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Getting Back To The Dating Game
I dont date as often as my friends do, maybe Im sort of choosy or kinda cautious about girls. The last time I dated someone, it was about years ago. It was fun but I got busy in other stuff and never really got time to date anyone. I guess I should going back to the dating scene now. Who wants to be someone without a date anyways!!! All of my buddies are dating great girls, I love em all, and I think each one of them has sent me out on a blind date with one or two of their friends, but it never seems to work out. I guess Im super analytical and maybe have a hint of obsessive compulsion in me somewhere, but I dont think thats enough to drive a woman away from me
is it?
By the way, I have got a date set up tonight with another girl whom Ive never met. She was dating guy I was studying together with during my school days. They have probably broken up now and apparently, she like me
.let me talk about the plan tonight.
Anyways, I was just preparing for my big date and I decided Im coming to write this.
Im nervous, this date has to go well, I need to find a girl that I can say Im dating, that I can say I am going steady with. Im tired of always being the third leg when my friends and I go out.
So, please wish me luck everyone.
Its 10 after 7 and I need to go pick her up at her place.
Update: ok, well, its been a month, and guess what? The date went well and we are actually dating! We had a lot to talk about; her last relationship, my disability to not have a girlfriend, ha ha, we had a riot! Im glad it all worked out, dating is a great time. And plus! My friends cant bug me about not dating anyone anymore!
BONUS : Getting Ones Phone Number Aint That Hard
Most men have difficulties in asking someones phone number for a date but how can you really get your dates phone number without scaring them away?
Different men have different approaches. Shyness makes it difficult for some to muster up the courage to get the phone number of the person they are interested in. Sometimes, men have the tendency to be too aggressive that it drives women away. The best way to get her phone number is by asking her casually in a way that she can still feel that your interested. Saying the right words at the right time may convince the person to give you her number. For example, when you have just met this person and you are about to say your goodbyes you can say casually: "I enjoyed talking to you and I'd love to be able to phone you sometime."
Some women might be uncomfortable with this scenario that they ask for your number instead. Dont take this against you. It doesnt mean that she is not interested in you. Maybe she has to work and thinks its better for her to call you so that at least you wont be greeted by an answering machine every time you call. Wait for that call for about three days and if the call does not happen then dont expect for her to call you.
Getting someones phone number is quite hard, so try to keep your conversation interesting so he/she would be interested. Men would want to get there phone number right away. They usually end up empty handed. Sometimes its good not to ask her directly for her number. You can try saying that you had a great time and that youd love to see her again. You can wait a little until she gives you the number, but if she doesnt and if you feel that she had a great time also, you can go right ahead and ask her the number.
Women love confidence. And men have to understand that confidence isn't just about getting her number. It's how you handle the situation if she doesn't give you her number. Politely ask why she didn't in that way she would feel guilty and might just give you her magical phone number.
Sometimes women would say, "Why don't you just give me your number?" This is usually there way of saying that theyre not interested. You can change that by trying to talk to her and making sure that she feels that your intentions are pure. Do not be desperate in getting her number. Women hate that. Desperate men sometimes, they lead to stalking. Try to be as casual as possible in getting her phone number. If she doesnt give you the number, move on.
Another way to get her phone number is to first move up to her and start having a conversation. After 3-4 minutes, say that you have to go back to your friends and turn to leave. Then turn to her again and say, Hey! Do you have an email? And if she says yes give her a pen and paper and when shes writing it down say, Can you write your phone number too?
Getting someones phone number is quite hard. You just need to gather up your confidence and ask her casually. Dont make a big deal out of it if she turns you down. Remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea.