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Building Self Esteem In The Eyes Of A Kid
The children are the country' future. Without the proper training, these people will not be able to follow through the programs that people in the past have done. This is the reason that parents, teachers and friends should all help out build self esteem in a kid.
At home, parents can fulfill that role by showering the kid with love and affection. Good deeds should be acknowledged while mistakes should be corrected in a subtle manner.
Self-esteem is not only done through words of encouragement. This should also happen by teaching the kid how to be independent. Parents may allow the child to either learn a new sport or a musical instrument.
Those who want to get a job like delivering newspaper or mowing the lawn can also be done so the individual will learn the values of hard work rather than always having it handed down.
Parents must always have an open line of communication with the kids. After all, there are a lot of things that happen in school and some just give in to peer pressure. Something isnÂt good may seem cool at the time but in the end wasn't so the legal guardians have to be vigilant.
In school, the teachers serve as the guardians. Although grades are just one way of telling whether a child is doing well or not, there are other things to watch out for. Some institutions administer evaluation exams while others look at the disciplinary record.
Getting low scores or into fights is very alarming. Sometimes, the reason why the kid has low self-esteem or is not doing well is because it is hard to digest the information in class or there is a problem at home. The parents, the principal and even a child psychologist may be called in regarding the matter.
Kids will get to have a lot of friends in school. Some of these individuals might be the same one the person will still be talking to even after college. Building self-esteem in a kid should also involve knowing how to choose the right crowd. Hanging with people who have the same values or a bit different will all help make someone a responsible citizen.
Parents who fail to instill self-esteem in kids will surely be blamed should the person wreak havoc in society. How many times has it happened that teens have been linked to shooting sprees across the country and are tried as adults after the incident has happened?
Self-esteem is something that people do not inherit at birth. This is something that has to be developed during the crucial years through words and actions. Is there such a thing as too much praise?
Some people say yes because failure is sometimes the best way to learn something and be stronger than the person was before.
Is it too late for anyone to build self-esteem? The answer is no. This is because as long as the person is still alive, the person can still evolve into a better person.
There are tapes and DVD's that talk about self-esteem. There are also specialists out there that offer counseling. These resources as well as those offered by the family and those in school can help the kid become a productive member of society.
BONUS : Building Self Esteem Among Teens
Someone once said that people are products of society. This is true because outside the home, friends influence the person and this could either mean doing some good or bad things.
In the end, whatever happens outside comes back into the home. Teachers will probably talk to the parents to update the his or her development in the school. The worse can scenario is being called to the precinct to pick up the teen.
Many people will say that parents should be blamed should the child go astray. This is partly true given that these people are the legal guardians. Letting the child know how valuable that person is being a member of the family can prevent this.
It is not enough to just say, "I love you." Parents should do more by spending more time and getting involved in some of the activities that the teen is doing. Mom or dad can encourage the person to practice harder learning an instrument, while participating in a sport or working on a piece of art work.
Parents should also be there to not only talk but also to listen to the teen. There are a lot of things that happen to an individual during the puberty and the best source of information should come from the parents and not from television, friends or the Internet.
When the child is still an infant, parents need to hold on to make sure he or she does not fall. As a grownup, this isnÂt needed anymore so part of building self esteem among teens is to learning to trust certain decisions.
Empowerment is a word used very often in the workplace. This is when people are assigned a task with minimal supervision but in the event are able to deliver the desired results. Years from now, the teen will join the workforce and before that happens, one of best things that parents can give is empowerment to make certain decisions.
Not everyone may be that self confident compared to others so parents can help along by helping the teen find that forte. If the person is good with electronics, perhaps the son or daughter can become an engineer. Those who are good in the sciences can become a doctor.
These are just two examples of what could happen to a teen by fostering such talents now with the end result ten or fifteen years from now.
Parents will not be able to make the teen always do everything which is perhaps because of free will. Mom or dad should just say something and then it is up to the teen what to do next.
This may be whether the teen has a shot at being a member of the varsity team or what school and course the teenager would like to take up in college. These are big decisions and those who are mature enough will be to overcome the challenges.
With great power comes responsibility. Parents should instill that in the minds of the teens that the decisions made are things that the individual will have to live with. The person is the only one that can control his or her destiny.
There is no magic solution in helping a teen build up that self esteem. Parents, teachers, friends and the person will just have to hope for the best.
Someone once said that people are products of society. This is true because outside the home, friends influence the person and this could either mean doing some good or bad things.
In the end, whatever happens outside comes back into the home. Teachers will probably talk to the parents to update the his or her development in the school. The worse can scenario is being called to the precinct to pick up the teen.
Many people will say that parents should be blamed should the child go astray. This is partly true given that these people are the legal guardians. Letting the child know how valuable that person is being a member of the family can prevent this.
It is not enough to just say, "I love you." Parents should do more by spending more time and getting involved in some of the activities that the teen is doing. Mom or dad can encourage the person to practice harder learning an instrument, while participating in a sport or working on a piece of art work.
Parents should also be there to not only talk but also to listen to the teen. There are a lot of things that happen to an individual during the puberty and the best source of information should come from the parents and not from television, friends or the Internet.
When the child is still an infant, parents need to hold on to make sure he or she does not fall. As a grownup, this isnÂt needed anymore so part of building self esteem among teens is to learning to trust certain decisions.
Empowerment is a word used very often in the workplace. This is when people are assigned a task with minimal supervision but in the event are able to deliver the desired results. Years from now, the teen will join the workforce and before that happens, one of best things that parents can give is empowerment to make certain decisions.
Not everyone may be that self confident compared to others so parents can help along by helping the teen find that forte. If the person is good with electronics, perhaps the son or daughter can become an engineer. Those who are good in the sciences can become a doctor.
These are just two examples of what could happen to a teen by fostering such talents now with the end result ten or fifteen years from now.
Parents will not be able to make the teen always do everything which is perhaps because of free will. Mom or dad should just say something and then it is up to the teen what to do next.
This may be whether the teen has a shot at being a member of the varsity team or what school and course the teenager would like to take up in college. These are big decisions and those who are mature enough will be to overcome the challenges.
With great power comes responsibility. Parents should instill that in the minds of the teens that the decisions made are things that the individual will have to live with. The person is the only one that can control his or her destiny.
There is no magic solution in helping a teen build up that self esteem. Parents, teachers, friends and the person will just have to hope for the best.
