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How To Ask The Waitress Out
If a person is attracted to a waitress and would like to ask her if she would like to go out on a date, be sure that the manager is not around. It is all up to the person on how he will approach the waitress. There are instances where the waitress can be busy on her work. Those persons that would want to date a waitress can find it hard to convince the girl because of the hectic schedule that a waitress has.
Asking the waitress out for a date can give the person a hard time. She may want to come but she might not have the time for dates. Here are some ways that can lessen the pressure in asking out the waitress out for a date:
1. A person can get the telephone number of the waitress. Ask for her home telephone number or get the restaurantÂs number. The option of calling her first, than inviting her personally can be a good alternative in asking her out. Before leaving the restaurant be sure to ask her on what time she will be at home, this will give the person the idea on what is the perfect time to call the waitress.
2. The person may try to call the number given by the waitress. He must be sure that the waitress would be at her house before calling her. Stay calm and be composed. She might be a little tensed too if she will notice that the person calling her feels some pressure. Ask her on the telephone if she would like to go out with him for a date. If she reject the invitation, do not feel bad there could be other reasons why she could not come on the date.
3. Ask her again if she would be available on a different time. He should have a plan set, once the waitress have agreed to come on a different schedule. The person should tell the waitress what his plans are for the date. He should inform her on what time she will be picked up and ask her on how much time she will be lending on the date so that he may have the idea on how he will maximize his time on the date.
4. If phone tactics does not work, it is more advisable that the person should have the courage to invite the waitress personally. It is a better approach to ask the waitress face to face. It is recommended that the person introduces himself first. He may tell the waitress that he is a regular customer on the restaurant she is serving. The waitress should have an idea on the person asking her out.
5. He should approach the waitress with confidence. He must be sure of himself that he looks presentable and gorgeous when he asks the girl for a date with him. A nice and decent approach with a proper attire would just be enough to convince her. He could make the waitress be impressed on the way he approached her and that might make her say ÂYes on the invitation.
6. If the schedule of the date is already set, he need to make sure that he calls her back to confirm if she will come for the date. If everything is already clear between both of them, the man should come on time for the date.
7. The man should observe chivalrous behavior while dating. Be a gentleman and observe good behavior towards a girl on a date. Even without prompting, the person should be aware of the needs of her date. He should take the initiative to open the doors for her and slide the chair before she sits.
8. A man should also take the chance to know her better. He can ask questions about anything that he would like to know. Girls love to tell stories about themselves. He should take the time to listen and assess if the waitress personality is compatible with his. He can try to evaluate the personality of the waitress if he would invite her again. If there is chemistry between the two, they may just end up being lovers after their second date.
Ask a waitress out for dinner is not hard as long as she is free with her schedule. There is nothing wrong in trying to convince a girl out on a date. A waitress, just like any other girl, would like to be treated fairly. It is only right that they should be given the right treatment and attention.
BONUS : How To Attract A Woman: The Best Ways To Handle Physical Contact
Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You can't successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility - I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer - whatever form the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your final goal of actual seduction. And that right there is where the problem for many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness? If the girl's not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her away?
Often men just "go for it" and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness. Other men decide they don't want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact - doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that he's simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so what's the solution to this awkward problem?
Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don't appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you're a confident guy who's not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let's take a look.
1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But that's simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The outside of a woman's arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it's a clear-cut sign that you're a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don't be afraid to give it a try - you'll notice the benefits immediately.
2. Once you've started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it's important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you've already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called 'Stealth Tactility' to do this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesn't know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.
3. Lastly, always try to use a 'contact close' when you finish your conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard work's been done once something's been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.
Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You can't successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility - I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer - whatever form the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your final goal of actual seduction. And that right there is where the problem for many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness? If the girl's not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her away?
Often men just "go for it" and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness. Other men decide they don't want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact - doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that he's simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so what's the solution to this awkward problem?
Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don't appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you're a confident guy who's not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let's take a look.
1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But that's simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The outside of a woman's arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it's a clear-cut sign that you're a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don't be afraid to give it a try - you'll notice the benefits immediately.
2. Once you've started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it's important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you've already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called 'Stealth Tactility' to do this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesn't know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.
3. Lastly, always try to use a 'contact close' when you finish your conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard work's been done once something's been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.
