L'article ci-dessous est en anglais.Si vous n'êtes pas à l'aise avec l'anglais, utilisez ceci :
Cet outil vous fournit une traduction automatisée en français.
Baby Names Gifting The Cornerstone Of Identity
Baby Names Gifting The Cornerstone Of Identity
The role of parent necessitates the making of many momentous decisions for a beloved person who does not yet have the capability to choose for his or herself. Parenthood is perhaps the most blessed and joyous responsibility of all, as it is fuelled by love and hope for all that may be possible in the future. As parents, we try to give our children the very best of everything, from food and clothing, to education and other opportunities that might expand the worldview of those we love best. But some would argue that the gifts we give our children begin in a way that is at once both smaller and larger, a way that is both subtle and far-reaching. One of the first gifts we give our child is the name we bequeath to them.
Children learn very early to associate their given name with themselves. It is how their parents address them, how they learn to distinguish themselves from others as they proceed into the world. The name we bestow upon our newborn baby is so much more than a collection of alphabet characters it becomes representative of everything we are.
A babys name is a combination of letters and sounds that join together to create the single word we will use to evoke all that we hope our child will become. We have all had the experience of enjoying certain words more than others, of finding that certain sounds resound harshly in our ears. Language is the dividing line between our animal counterparts and ourselves, and is a powerful tool, and so it is important to bear in mind when choosing a name for your baby.
We also invest names with individual meanings, we personalise them to our own situation. They can remind us of relatives or friends, and the characteristics that these loved ones displayed. They can have unconscious or inexplicable connotations, and speak to us positively or negatively with the echo of old associations long since pushed from our awareness.
A childs name should be chosen with great care. A name should be a thing of empowerment, as it carries within the precious burden of identity. A childs experience of his or her name comes largely from parental suggestion, so be sure to choose a name for your baby that is filled with characteristics you admire. Whether or not you believe in such things as numerology or the Kabalarian philosophy, your childs name will undoubtedly be a force in their life. Think deeply, and choose well.
BONUS : Baby Names It Seemed Like A Good Idea At The Time!
While the birth of a baby is a joyous occasion, there is little doubt that the introduction of a tiny person into a great big world necessitates an amount of work that can be seriously overwhelming. Not to mention the hard labor already undertaken by the female half of any baby-making duo, it all adds up to a draining and emotional time. And it is because of this wearisome emotionality that we can do nothing but throw up our hands at the choices some parents make at this time. Like saddling their beloved with a name that is guaranteed to have their peers point and laugh with enormous glee at some point down the road.
There is so much that a baby needs, and it is only when a child is delivered to a couple that the profundity of a newborns dependence sinks in. I mean youve got to do everything for the kid wash it, feed it, and deal with what youve fed it once it comes out the other end. Thank goodness it cant talk back just yet, even though it tries to compensate for what it lacks in terms of vocabulary with a good solid volume.
But considering the emotional fragility with which a newborn is greeted by his or her parents, a babys inability to quantify its thoughts might not be wholly for the greater good. How many new parents have been induced by absolute fatigue to make shortsighted decisions? Did you really think that baby wasnt going to throw that mush all over the floor as soon as you turned your back? Put this way, perhaps saddling our children with ridiculous names is the least of our worries.
But hang on a second even if you havent had more than two hours sleep in a month, thats no excuse to put the diaper on the wrong end, but lets face it, thats not something that is going to haunt baby for the rest of his or her life. But a poorly chosen name? Now thats going to hurt later. It might be a family legacy, but you know sometimes its a whole lot kinder to hurt old uncle Huberts feelings now than have poor little Hubert coming home from school in tears because even the teacher laughed at his name.
So the lesson to be learned is this: dont fill in the birth certificate until the painkillers have worn off. And better wait until youve had a good nights sleep before choosing a moniker too, just in case your judgment is impaired. Actually, maybe it would be better to let the kid pick his or her own name. You can just call them hey you for the first eighteen years. You never know, it might stick!
Si vous aimez Les Fameuses Vidéos, partagez LesFameusesVideos.com avec vos amis :