Can She Love You More Then She Loved Him

Can She Love You More Then She Loved Him?

Maybe you just have met a great women, she is
single, beautiful, and sexy and is deeply in love
with you. She's perfect for you but... you are
not her first love.

Can she love you more then she loved her first
man? Was that guy better than you in bed? Does
she think of him when is making love with you?
These are the question which crosses your mind
over and over again.

Many people think that the first love is most
powerful in all life time. All of as have heard
the words "you can never forget your first love".
Is this true?

I have talked with four women, friends of mine
about this subject. All of them are married with
a different man than the one they have loved for
the first time. I had a great surprise; all of
them have told me almost the same things:

First love is mostly passion - second love is
much deeper.

When a woman loves for the first time she thinks
that that man is the only one on the earth and
she has no choice, without him she is lost. When
she loves for second time, she knows that there
are a lot of other available men but she is
CHOOSING to be with the one she loves, because he
is the best for her.

First time a woman can love a guy for no reason,
just because he was the first no matter how he is
treating her. When she loves for the second time
she is able to see his qualities and his
personality, and love him for who he is.

Second time she loves with all her heart because
she knows that he deserves her love. First love
can be full of fear and insecurity. Fear can be a
fuel for passion but is not a nice filling.

These are good news for guys in your situation,
but I didn't answer yet to biggest question: Does
she think at him when she is with you in bad?

This answer on this question is the opposite of
the one of the next question: "Does she really
love you?"

If she loves you she is enjoying every moment
that you are together, every touch, every kiss.
All that she is thinking is YOU!

It is true, you never forget your first love but
over a time it become just like a story of
someone else, hided in a corner of your mind.

So if you are the one she has chosen, be THE LOVE
OF HER LIFE and forget about her first love. :)

You are the man of her life so enjoy it.

BONUS : Can We Still Be Friends

Life is really not like the movies. If people’s life was like the movies then every person’s love life would be pretty healthy. There would be no unhappy endings. Let’s face, life is not like the movies. If there’s anything in life that resembles movies it’s the nightmarish things that happen in the middle of movies. I say this because of some endings in movies where relationships end and one party asks if they could still be friends. In the movie world it can still work out, in the real world it just might be a dream.

When your ex asks if you too can still be friends after the relationship, it would make you think a lot. Do you think that this is really possible? It might make you sit back a moment and think very well. But why in the world or how your friendship can last when everything you had in your relationship just broke down. So when an ex ask that question it might only be polite to say “sure why not.” But deep inside both of you know that it might be hard to be good friends again. That expression is just used as a consolation prize for the dumping you had.

People who ask and say yes to these things do not really mean what they are saying. How can both of you be good friends when you have some bitterness? Maybe if the relationship has ended without the bitterness and with common consent. Even though, this will still be hard especially for the first couple of months, because being with the person will make you remind of some stuff that could have and have not been. It would be hard to make these new-ex friendship work really.

This may also happen to persons who have just had a crash and burn during their first couple of dates. When one party thinks you are getting lame, he or she may only say, its best we stay as friends. Yeah right!

How can both of you be friends if you are not able to go out, talk or have fun most of the time. A friend is a person you develop your trust through time. What happens during that time is that you only became acquaintances and not friends.

So it’s pretty stupid too make the other party be on the expecting end. It might happen on some rare occasions. But it would need a whole lot of work, where you would need to remove the emotional baggage. It might also work if you get some Hollywood magic.