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Help With Toddler Separation Anxiety
Dear Mom,
I try to leave my child and the minute I walk out of the room, she starts crying or screaming for me. Please help this gone crazy mom of how I can help my baby let me leave her for just a little bit. I think she has toddler separation anxiety but I just want to know how to overcome this.
Thanks,
Carol
Carol,
It is normal for your baby to be going through what they are going through. For nine months, they were attached to us 24 hours a day 7 days a week. We were their lifeline and they have to learn their independence from us. Their whole mentality knows they are sensing this whole new freedom from mom, but yet they have reservations about beginning new things. The mom can help teach them independence by taking baby steps and not trying to separate from them without building up the process. You may ask, what steps can we take?
Start out small. Let them play in the living room as you go to the next room (room needs to be in eye view) to do a certain task as folding clothes. Make sure you are keeping eye contact with them and reassuring that mom is right here. Speak in positive, upbeat words. The first time may not work, but just keep repeating yourself and do it over and over until they are fine with you being in the next room.
Stretch the time being gone. When dad or another caregiver comes home, go and take a shower or soak in a nice bubble bath. Reassure the child you will be back. Never sneak away from the child as this will leave a bad coping skill with her and think you are never coming back. Give it 15 or 20 minutes and show your presence to the baby. Hug her and let her know you missed her, but will always return when mommy goes. After you do this a few times and she gets used to the ide of you being gone for that short amount of time, try going to the store for a longer period of time. You can continue to stretch each trip until you feel comfortable with the time you are being gone, for example if you are trying to build up to a night out of town with your signifcant other.
By taking things slowing, it will help you and your child overcome toddler separation anxiety with much less tears, heartbreak and stress. The baby will continue to grow her independence from you and will soon love her new found freedom of having playtime with dad, grandma or grandpa, or other special friend.
Hang in there mom it will get better and know other moms are going through the same thing as you right now.
Fellow Mom,
Jen
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The word is out-parents can help their little ones learn to read and like it, if they heed a few hints:
• Show them you like to read. Point out articles of interest to kids in this publication or others you may have. Let them see you read books for pleasure.
• Read aloud to your children long before they understand what you're saying. Point to the words on the page as you say them. Follow the sentence with your finger so that children begin to recognize how words appear on the page. When they can read a little themselves, read together. Begin by reading in unison. Then, read alternate pages or paragraphs.
• When shopping, cooking or riding in the car, show them how useful reading can be. Let them read lists or recipes or road signs to you.
• It may come as a surprise to some, but parents could encourage their youngsters to read more if they sat down with them and watched more DVDs.
Not just any DVDs, though. Start with those that are not only based on popular and classic children's books, but that engage the youngster's interest and perhaps teach a few useful life lessons along the way.
One DVD in the increasingly trendy genre of children's fantasy involves an unlikely band of friends in the adventure of a lifetime. Called "The Thief Lord," this modern-day fairy tale in the spellbinding tradition of the Harry Potter series brings to life the beloved characters from the acclaimed novel by The New York Times best-selling author Cornelia Funke ("Dragon Rider," "Inkspell"). It features a remarkable cast including academy award-winner Vanessa Redgrave, Jim Carter, Caroline Goodall and a talented young cast of newcomers.
This fun-filled family adventure tells the story of two boys who escape from a mean aunt to the city of Venice where they encounter The Thief Lord and his gang of ragamuffin child runaways, leading to an adventure that will leave them all changed forever. Children who watch it can further develop their own sense of empowerment and independence.
Funke's book was honored with the Book Sense Book of the Year Award from the American Booksellers Association among several other prizes. An internationally renowned children's author, Funke has written over 40 books.
