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Grocery Shopping With Young Children
Grocery shopping is one of those things that just has to be done. We cant put it off just because the kids are awkward. We still need to eat. The key to stress-free shopping with kids is time and plenty of it. How long would it normally take you to do the weekly shopping? OK. Double it. If youre short of time then try and make some elsewhere. If you try to rush the big weekly shop youll get stressed, the kids will get stressed and youll think the world and his wife is staring at you.
OK so how do you make time? Well, why not combine the shopping with a meal out? Youll save time on food preparation and washing up and it doesnt need to be expensive. Most large stores will serve food these days fairly cheaply. The added bonus of doing it this way is that the kids think its fun. Children always think eating out is fun. You might not but theyll enjoy it.
Preparation is the next most important item on the list. Remember that children wont cry to deliberately annoy you until they reach 15-18 months old. Any younger than that and theres usually a reason. Make sure you have a small drink and snacks. Raisins are great because they take ages to get out the packet with little fingers. You can play games with older children and ask for their help with little items. Never try and shop if your child is likely to be hungry or thirsty and try to do it when theyre least likely to be bored. This is another good reason to combine the shop with a meal as your kids will have eaten and had a drink and I find they can be interested for a while after lunch. The only problem is you will need to be prepared to leave your trolley and find a toilet for the older toddler round about aisle 5 (and 9 - and immediately once youve just unloaded the trolley!)
Finally theres nothing wrong with a bit of bribery once in a while. If youre shopping in the morning or mid-afternoon then perhaps you could offer to go for a milkshake and biscuit if theyre good. If youre shopping after lunch then maybe put a small ice-lolly in the trolley for afterwards.
So to re-cap you need time (the less time you have the more stressed you will be), to be prepared (finding your child has a dirty nappy just as you get to the store and then remembering that you left the supplies in the house is really annoying - trust me), a little treat (not essential but always useful) and a lot of patience (always). Enjoy!
BONUS : Guilty Of Not Following Her Heart
Karen, a single never-married thirty-year old attorney has a four-year old daughter, whom she just picked up from her parents home after another all-day affair in court.
Like every Thursday, Karen took her daughter, Anna, to McDonalds for dinner, which was a very special mother-daughter bonding time. Karen ordered a salad for her and a kids meal for Anna. To Annas delight, the kids meal came with some crayons. While they were eating, Anna turned over the paper trayliner and began to draw a circle with some numbers just inside the perimeter of the circle. Instead of staring out the window like she usually did, Karen looked at what Anna was drawing.
Whatcha drawin sweetie? Karen asked. A clock, Anna said. Are you sure its a clock? Its got more than twelve numbers in the circle. I know, Mommy. Its a clock for you. You said theres not enough time in the day.
Tears formed in Karens eyes.
Why are you crying, Mommy? asked Anna. There isnt enough time in the day, sweetheart. You and I have to make some more time time for each other, said Karen. I didnt know that you liked to draw so much. Oh I do, Mommy. Gramma lets me draw anytime I want to, said Anna. She does? Yep. We went to the bookstore today and she bought me a coloring book. So thats what was in that bag. Youve got a good grandma, honey. I know. She told me that YOU used to like to draw, too. When you were a little girl. Thats right, Karen said softly and was not sure if Anna heard her. I DID used to draw a lot and do a lot of sketches, she spoke in normal tone. Sketches? asked Anna Oh, sketches. Sketches are drawings with pencils. Can we do some sketches at home? Why of course. Tell you what. When we get home, Im gonna look for some sketches that I used to do and show you. Okay, said Anna excitedly.
When they finished dinner and got home, Anna showed her mother the coloring book that her grandmother had bought her. While Karen was looking for her sketches, Anna showed came to Karens room every time she finished with coloring a page. Karen gave her daughter kisses, praise and encouragement every time Anna showed her another page of her work.
Karen finally found her old sketches and went into the kitchen where Anna was drawing. To Karens surprise, there were drawings on the doors of the white cabinets. Anna had drawn on two kitchen cabinet doors.
Isnt it pretty, Mommy? asked Anna. Karens jaw dropped. She was stunned and could not move for several seconds.
Anna finally broke the silence, Grammas kitchen is colorful. I want our kitchen to be colorful. Do you like it, Mommy?
Karen backed into one of the kitchen walls and lowered her body to the ground until she was sitting on the floor. She cried profusely. Anna was confused why her mother was crying. When she showed her mother some of her work in her coloring book, her mother was happy and excited. Now, her mother is crying.
You dont like it, Mommy? Anna finally asked. Karen was finally able to talk, No, sweetheart. I like your drawings. Its just that when I was a little girl, I did the same thing on grammas walls. Did she like it? asked Anna. Karen was breathing deeply, almost hyper-ventilating and said, She screamed at me. Karen was now breathing more normal. She screamed at me, she said softly. Why? asked Anna. Because I was supposed to color on the paper. I was supposed to follow the rules. I had messed up grammas cabinets. Did I mess up your cabinets? No, sweetheart, Karen said quickly. Those cabinets needed some color. I want you to keep on drawing, okay? But I will get you some bigger drawing paper for you so you can make me some bigger pictures. Wow! I will make the bigger pictures even prettier! Anna said with anticipation. How come you stopped drawing, Mommy? Anna asked her Karen innocently. Karen took a deep breath and said. Because I got shut down by what happened to me when I was about your age. Huh? Anna asked confusingly. I will explain it to you when you are older, sweetheart. Keep on drawing in the meantime.