chance to really get to know you better. You dont want that. Here are some tips and guides on how to get over shyness with women.
Build up your confidence. Do not be afraid of rejections. One good way in building confidence in getting over shyness with women is picking up or meeting women for others. When you do this, you eliminate the factor of the fear of being rejected. Since it is not for you, they may say no not because of you, but because of your friend. If you have mastered this, you may soon be picking or meeting up a girl for yourself.
Casually open up yourself to everybody, not just to women. Learn to smile a lot more, smiling is much more contagious than the flu. But dont be too over eager do it gradually. In time youll be open up to everybody, even the women.
Dont look at women as another being, treat her as a more refined guy friend. Be causal at firs, dont look at her as a sexual object. Have a nice casual talk and things will just develop later on. If all your after is getting laid, women will see right through you. Be gentle with the women but dont look a her as a goddess as well. If you act like the woman is too nice for you, youll never go anywhere. She will sense it and think as well.
Do not expect anything. If you get into her face expecting so much, youll be in for a lot of disappointment. This is how jerks are classified. Being too confident is also a bane in the dating scene. Just go with the flow of everything and enjoy yourself.
Do not be afraid of getting rejected. If you dont take the risk youll never know if you could have had her as a great friend. The key in doing this is to stop taking things personally. Sometimes, there are people who dont really mean what they say. You cannot be bothered if you dont take it personally. Just dont be too self-conscious, and soon enough youll get over your shyness with women.
Getting over shyness with women is not an easy task, but not impossible. You will just have to learn to trust yourself, try to socialize more. Get out and explore. Everything starts and depends with you.
BONUS : How To Pick The Online Dating Site Thats Right For You
Online Dating is drawing more and more people to the Internet in search of love, but the abundance of dating sites can be confusing for many. Here are a few points to keep in mind when trying to decide what dating site to sign up to.
Know what you want
Different websites cater to different people and their needs. In fact, there is probably a site out there catering to any possible part of the population. When coming to choose a site, it helps to know in advance what you want to get out of your online dating experience. You could be looking for new friends, casual relationships, marriage etc. Some sites cater to a specific requirement, while others are more generic in nature.
A few things to remember:
Free sites have an obvious advantage but are also often a haven for scammers and timewasters. Good sites have moderating systems in place to keep the site safe.
Bigger sites have more members, but there is no guarantee the people on there will be into the same things as you.
Smaller niche sites are more likely to cater to your needs, but will have fewer members.
Similarly, sites catering to local people will allow you to meet only people who live in your area, but bigger sites will increase your chances of meeting suitable people.
Look Around
Its worth spending time checking out a few different sites before you commit yourself to spending time and money on a particular one. Recommendations from friends and family can help as a starting point, but if you dont like what you see, try some other places and make up your own mind. A good way to start searching is by typing a particular word (or words) followed by the word dating into a search engine (for example: Indian dating, single parent dating etc.) Most sites let you perform searches for free, so you can see what type of people use the site and whether there are any members from your area. Be wary of sites that require you to pay anything or put your credit card details in before allowing you to run a search.
Treat this research stage in the same way you would when planning to buy anything else. Questions to ask yourself are:
Is the site easy to use?
Does a search produce enough profiles of people who could potentially be suitable?
Are the membership prices affordable?
Does it offer useful features such as a chat function etc.?
The look and feel of the site, while important, is never as important as the people who are on the site. Do not be put off immediately by a site you find unattractive. Its worth running a search and seeing whether the sites members make up for its lack of style. Similarly, a well-designed site is no guarantee that you will find what you are looking for.
Sign up for a trial
Many sites let you sign up for a trial, free or otherwise, before committing yourself to spending the full membership fee. When signing up for a trial, make sure you take the time to read the terms and conditions. This is particularly important if the free trial requires you to put your credit card details in, as many places would require you to actively cancel your trial membership by a certain point of be charged the full amount. Never agree to terms you havent fully read and understood.
Once signed up for the trial, make the most of it.
Some sites let you put up a profile for free, and its best to do that before you sign up for a trial, to save you time. In either case, make sure your profile is the best it can be and contact as many people as you can. This will help you see if you are getting any promising responses worth paying the extra money for.
Give it time
Keep in mind, that instant results are not very common. There are many factors that could influence the results you get and not all of them are to do with the quality of the site. Depending on the length of the trial you got, it may be too soon to know whether you could meet someone on a particular site or not. If you are getting no responses, though, or the wrong kind of responses, you may not want to keep spending money on the site. Some sites will let you leave a profile up even without paying, so you can see if any responses are coming in and decide whether its worth spending the money in order to read them.
Dont give up
If you cant find what youre looking for on one site: try another one. There is a site out there for anyone, you just need to keep looking and you will find the place where your kind of people hang out.
Online Dating is drawing more and more people to the Internet in search of love, but the abundance of dating sites can be confusing for many. Here are a few points to keep in mind when trying to decide what dating site to sign up to.
Know what you want
Different websites cater to different people and their needs. In fact, there is probably a site out there catering to any possible part of the population. When coming to choose a site, it helps to know in advance what you want to get out of your online dating experience. You could be looking for new friends, casual relationships, marriage etc. Some sites cater to a specific requirement, while others are more generic in nature.
A few things to remember:
Free sites have an obvious advantage but are also often a haven for scammers and timewasters. Good sites have moderating systems in place to keep the site safe.
Bigger sites have more members, but there is no guarantee the people on there will be into the same things as you.
Smaller niche sites are more likely to cater to your needs, but will have fewer members.
Similarly, sites catering to local people will allow you to meet only people who live in your area, but bigger sites will increase your chances of meeting suitable people.
Look Around
Its worth spending time checking out a few different sites before you commit yourself to spending time and money on a particular one. Recommendations from friends and family can help as a starting point, but if you dont like what you see, try some other places and make up your own mind. A good way to start searching is by typing a particular word (or words) followed by the word dating into a search engine (for example: Indian dating, single parent dating etc.) Most sites let you perform searches for free, so you can see what type of people use the site and whether there are any members from your area. Be wary of sites that require you to pay anything or put your credit card details in before allowing you to run a search.
Treat this research stage in the same way you would when planning to buy anything else. Questions to ask yourself are:
Is the site easy to use?
Does a search produce enough profiles of people who could potentially be suitable?
Are the membership prices affordable?
Does it offer useful features such as a chat function etc.?
The look and feel of the site, while important, is never as important as the people who are on the site. Do not be put off immediately by a site you find unattractive. Its worth running a search and seeing whether the sites members make up for its lack of style. Similarly, a well-designed site is no guarantee that you will find what you are looking for.
Sign up for a trial
Many sites let you sign up for a trial, free or otherwise, before committing yourself to spending the full membership fee. When signing up for a trial, make sure you take the time to read the terms and conditions. This is particularly important if the free trial requires you to put your credit card details in, as many places would require you to actively cancel your trial membership by a certain point of be charged the full amount. Never agree to terms you havent fully read and understood.
Once signed up for the trial, make the most of it.
Some sites let you put up a profile for free, and its best to do that before you sign up for a trial, to save you time. In either case, make sure your profile is the best it can be and contact as many people as you can. This will help you see if you are getting any promising responses worth paying the extra money for.
Give it time
Keep in mind, that instant results are not very common. There are many factors that could influence the results you get and not all of them are to do with the quality of the site. Depending on the length of the trial you got, it may be too soon to know whether you could meet someone on a particular site or not. If you are getting no responses, though, or the wrong kind of responses, you may not want to keep spending money on the site. Some sites will let you leave a profile up even without paying, so you can see if any responses are coming in and decide whether its worth spending the money in order to read them.
Dont give up
If you cant find what youre looking for on one site: try another one. There is a site out there for anyone, you just need to keep looking and you will find the place where your kind of people hang out.
