Dealing With Online Dating Rejection

Dealing With Online Dating Rejection!

An unfortunate part of the dating process has always been and will always be rejection. Simply put, not every person that you come across will be the type that you would like to pursue something more with; either they’re not your type physically, or else other key differences in personality begin to show as the friendship progresses. The same can be said about other people and their opinions of you, as well. At some point, the time comes to accept your differences and agree to move in different directions.

In a traditional social setting, this rejection can often be a harsh and humiliating affair. Often it is based solely on physical attraction or lack thereof, and often it given with more venom than the other person perhaps intends. Said unfriendliness is often understandable, however; during a given night in a bar or nightclub, a physically attractive person will receive the lion’s share of the attention from the crowd, desired or otherwise. Nonetheless, it can be a crushing affair to work your way over to a person in a social setting and instigate conversation only to be loudly and unceremoniously shot down.

In an online setting, this blow is often softened a bit by virtue of the different methods of interaction. Because of the nature of online dating, both parties are free to pursue any sort of interaction at their own pace. Instead of feeling pressured to act by time, alcohol, and the people surrounding them, a person who is desirous of speaking further with another can do so at a much more relaxed, leisurely pace. Furthermore, it takes a while before either party can be said to have invested significant time into the relationship, or for that matter before the conversation can even be classified as a relationship.

For these reasons, an online rejection is often easier to bear than a verbal one. If you express interest in another person and they opt not to continue contact, you’ve lost very little of your time and effort, and you know that there exists a multitude of other people that you may have better luck with. In some cases, it takes a while before personality differences begin to show themselves, and you may have been talking to another person for some measure of time before they tell you that they’d just as soon desist. Even then, however, the impersonality of email or telephone conversations lessens the impact of this, and you are able to take solace in the knowledge that the differences between you two would have ultimately proven detrimental to a lasting relationship.

Along these lines, you may on occasion find yourself having to play the role of the rejecter. In cases such as these, the same points mentioned above are applicable. It is never an easy thing to tell somebody that you would just as soon not speak with them any longer, but the comparative anonymity of the internet gives you the option of letting them down far more softly than you would be able to otherwise. Again, neither party is overly-invested in the relationship at first, and thus any rejection is easier to bear and to give.

BONUS : Deathmatch: American Vs. Romanian Woman

Why is it that a lot of American guys are
traveling to meet brides in Europe?

Are Romanian women good choices for American guys?

These are some questions frequently asked on
forums. Just take a look at the answers; it
depends on who is giving it. There are some quite
rude ones give by frustrated American women. I
really understand them, it is not easy to accept
the thing that you are there, next to so many men,
you are available, single and they choose to fly
miles away to meet another woman to be their life
PARTENER.

What is wrong with these guys?

I asked myself the same question, and I start to
ask the question to some of my American friends.

One of them, which two years ago divorced from
his American ex wife confessed that he has a
great career, hobbies, friends but his ex wife
keep asking him for more and more. He never did
enough, he never earned enough and the
relationship between them got colder from the
first year of marriage.

But one year ago, he had the chance to meet
online a great Romanian woman and his life has
changed, he lives a peaceful, happy life. Also he
has changed as a person, he is more confident, he
feels loved and appreciated.

“Honestly I wish I could have found an American
wife with all the qualities of my Romanian wife.
I could not, because they do not exist. Here is a
partial list of her loveliness: sensible and good
with money, genuine commitment, very family
oriented, she enjoys housework, hard working, and
she does not have to diet to look great.

Romanian women are comfortable in their
femininity. As a male I am attracted to this. And
I love her with all my heart” are his exact words.

So the engine behind the huge number of US guys
searching LOVE and APRECIATION at European women
appears to be the feeling American women have
that they deserve better. They deserve more, they
cannot accept mediocrity, they have to get what
they want, they cannot lose, they, they. That is
egoism in its purest form.

To have a family and provide security, it is
essential for both partners to be committed and
hard-working. Most American males have a very
strong work-ethic; many are workaholics for the
benefit of their families, which Romanian women
find very appealing.

Other thing Romanian women found attractive about
the Americans is they know how to show respect
for women - they show fine behavior and don’t
expect women to be less smart and prepared to be
a slave for them.

So, are Romanian women and American men a perfect
match? A lot of Romanian women dating their
American counterparts seem to think so. The
divorce rate for American and Romanian marriages
is only 4%! Go figure!

A lot of people have great success with online
dating.

For the first time, Americans can easily get in
touch with Romanian women without struggling to
find one another. If you are interested in
meeting a Romanian woman you can do that without
searching high and low for them! Simply find a
website that is right for you, write a profile
about what you want, and start dating the women
that you'd like to be dating!

You deserve to find the people you are interested
in and which can make you feel special, and they
deserve to find you, too!