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How Girls Can Tell He S Interested
Around 85 per cent of couples who just had their first dates remarked that before they were even introduced they were already sending signs of attention and interest to each other. These are couples that did not come from first dates, rather, tried to communicate first and see if they click. It usually begins when either one of them making contact with the eyes, a hint of interest floating in the air.
The big question is: How does a girl find out if a guy is showing interest in her? Basically, that question is also answered by a set of questions. Is the guy responding when there is an attempt for conversation? Does he return back the smiles? Is he showing any flirtatious signs? Enough imagining the past girl, there are tell tale signs to look for to know if a guy has really the hots for a girl. A guy is interested in a girl if:
He gazes at the girls eyes longer and more intently than he would when talking to others. The trick is to make eye contact for a short time, then he looks back again and this time longer, lastly, he turns his head to the girls direction but not looking at her directly. From the side of his eyes, hes actually checking if the girl is still looking back or waiting for him to gaze at her again.
He is showing more engaged actions when just trying to show or reach for something; he leans forward when he talks to girl or just when listening for her to say something. He touches the girls hand when stressing a point while talking. Even imitates the girls actions and gestures while making a conversation and perhaps to lessen edginess he amuses himself with touching his earring, blending his coffee, playing with a part of his clothing, fixing the hair, etc. He makes sure he looks his best when the girl approaches
He uses flattering comments and mixes humor to everything he says just to see the girls smile with a beam whenever he talks to the girl, well, appreciates even the girls silly jokes.
He asks detailed questions, as these exhibits curiosity specifically with the girl. Even when hes not present, his friends often pay attention to the girls moves and whatever she says. This is a sign that the guy has already talked about the girl too many times with his friends, arousing their interest in the girl too. Shows himself off by helping others with carrying extra bags for other persons. Take note: this is done when he knows that the girl can see him.
It is kind of hard to read all the signs, so heres a summary for girls who do not have all the time to be keen with the signs:
1. Lifting of Eyebrows. A guys eyebrows rise and fall quickly upon seeing an interesting girl for the first time. (Hey girl, lift a brow if youre interested too.)
2. Slight jaw drop. It may not be a nice sight, but the mouth slightly opens during first acquaintance.
3. Seeks attention. Guys have the tendency to be over acting just to stand out and get the girls attention.
4. The nose. Take a closer look girl; notice that as his face beams, the nostrils get big.
5. Strikes a pose. After gaining composure he budges into the typical machismo guy position with parted legs, one hand on the side and probably the other in a pocket.
6. He becomes self-conscious. This will be touching his forehead, pinching an ear, or rubbing the chin.
7. Fashion conscious. It starts with smoothing the shirt or pants along with the collar and the belt. On more formal occasions, it will be fixing the tie.
8. Secret friend. He would use the starting statement one of my buddies want to know if you Oh, hes just trying to play secret admirer dear.
9. Aside from the raised brows during first meeting, a guy exaggerates arching both eyebrows while saying something.
10. Lastly, the killer sock fiddling. Not familiar? Believe or not 99.9 per cent of psychological studies confirmed that if a guy adjusts his socks in front of a girl, he is so interested with her.
Please note that the effectiveness of these acts differ from person to person. That is because each individual may come from communities with a more traditional or contemporary views. Final word, just enjoy and see if someday, real love may be derived from first signs.
BONUS : How Men Are Failing With Woman, Attraction And Dating
There are many reasons why men are failing with women and dating today but I'd like to look at it from an angle that you may not have thought about before.
When it comes to the game of attraction, many men will start becoming needy, clingy, overwhelmed, etc. this means they're giving up their OWN personal independence (during that time because it all that she sees and knows about him) and showing signs of dependency on a woman.
When your emotions start to take over you have to understand where they are coming from and where they fit into the reality of things. Many men fail because they just can't control their
thoughts and physiological response to a beautiful woman.
Just because you're interested in her doesn't mean she's interested
in you.
Women are world class body language readers (they were born to know what to look for and how to respond) and can see any sign of nervousness when you are around them.
Any uncontrollable emotional response you have with women upfront (or later on in the relationship when you only see her 'wonderful' side and 'fall for her') means that you are losing
your own power, strength and independence (already confused and muddled because of growing up being hidden from the truth).
When this happens it means that she CANNOT be attracted to you. So all the nice guys out there that try to put their best foot forward (and not really being their true self) are really failing
and stepping on their own feet. Theyre not being honest with themselves and their intentions.
Not to mention that many women today dont want to be courted and feeling like they owe this guy a committed relationship, they want to be free and let things happen more naturally.
Many guys get so nervous and self-conscious around the women they desire that they don't realize there's nothing they could say to salvage it.
She already lost interest the second she saw him yet theyll still try to learn pick-up lines in a desperate attempt to succeed to the point their devotion to it becomes unnatural.
All men were born with the inherent power to please women. And it's all done on a natural level thats really more important to her than money (except gold-diggers). And she has to be
able to trust the man to BE a man.
Women are waiting for the 'real men' (who respect her and her body without saying a word) because there are so few left anymore.
Just have to get in touch with your natural power as a man to reach the natural part of (all) women.
This power is greater than your own independent 'personality' or your social character and it's the power that matters when it comes to succeeding with women and giving women what they
want.
Become a man who is 'comfortable in his own skin' and maintain that congruency and you'll find that women will treat you differently and actually notice you.
Her interest means everything because she is the one who chooses you or not (as a response to your character or approach) but as a man you will lead the way.
The nice guy will 'fail' in attracting women because he's not inspiring an instinctual or natural response in her to him.
Is it his fault for growing up in a forced reality which covers up his real power and effectiveness? No.
Does he have to take accountability for his actions and future? Yes. Understanding these things will allow him to move forward into a whole level of success that he has only dreamed of.
I like to see things this way:
You can't go with a fat, ugly chick just as much as she can't go with a man of low character.
Women today love sex just as much as men but they expect a guy they can trust first and if you're showing signs of dependency or that you're too interested in her and would change your ways to be with her, it ain't going to work out.
The good news is that women will KNOW when you are that man they want.
To prevent failure, just become a man of high character across the 3 areas that matter (natural, independent and social) and you will have women wanting to be with you and not giving up
the chance to meet you.
The whole game turns around at that point and other guys will continue to fail because they didn't understand the big game of attraction and how to apply it themselves to be more naturally themselves.
Be what women want by truly becoming the man you were supposed to be instead of having to trick them into something and you'll be able to attract women nonverbally.
All men have this power and potential despite their money or looks. It's all about how she feels when she's around you and that ALL comes down to your character and who you are.
So I recommend to prevent failure and have success with women and dating!
There are many reasons why men are failing with women and dating today but I'd like to look at it from an angle that you may not have thought about before.
When it comes to the game of attraction, many men will start becoming needy, clingy, overwhelmed, etc. this means they're giving up their OWN personal independence (during that time because it all that she sees and knows about him) and showing signs of dependency on a woman.
When your emotions start to take over you have to understand where they are coming from and where they fit into the reality of things. Many men fail because they just can't control their
thoughts and physiological response to a beautiful woman.
Just because you're interested in her doesn't mean she's interested
in you.
Women are world class body language readers (they were born to know what to look for and how to respond) and can see any sign of nervousness when you are around them.
Any uncontrollable emotional response you have with women upfront (or later on in the relationship when you only see her 'wonderful' side and 'fall for her') means that you are losing
your own power, strength and independence (already confused and muddled because of growing up being hidden from the truth).
When this happens it means that she CANNOT be attracted to you. So all the nice guys out there that try to put their best foot forward (and not really being their true self) are really failing
and stepping on their own feet. Theyre not being honest with themselves and their intentions.
Not to mention that many women today dont want to be courted and feeling like they owe this guy a committed relationship, they want to be free and let things happen more naturally.
Many guys get so nervous and self-conscious around the women they desire that they don't realize there's nothing they could say to salvage it.
She already lost interest the second she saw him yet theyll still try to learn pick-up lines in a desperate attempt to succeed to the point their devotion to it becomes unnatural.
All men were born with the inherent power to please women. And it's all done on a natural level thats really more important to her than money (except gold-diggers). And she has to be
able to trust the man to BE a man.
Women are waiting for the 'real men' (who respect her and her body without saying a word) because there are so few left anymore.
Just have to get in touch with your natural power as a man to reach the natural part of (all) women.
This power is greater than your own independent 'personality' or your social character and it's the power that matters when it comes to succeeding with women and giving women what they
want.
Become a man who is 'comfortable in his own skin' and maintain that congruency and you'll find that women will treat you differently and actually notice you.
Her interest means everything because she is the one who chooses you or not (as a response to your character or approach) but as a man you will lead the way.
The nice guy will 'fail' in attracting women because he's not inspiring an instinctual or natural response in her to him.
Is it his fault for growing up in a forced reality which covers up his real power and effectiveness? No.
Does he have to take accountability for his actions and future? Yes. Understanding these things will allow him to move forward into a whole level of success that he has only dreamed of.
I like to see things this way:
You can't go with a fat, ugly chick just as much as she can't go with a man of low character.
Women today love sex just as much as men but they expect a guy they can trust first and if you're showing signs of dependency or that you're too interested in her and would change your ways to be with her, it ain't going to work out.
The good news is that women will KNOW when you are that man they want.
To prevent failure, just become a man of high character across the 3 areas that matter (natural, independent and social) and you will have women wanting to be with you and not giving up
the chance to meet you.
The whole game turns around at that point and other guys will continue to fail because they didn't understand the big game of attraction and how to apply it themselves to be more naturally themselves.
Be what women want by truly becoming the man you were supposed to be instead of having to trick them into something and you'll be able to attract women nonverbally.
All men have this power and potential despite their money or looks. It's all about how she feels when she's around you and that ALL comes down to your character and who you are.
So I recommend to prevent failure and have success with women and dating!
