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Blogs: The Coolest New Dating Tool.
It's easy to discount blogs as simply tools for newshounds, people who like to gripe or sell things, or teenagers. But blogs and their siblings webcasts are actually a great way to let potential dating and emailing partners know who you are. The best news is that they're easy to put together and you can do them for free.
Creating A Blog
The simplest way to do a blog is by opening a free account at Blogspot or a similar web service; there are also a few dating sites that are starting to let people blog on their services, though they generally charge a fee. Be certain to do all the basic work, like posting a picture or at least some sort of image to set you apart, and writing your bio.
Now the real work begins. You can make your blog a simple online diary, where you record your daily deeds, or you can write some of your politics, or collect weird news stories and post them online. The only critical thing, if you're going to refer potential online dating site browsers to it, is that it must reflect who you really are. Never misrepresent yourself; it only leads to a lot of misery on both your part and your potential date's!
Writing Ideas For Your Blog
Don't know what to write? You can post absolutely anything you want, even snippets of songs you've heard. Do you write poetry or stories? That can go up. Or you can write about what happened to you today, or about your favorite hobby, a celebrity, or a charity you work for. Or you can focus on some of the common blog topics.
A lot of people focus on a certain type of news, generally something they have an inside track on. This is what makes bloggers so formidable a news source. Do you work for a large pharmaceutical company? Don't ever give away corporate secrets or sneak around, but you can blog about what it's like, or what the real scoop is on the drug that's being panned in the news today. Do you have a really fascinating volunteer position with, say, search-and-rescue dogs? You can write about what it's really like going out to search for someone and finding them. If you think about it, everyone has something fascinating about themselves that they can write about.
If that's scary to you, or you really can't think of anything, write about the things you'd like to do. Become a virtual tourist, and write about whitewater rafting with links out to pictures or tour companies. Or write about luxury boats. Share your passions so that your readers, and potential dates, can find out what you love.
What Not To Do In A Blog
Whatever you do, don't write depressing or angry stuff. No one wants to read about how miserable you are because you don't have a wife, or how much you hate your job and nothing else. Instead, write about your hopes and dreams, about your idea of the perfect woman (be honest), and about the things you hate about being single and having to date. You'll almost certainly find people who feel the same way. And it's having common ground that helps people begin talking online and dating offline.
BONUS : Bringing Your Foreign Fiancee To The United States
The rise in popularity of online matchmaking has dramatically increased the demand for visas for fiancees of U.S. citizens to enter the United States and get married. The process of obtaining a fiancee visa, also known as K1 visas, is not quite as complicated as you might imagine.
The first thing a U.S. citizen must do is file the I-129F petition for their foreign fiancee. Along with the petition the U.S. citizen must submit proof that they have met their fiancee in person within two years prior to the I-129F fiancee visa petition being submitted. The state you live in determines where you file your petition with the USCIS (formerly INS). Normally, the processing time will be somewhere between one to eight months.
After you have received notification that the I-129F has been approved, you fiancee will have 4 months to acquire the K1 visa at the US consulate office in the country in which they reside. This time period may be extended if needed by the consular office.
The K1 fiancee visa allows the fiancee to travel to the United States and entry must occur within six months of the issue date. If your fiancee has children then you must also submit a K2 application. A K2 visa must occur within one year of the issue date. A person with a K2 visa may not enter the United States prior to the K1 visa holder.
When your fiancee arrives in the United States you have 90 days from the day they arrive to get married.
After your wedding, your new spouse must then apply for an Adjustment of Status, Form I-485. This application will give your husband or wife a permanent resident status once approved. They may also apply for an Employment Authorization Document (EAD), and "advance parole". This will allow the foreign spouse to travel outside of the United States and come back before they receive their green card.
Your spouse can wait for up to one year or even more before you both are interviewed for ÂConditional" permanent resident status. This is what is commonly referred to as a Green Card. The Green card is conditional on you both remaining married for two years. After the two years, your spouse can you can apply to have the ÂConditional" status removed and approximately three years later they can apply for U.S. Citizenship.