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Tips For Moving With Young Children
Tips For Moving With Young Children
Moving can upset children of any age. It frequently causes them to feel apprehensive and insecure. But, dont despair; there are many things you can do to make the moving experience less scary for your children.
Involve Them from the Very Beginning.
Tell your children as soon as you know youre moving; dont spring it on them at the last minute. Explain why youre moving in terms they can understand. Do you need more room? Are you relocating because of a new job? Be sure to explain what will happen so theyll know what to expect. This will remove a lot of the fear and confusion they may be feeling. Tell them when the move will take place and how their things will get from the old house to the new house. Be sure and answer their questions as fully as you can. Remember that your attitude about the move will rub off on them, so stay upbeat and positive. To help prepare them further, you canchoose from among many childrens books available on moving. Just a couple of these are Berenstain Bears Moving Day by Sam Berenstain and Goodbye House by Frank Asch. Check your local library for more.
Make the Move an Adventure.
If you approach the coming move as an exciting adventure for the entire family, it will help to calm your childrens fears. The more positive you are about the move, the more positive they will be. Make sure they understand they wont be left behind. Ask for their suggestions and involve them in the plans. If its possible, show them the new house and let them spend some time exploring it. Show them where their rooms will be. Help them visualize where their furniture and toys will go. Show them the yard and help them imagine all the fun they will have there. If its impossible for them to visit the new house, take tons of photos so theyll know what it looks like and can become familiar with it. Talk about all the fun things the family will do there.
Let Them Help.
If you give your children an active role in the move they are much more likely to accept it and even grow excited about it. Let them pack some of their own belongings, even if you have to go back and repack them later. This will help them feel a part of the move. If there are old toys you dont plan to take, let the kids help decide which of them should be given away for other children to use and which should be discarded.
What to Do on Moving Day.
The best plan is to have the children stay with a family member or trusted friend on the day of the move. If this isnt possible, be sure and involve them in the moving activities. If you have a moving company, introduce your children to the workers so theyll know whos taking their stuff away. You can give them a box of their own to pack. This could be the box of special belongings youre taking in the car with you. It should include all the things your children cant live without - favorite stuffed animals, that special blanket, maybe their favorite pajamas. This will accomplish three things. It will keep the children occupied and feeling useful and it will also ensure that you know exactly where these special items are. You would never want to arrive at your new home not knowing where to locate Susies scruffy old bear or Johnnys favorite action figure! It will also help the children feel secure since they have their most important belongings with them.
Youre on Your Way to Your New Home.
If youre driving to your new home, make the trip exciting! If the kids can relate the move to family fun, theyll enjoy it so much more. If its a long drive, be sure and have lots of games or books to keep the children occupied. Maybe each person could tell their own story about what they think living in the new house will be like. Youll arrive happy and anxious to start this new phase of your lives.
BONUS : Tips For Parents: Starting The School Year Right
Increased parental involvement provides the best foundation for a successful start to the school year.
"Back-to-school offers an opportunity for parents to get to know their children's teachers and be involved in education year-round," said Reg Weaver, president of the National Education Association. "To reach their full potential, students need parents to take an active role in their education. Parents should be their children's 'favorite teacher.'"
NEA recommends five easy ways for parents to start the school year off on the right foot:
* Meet the teachers. Tell teachers about your children's interests and hobbies. Make a date to visit teachers' classrooms; don't wait for Back-to-School Night or parent-teacher conferences to open the lines of communication. Provide teachers with your phone numbers and e-mail addresses.
* Get to know all the school employees. Whether it's the librarian, school counselor, nurse, cafeteria worker or bus driver, education support professionals generally know all of the students in the school, and their relationships with your child will continue from year to year as your child moves from one grade to the next.
* Join the PTA or other parent groups. As a group, participate in school events and see how you can help the school reach its goals.
* Check in daily with your children. Review what they learned in school, determine set times for homework and reserve time to read with them-even if it's just for fun.
* Check the school's Web site regularly. Make sure your children are learning what they need to know to meet the standards set for their grade level. Many schools offer class schedules and homework materials online for parents to view.
"There's nothing like starting the school year off right," said Weaver. "So go to the head of the class in your kids' eyes, because learning doesn't stop at the school doors."
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