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Proposing On Valentine S Day How To Make Sure She Says Yes
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What a way to make sure that she remembers Valentines Day this year! Go ahead and plan a great way for you to propose to her. But, since this is such a wonderfully romantic day, youll need to find a way to do it in an extra special way to make it that much more enjoyable for you both.
Here are some helpful ideas about how to have a Valentines Day you will remember for the rest of your lives together.
At The Restaurant
One way that you can do this is to let the manager of the location in on what you are doing. If you do, they are sure to make sure that the evening goes well for you. They may be able to provide you with some extra ideas or to make the most of this. Some will even provide you with a cake to go with your special day. In fact, you may be able to take that cake and have the words, Marry Me added to it.
Candy
You can use candies to propose in a number of ways. For example, replace one of the candies in a heart shaped box of them with an engagement ring wrapped in red tissue paper. Or, take all of the Marry Me candies out of the big bag of candy hearts and present a box full of them to her. Make sure to present her ring and get down on one knee after you give them to her.
On The Air
If she has a special radio station that she always listens to, call in and ask the announcer if you can propose on the air. You may need to actually purchase some air time to do so; youll need to make sure you have plenty of time to do this.
A Surprise
Not the romantic type? If you arent, she is sure to catch on when you want to have an especially romantic dinner. Instead, make sure you find a unique way to present the question to her. If you can get the waiter alone, ask them to include the ring in that is tied to a ribbon in her menu. Or, slop it around her drink. There are many ways in which you can make it a surprise. Once she sees the ring, make sure to pop the question!
Another way to go about surprising her is through anything but a romantic dinner. For example, if she reads novels, grab one of the ones that she has read, glue the pages together except for the center and then cut a small hole into the book, just big enough for the ring. Leave it on the nightstand or on her pillow.
Theater
Do you both love to visit the theater? If so, this can be the perfect place to propose. See if the theater will allow you to propose on stage. In fact, you may be able to get the actors and the manager in on it too. Ask them if there is a way that they can help you with the task at hand. Or, perhaps purchase some ad space in the program for that evening. Include your first name, her first name and a Marry Me question. Make sure to point it out if she doesnt see it.
Roses
Visit your florist and ask them to tie the ring inside the bouquet, or do it yourself. Then, when you present them, make sure to tell her to look for the ring inside.
These are some special ways that you can make proposals just perfect for your special love. Valentines Day makes them that much more special!
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BONUS : Protecting Yourself From A Bad Marriage
In modern times, almost nobody willingly enters a marriage they know to be dangerous or unhealthy. Yet, over time a large number of women find themselves in a situation they realize is out of control or simply not an environment they are comfortable in. It can be tricky dealing with divorce or separation in an abusive marriage, but you can quickly extricate yourself from the situation legally and without expensive legal fees by spending a bit of time researching your options online.
Making the Decision
It may take you a long time to realize your marriage is destroying your spirit or is outright dangerous. Many times women looking back on the years together can see signs of emotional or physical abuse long before the first fist flew or she reached the breaking point from insults and insinuation. Regardless of how long youve been in an ugly situation, there is no need to stay there despite your trepidation.
Many women stay in a marriage longer than they should for the sake of their children or out of fear of being alone. While both of these are valid arguments, they are not powerful enough to allow a dangerous man in your life or your childs.
Staying for the Children
The most common argument for staying in a marriage, at least from mothers, is that their children need a father figure. While studies have shown that healthy, intact marriages are indeed beneficial for children, an unhealthy family environment is likely putting a great deal of stress on your children more than a separation and move would entail.
Children, even toddlers and infants, are very astute. They may not understand all the words in an argument, but they do understand and react to tone. And if your home is full of shouting and insults, your child is exposed to that despite you try to keep it from him. Not only do children sense when there is trouble between their parents, they are also learning behaviors from you and your husband at all times.
If your child sees that a man can hit his wife in anger and simply apologize later without recourse, youve effectively taught your child that hitting is okay and that physically dominating a woman or being dominated by a man is just the way of things. Telling your child not to hit his friends or siblings is a moot point after he sees violence in his own home. The same can be said for insults, name-calling and shouting.
If your child is in danger of physical or emotional abuse, you are responsible for removing them from that situation immediately.
Being Alone
If youve been in a relationship, even a bad one, for a long time there is definitely a concern about suddenly being alone. This fear is compounded if youve been out of the workforce to raise children at home. While this fear can be crippling, dont allow it to be. Reach out to a shelter or community center that helps women find two feet to stand on while they prepare restraining orders and divorce papers. A shelter or help center can also give you legal advice and help you make a fresh start away from your current situation.
Take Action
If you cant afford a lawyer or simply dont know where to begin, order an inexpensive packet of legal documents from a reputable online source. You can obtain restraining orders, child custody documents and the papers youll need to begin divorce proceedings.
If the thought of divorce is still too overwhelming, start with a simple step get you and your children away from the negative influence and at least begin researching your options. You may be entitled to half of all assets and earnings in the marriage.
Restraining orders are a logical next step to keep you safe from any reaction on your husbands part, and then legal separation or divorce will give you a clean start down the road. The most important thing should not be filing legal paperwork, however. Whats really important is that you act accordingly to keep you and yours safe.
In modern times, almost nobody willingly enters a marriage they know to be dangerous or unhealthy. Yet, over time a large number of women find themselves in a situation they realize is out of control or simply not an environment they are comfortable in. It can be tricky dealing with divorce or separation in an abusive marriage, but you can quickly extricate yourself from the situation legally and without expensive legal fees by spending a bit of time researching your options online.
Making the Decision
It may take you a long time to realize your marriage is destroying your spirit or is outright dangerous. Many times women looking back on the years together can see signs of emotional or physical abuse long before the first fist flew or she reached the breaking point from insults and insinuation. Regardless of how long youve been in an ugly situation, there is no need to stay there despite your trepidation.
Many women stay in a marriage longer than they should for the sake of their children or out of fear of being alone. While both of these are valid arguments, they are not powerful enough to allow a dangerous man in your life or your childs.
Staying for the Children
The most common argument for staying in a marriage, at least from mothers, is that their children need a father figure. While studies have shown that healthy, intact marriages are indeed beneficial for children, an unhealthy family environment is likely putting a great deal of stress on your children more than a separation and move would entail.
Children, even toddlers and infants, are very astute. They may not understand all the words in an argument, but they do understand and react to tone. And if your home is full of shouting and insults, your child is exposed to that despite you try to keep it from him. Not only do children sense when there is trouble between their parents, they are also learning behaviors from you and your husband at all times.
If your child sees that a man can hit his wife in anger and simply apologize later without recourse, youve effectively taught your child that hitting is okay and that physically dominating a woman or being dominated by a man is just the way of things. Telling your child not to hit his friends or siblings is a moot point after he sees violence in his own home. The same can be said for insults, name-calling and shouting.
If your child is in danger of physical or emotional abuse, you are responsible for removing them from that situation immediately.
Being Alone
If youve been in a relationship, even a bad one, for a long time there is definitely a concern about suddenly being alone. This fear is compounded if youve been out of the workforce to raise children at home. While this fear can be crippling, dont allow it to be. Reach out to a shelter or community center that helps women find two feet to stand on while they prepare restraining orders and divorce papers. A shelter or help center can also give you legal advice and help you make a fresh start away from your current situation.
Take Action
If you cant afford a lawyer or simply dont know where to begin, order an inexpensive packet of legal documents from a reputable online source. You can obtain restraining orders, child custody documents and the papers youll need to begin divorce proceedings.
If the thought of divorce is still too overwhelming, start with a simple step get you and your children away from the negative influence and at least begin researching your options. You may be entitled to half of all assets and earnings in the marriage.
Restraining orders are a logical next step to keep you safe from any reaction on your husbands part, and then legal separation or divorce will give you a clean start down the road. The most important thing should not be filing legal paperwork, however. Whats really important is that you act accordingly to keep you and yours safe.
