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Online Dating How To Overcome The Stress And Nerves With The First Date
Online Dating: How to Overcome the Stress and Nerves with the First Date
Word Count:
685
Summary:
The first date can be the most difficult experience one may encounter in a lifetime. Be prepared, and turn this experience into a fun and relaxing event.
Keywords:
online dating,first date,dating anxiety,dating,matchmaking,personals,singles,dating advice
Article Body:
As an individual raised with little opportunity to develop social skills, I had a particularly difficult time with the dating scene. I am happily married now, but during my years of dating, I felt that it would never happen. With the many years using online dating services, I have learned many useful ways of establishing positive initial interaction. In this article I will share with you ideas that will give you a little more ease with dating and coping with the anxiety on the first date.
First, there are a few questions we must address and bring out into the open. How much should we get to know the potential date before meeting? What discussion or prefacing is required with your potential date prior to the meeting? How does this potential date feel about you, or does this person also share in this anxiety? After the rendezvous is established where will you meet to insure safety, enjoyment and relaxation?
Lets dive into the first question: How much should we get to know the potential date before meeting? This question begs of the actual legitimacy of the potential date. Is this, person really genuine? What is this persons background? These questions are not as easy to answer, but we can start with the following. The method of communication is incredibly important. Phone communication although a little nerve racking, can break the ice and establish an initial understanding of who this person is. Try to avoid creating a mental image of this person as this can really increase expectations and also give the other person an unfair disadvantage (i.e. relating the voice to a physical mental image). The phone conversation can also shed light on this person's general character.
This leads to what discussions or prefacing is required. It is important to acknowledge that this place we live is very diverse and the person's character is one of the most important attributes of desirability. Be softly direct when inquiring about his or her background without invoking the feeling that you are drilling the person which is a real "turn-off". I have used this idea many times which turn's out to be a really enjoyable exercise. Write down a few background questions to ask prior to calling the potential date and go from there. The conversation can take on with its own energy from there and it will be very easy to get a good feeling for the person. That is to say, if the person is not forthright, it will most likely come through in the conversation.
In most cases, the other person will exhibit the same anxiety as you. Keep this in mind, as it will help your nerves a little. Being confident, honest, direct and respectful will help you and the date feel an increased level of comfort whether your on the phone, or on the first date.
On this first date, make sure that you select, or mutually agree to a place that will help the date flourishes but keep the other person wanting more. Obviously, you should select a meeting place that is well lit and where there will be many eyes watching you for increased safety. However, the place that you will spend the most time should be softly lit so that most of the concentration can be focused on the content of the conversation and less on physical characteristics. More importantly, span the first date no more than that of a small snack. You can consider this a "weed-out" session. If there is chemistry during the date, he or she will leave waiting more. Conversely, if there is no chemistry, not much time was lost and not much money was spent.
Remember, these important ideas to engender ease and confidence during the initial contact through online dating services. Choose a method of communication prior to the meeting that will help you determine the persons forthrightness. Understand that the other person is probably feeling the same level of anxiety to which you can offer the comfort. Finally, choose a place that demonstrates safety and allows for a short but memorable experience.
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Online Games A Reliable Stress Buster
Word Count:
592
Summary:
With life assuming a machine-like routine and high stress levels playing hide and seek on day to day basis, online games present themselves as an effective means to revitalise and rest your mind from the stress and tensions. The life of modern arena is full of challenges and competition. This is especially true in the wake of high aspirations and ambitions. There are moments when stress goes overboard, leaving you sleepless and restless. It becomes utterly important to evade ...
Keywords:
online games,flash games,arcade games,play games,free games,play online games,shockwave games
Article Body:
With life assuming a machine-like routine and high stress levels playing hide and seek on day to day basis, online games present themselves as an effective means to revitalise and rest your mind from the stress and tensions. The life of modern arena is full of challenges and competition. This is especially true in the wake of high aspirations and ambitions. There are moments when stress goes overboard, leaving you sleepless and restless. It becomes utterly important to evade stress and forget about the reality of life for some time to get back into form. Only an invigorated mind is a fertile mind. A stressed out dull mind cannot fetch you the desired results. The online gaming industry comes to you rescue in such a scene, with its wide range of enthralling offerings.
There is a plethora of websites offering free online games powered by flash or shockwave. The games pertain to an exhaustive spectrum of genres to suit your liking and objective. For example, while action and adventure games or shooting games are generally preferred to let out frustration or anger, challenge-seeking players prefer strategy games to test their logical thinking and sharpness of mind. The strategy games force them into devising unique strategies to solve a given problem to help the game reach its conclusion, in the process engrossing themselves completely into the challenge, and thus zooming out of a tension-inflicted mind.
Once refreshed, you can ponder over your problems more creatively with new stamina to handle the stress and tension. The technology savvy internet games offer very engaging animation and sound effects, complementing the superb game themes, which enthuse you into not only trying the games one by one, but also return back to certain more likable games on regular basis. These games, with their superior graphics and multimedia support, have the kind of impact on you that leaves you spell bound. You tend to forget about your own world, and instead immerse yourself in an imaginary world in the conquest of an objective setforth for you by the game in question.
The flash or shockwave based internet games offer a highly lucrative deal as they are easily accessible on free of cost basis, with flexibility to play online whenever and where ever, independent of your machine and location. The flash games take little time to start online, which also means you instantly start playing after approaching the desired game on a website in question.
These virtual games are designed so as to be user-friendly and easily operational. However complex the game may appear, the player may start off playing while reading the introduction and basic lay out of the game.
These games render the fiction lying beneath into reality for the player as long as he/ she finds himself glued to the internet game in question. The strategy games, puzzle games, word games etc. offer mental exercise and sharpened logical thinking. The games restore the players confidence by reinstating the mettle of his/ her mental faculties, which eventually renders him/ her winning computer games.
The tiring, monotonous and hectic routine also attracts people into playing online computer games so as to feel refreshed. People opt for online games as an ideal time pass over others, at their work places and home. The mental stimuli offered by the games filters in some excitement and fulfillment in their lives. They feel as if they are put back into action. Internet games offer free and worthwhile recreation and an opportunity to chill out at the end of days work.
Online Games A Reliable Stress Buster
Word Count:
592
Summary:
With life assuming a machine-like routine and high stress levels playing hide and seek on day to day basis, online games present themselves as an effective means to revitalise and rest your mind from the stress and tensions. The life of modern arena is full of challenges and competition. This is especially true in the wake of high aspirations and ambitions. There are moments when stress goes overboard, leaving you sleepless and restless. It becomes utterly important to evade ...
Keywords:
online games,flash games,arcade games,play games,free games,play online games,shockwave games
Article Body:
With life assuming a machine-like routine and high stress levels playing hide and seek on day to day basis, online games present themselves as an effective means to revitalise and rest your mind from the stress and tensions. The life of modern arena is full of challenges and competition. This is especially true in the wake of high aspirations and ambitions. There are moments when stress goes overboard, leaving you sleepless and restless. It becomes utterly important to evade stress and forget about the reality of life for some time to get back into form. Only an invigorated mind is a fertile mind. A stressed out dull mind cannot fetch you the desired results. The online gaming industry comes to you rescue in such a scene, with its wide range of enthralling offerings.
There is a plethora of websites offering free online games powered by flash or shockwave. The games pertain to an exhaustive spectrum of genres to suit your liking and objective. For example, while action and adventure games or shooting games are generally preferred to let out frustration or anger, challenge-seeking players prefer strategy games to test their logical thinking and sharpness of mind. The strategy games force them into devising unique strategies to solve a given problem to help the game reach its conclusion, in the process engrossing themselves completely into the challenge, and thus zooming out of a tension-inflicted mind.
Once refreshed, you can ponder over your problems more creatively with new stamina to handle the stress and tension. The technology savvy internet games offer very engaging animation and sound effects, complementing the superb game themes, which enthuse you into not only trying the games one by one, but also return back to certain more likable games on regular basis. These games, with their superior graphics and multimedia support, have the kind of impact on you that leaves you spell bound. You tend to forget about your own world, and instead immerse yourself in an imaginary world in the conquest of an objective setforth for you by the game in question.
The flash or shockwave based internet games offer a highly lucrative deal as they are easily accessible on free of cost basis, with flexibility to play online whenever and where ever, independent of your machine and location. The flash games take little time to start online, which also means you instantly start playing after approaching the desired game on a website in question.
These virtual games are designed so as to be user-friendly and easily operational. However complex the game may appear, the player may start off playing while reading the introduction and basic lay out of the game.
These games render the fiction lying beneath into reality for the player as long as he/ she finds himself glued to the internet game in question. The strategy games, puzzle games, word games etc. offer mental exercise and sharpened logical thinking. The games restore the players confidence by reinstating the mettle of his/ her mental faculties, which eventually renders him/ her winning computer games.
The tiring, monotonous and hectic routine also attracts people into playing online computer games so as to feel refreshed. People opt for online games as an ideal time pass over others, at their work places and home. The mental stimuli offered by the games filters in some excitement and fulfillment in their lives. They feel as if they are put back into action. Internet games offer free and worthwhile recreation and an opportunity to chill out at the end of days work.
