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How To Hold A Girl S Hands
Are you looking for opportunities to connect with a girl? Then holding her hand is the perfect means of reaching out to her. Whether you are beginning a relationship or growing it, here are three sure ways to connect and hold her hand.
Gimme Five
Gimme five is a classic opportunity to hold hands. Well, technically, you dont hold hands, but touch hands, and that should be a good start. Use this technique if you are not entirely sure about your feelings towards a girl, or if you are still testing the waters.
As you go on about your friendship, there will be an opportunity to connect, to feel without committing, to see if sparks will fly. When you share a victorious moment, say winning a foosball game or finishing a project, ask the girl to give you five by holding out your palm facing up and say, Gimme five! With such a friendly and risk-free move, she will definitely oblige. As soon as she slaps your hand, momentarily close your eyes and savor the experience. If you felt sparks, then shes definitely a keeper. If not, then dont lose hope, there are other opportunities to physically connect with her and test if the relationship is headed somewhere.
I Got You
This opportunity to hold a girls hand arises when the girl is about to overcome an obstacle and would need support, say as she alights from a vehicle or flight of stairs or when leaping across a puddle of water. Do the following:
As the girl is about to embark on the activity, look into her eyes and convey, without words, that you are there for her. If shes looked away and is concentrating on the obstacle in front of her, then bravely declare that you are there by saying, I got you or here, and simultaneously hold out your hand with the palms up and fingers slightly cupped. No girl can resist a helping hand and an assured voice.
As she takes your hands, you will feel that she will cup her hands onto your palms, as if securing herself on you and may put on some weight, especially when shes on her way down.
Respond by securely cupping your fingers and locking your elbows and shoulders to accept the added weight that she will put on you. Just be conscious not to grip too hard, as she may feel a strain if her hands are squeezed too tight.
As she overcomes her obstacle, gently ease the grip, but dont let go of her hands just yet. This is a decision moment for you, whether to take the opportunity to continue holding her hand, or to let her go and hope for a next time.
If you decide to hold on, then ease into to the next type of holding hands, for a more comfortable connection.
If you decide to let go, then make sure she remembers the experience. As you ease-up the grip, warm up her hands to convey the honor and pleasure you experienced in the opportunity to secure her. Caress her hand by sliding your thumb on top of her hand or sliding you fingers at the side of her hand. At the same time, ask if shes ok, or if shes ready to go. Soon as she says shes ok, gently let go and politely bid her to, take care on your way, or have a good walk.
Locked to Me
If you are in a stable relationship, then you know that physical intimacy is part of fostering your bond. Holding hands is an intricate part of your relationship. Whether you do it in private or public, holding hands does not only connect your emotions but enhances it as well. One of the most common types of holding hands is the locked to me way.
This style has to do with interlocking your fingers with hers, as you hold hands. Do this by putting your palms together, as if in prayer.
As your palms align, the fingers will naturally align. However, to be intertwined, pivot your palm slightly sideways and open up the spaces in between your fingers.
As your fingers open up, the girls fingers will naturally fall into the spaces in between, so both your fingers alternate with each other. Just curl your gingers to the back of the others palms and your fingers and hands become locked to each other.
As your relationship grows, you may discover other ways of holding hands, and those that will suit yours and her hand type. The important thing is never letting go, for as long as your hands are together, you and her become one.
BONUS : How To Impress Women The Easy Way!
Most men have their own way on how they can attract women. It only requires some moves to impress her. There are some obvious acts in a mans behavior that makes a man to impress a woman. Look on how a man behaves in front of woman. There are certain approaches that may be observed in some instances. Men know what they want and they do know how to hide those real motives for that girl.
The intention when a man wants to impress a woman can be associated to the feeling that he wants to look good in front of the girl he really likes. The impression that a person wants to build up on himself is always good traits on his personality. The best behavior of a man can be seen in these situations where his bad side is set aside to establish himself as the perfect choice for that girl.
When a person is trying to impress a target woman, he tends to be the best that he can be. He may tell only cool things that can capture the heart of a woman. Sometimes he may act a little nervous and anxious in moments when he is with the girl. Men are good in getting the interests of the woman, especially on the things they want to hear and have. These can be misleading sometimes. Women can get a little tricky on what they say and tell.
Others seem to back-pedal on some comments, where the girl do not believe or do not like what he said. Some changes their perspective even if they know that it is right and true. They tend to be a little careful on their statements especially when the topic is about them. It can be too risky if the person tries to make some teasing or making comments about the girl. These acts can be a little over the edge at times, because they are too obvious and many women see it like more of an old-fashioned style.
Here are some tips where a man can impress the girl of his dreams:
1. A man should ask questions about the girl. He may share his dreams and failures to get the attention of the girl. The man may realize that the girl is sharing her experiences as well. There could be some point that the girl is open to answer questions relating to the persons own interests. This is an indication that she may fall into the persons way of conversation.
2. A man should show some interest to the stories that the woman tells. Listening to her is very important to get her attention. This means that the man is willing to understand and sacrifice for the girl. This is good way to impress a woman. Avoid talking too much about adventures and achievements. Most women do not want themselves to sit all night listening.
3. A man should always be presentable. Most women are notorious when it comes to fashion and accessories. If a man wants to impress this woman, he must put some style and be attractive enough to get the attention of others. Know the fact that girls will treat a man like their own accessory. If a man knows how to be good-looking and how to smell good, the girl has just gotten what she wants on a man.
4. A man should always be a gentle man. He must behave well every time he is with the girl. A man should always practice chivalrous behavior. A man must be attentive on what must be the proper way to treat a woman. He should always take care of the girl and do not forget table manners when a man is dating a woman.
5. Do not forget to have eye contact with the girl. Adding a friendly smile can capture her attention. Be sure that there is no malice that will initiate a wrong impression in her part.
6. He should exhibit a strong personality by showing that there is confidence to the intentions he wants to express. Being jealous to other men can lessen the self-esteem.
A man can impress a woman by not being predictable, a man should always be true to himself and be honest to the girl he likes. It is always a plus for many women if a man they meet stand by his own principles in a very humble way.
Most men have their own way on how they can attract women. It only requires some moves to impress her. There are some obvious acts in a mans behavior that makes a man to impress a woman. Look on how a man behaves in front of woman. There are certain approaches that may be observed in some instances. Men know what they want and they do know how to hide those real motives for that girl.
The intention when a man wants to impress a woman can be associated to the feeling that he wants to look good in front of the girl he really likes. The impression that a person wants to build up on himself is always good traits on his personality. The best behavior of a man can be seen in these situations where his bad side is set aside to establish himself as the perfect choice for that girl.
When a person is trying to impress a target woman, he tends to be the best that he can be. He may tell only cool things that can capture the heart of a woman. Sometimes he may act a little nervous and anxious in moments when he is with the girl. Men are good in getting the interests of the woman, especially on the things they want to hear and have. These can be misleading sometimes. Women can get a little tricky on what they say and tell.
Others seem to back-pedal on some comments, where the girl do not believe or do not like what he said. Some changes their perspective even if they know that it is right and true. They tend to be a little careful on their statements especially when the topic is about them. It can be too risky if the person tries to make some teasing or making comments about the girl. These acts can be a little over the edge at times, because they are too obvious and many women see it like more of an old-fashioned style.
Here are some tips where a man can impress the girl of his dreams:
1. A man should ask questions about the girl. He may share his dreams and failures to get the attention of the girl. The man may realize that the girl is sharing her experiences as well. There could be some point that the girl is open to answer questions relating to the persons own interests. This is an indication that she may fall into the persons way of conversation.
2. A man should show some interest to the stories that the woman tells. Listening to her is very important to get her attention. This means that the man is willing to understand and sacrifice for the girl. This is good way to impress a woman. Avoid talking too much about adventures and achievements. Most women do not want themselves to sit all night listening.
3. A man should always be presentable. Most women are notorious when it comes to fashion and accessories. If a man wants to impress this woman, he must put some style and be attractive enough to get the attention of others. Know the fact that girls will treat a man like their own accessory. If a man knows how to be good-looking and how to smell good, the girl has just gotten what she wants on a man.
4. A man should always be a gentle man. He must behave well every time he is with the girl. A man should always practice chivalrous behavior. A man must be attentive on what must be the proper way to treat a woman. He should always take care of the girl and do not forget table manners when a man is dating a woman.
5. Do not forget to have eye contact with the girl. Adding a friendly smile can capture her attention. Be sure that there is no malice that will initiate a wrong impression in her part.
6. He should exhibit a strong personality by showing that there is confidence to the intentions he wants to express. Being jealous to other men can lessen the self-esteem.
A man can impress a woman by not being predictable, a man should always be true to himself and be honest to the girl he likes. It is always a plus for many women if a man they meet stand by his own principles in a very humble way.
