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Your Sexual Past Does It Bother Your Boyfriend
The last thing your boyfriend wants to think about is another guy having been with you (whether we're talking about sex or just hooking up). Envisioning some other guy getting down with you can literally drive him crazy.
Have you had a checkered sexual history that's filled with lots of experience? If so, your boyfriend might have trouble dealing with this. But this is something that he must accept.
Don't you dare let someone else throw your past in your face or hold it against you. If it's ancient history (or only a few months ago), let it stay there, and move on.
He must accept you for all that you areIf he's chosen to be with you...he needs to accept you for all that you are. And that means everything. It doesn't mean he has to like your sexual history, of course, but it means he can't hold it against you. It's completely unfair for him to want to date you and then start knit-picking about details from your past.
If he's constantly bringing up your pastTell him flat out that he's going to have to accept everything about you if he wants to date you. Let him know he has two choices:
a) You two break up
b) You two stay together...but he can never mention your sexual past ever again. Never. Not even when you two are fighting.
Learn from your mistakes and move onThe few moments of pleasure that come from sex and hooking up can have a permanent effect on you reputation and self-esteem. If you've chosen to change your "free loving" ways, you're doing the right thing and that's what matters most. On the other hand, if youve only had a few hookup and your man is making a major issue about it, you might want to rethink whether you really need to date such a puritanical person.
BONUS : 5 Massive Reasons To Date Online!
Divorced, Split up, Single?
Five Massive Reasons Why
You Should Be Dating Online!
Announcing five massive reasons why single men should use online dating!
How to meet more women than you could possible have time to date.
Lets look at the reasons
Massive Reason #1. Convenience!
From the comfort and privacy of your own home you can relax with a cup of tea or coffee, and scroll through an assortment of potential women to meet and date!
You can even have a beer or a glass of wine while doing it
Instead of late nights in smoky bars and going home disappointed and wake up smelling and feeling like an ashtray.
Unhealthy, smoky bars are boring and drunks dont interest me. Then theres the loud thumping music where you have to shout at each other to be heard.
Where at home and in your own time, you can go online and pick a suitable profile to email and organize to meet.
I love doing this.
So for pure convenience and ease, online dating is the number one place for meeting women!
Online dating is a major breakthrough for single men.
You can meet women you wouldnt otherwise ever have the opportunity to meet!
Therefore it creates an even playing field for men who otherwise dont enjoy trying to pull women in bars.
By learning some basic skills and getting experience, any man can succeed online.
Massive Reason #2. Not Having To Face Rejection by Approaching Women Cold!
This is a major bonus for guys who are recently divorced, split up and have lost their confidence and experience with meeting women.
It is the best way to ease back into the dating scene
You dont have to boldly approach a woman in public and get her number for a date.
You do it online via email, with no nervousness to deal with at all.
And if you contact a profile and she ignores your email, so what?
You just move on to another until you find one to meet, easy!
Therefore you are not confronted with your fear of being rejected in public, with online dating.
And if you do get ignored or knocked back, no one knows but you and it doesnt MATTER.
There are plenty more to choose from
And by the time you meet, youve already chatted via email and on the phone so there is no need to be nervous when you meet her for coffee.
Massive Reason #3. Confidence Building!
You gain confidence by meeting women online and having success with seduction.
This is a massive benefit.
When I divorced after nine years I was nervous approaching women and
had little success.
Once I had been online dating for six months I was back on my feet with women.
I now have the belief and confidence to approach and meet women everywhere.
I also have more skill at handling cold women and rejection when it happens.
Because Ive learnt that its impossible to succeed 100% of the time.
Every No means you are closer to a Yes.
So if you are not getting rejected, you arent in the game!
You HAVE to be in the game!
The confidence you get meeting and seducing women online will lead you to meeting the perfect lady for you. Whether that is online or offline. Its getting the experience that is important.
As Tony Robbins would say, Repetition is the mother of skill. :-)
Massive Reason #4. The Infinite Amount of Suitable Women!
It truly is an infinite amount of women available online to meet.
By having such a large pool of single women to contact, there is no need to ever be short of at least one date a week.
Its just a case of being organized and only contacting local women to make the most of your time.
There will be anything from two to thirty two different sites in your region to join and check out profiles.
There is also many NEW women joining everyday this will continue forever!
So its a must for single men to get good at online dating.
You can never run out of women to contact. Even if you exhaust one service you can try another. By the time youve gone through all suitable profiles to meet on the other service, the original one will have new stock! :-)
Online dating is also very affordable!
Massive Reason #5. Ease of Finding Suitable Partners!
By creating your own criteria and sticking to it, you can find someone suitable so much quicker than offline.
That is of course if they are honest in their profile
(Which sometimes they arent.) :-)
This saves you a lot of time and money by having criteria.
For example, I dont date women with children.
Which is hard in my age group.
But dating women with kids will never work out for me, so I just have to stick with my criteria.
I also dont date smokers anymore
So the more experience and confidence you get. The more definitive your criteria get.
By narrowing my criteria I have meet some great ladies a lot quicker than if I had dated just anyone who would go out with me.
Also when you approach someone in a bar you know nothing about them.
Online you get to know a reasonable amount before you make contact.
This really does increase your odds of meeting suitable partners.
I love online dating I much prefer it to bars as an alternative.
Its paved the way for me to be comfortable when I am single. Because I know there is a LOT of suitable women online and Ill be back dating a nice lady sometime soon .
All the best to you
Regards
Mick Jones
Author
http://www.howtomeetwomenontheinternet.com
Divorced, Split up, Single?
Five Massive Reasons Why
You Should Be Dating Online!
Announcing five massive reasons why single men should use online dating!
How to meet more women than you could possible have time to date.
Lets look at the reasons
Massive Reason #1. Convenience!
From the comfort and privacy of your own home you can relax with a cup of tea or coffee, and scroll through an assortment of potential women to meet and date!
You can even have a beer or a glass of wine while doing it
Instead of late nights in smoky bars and going home disappointed and wake up smelling and feeling like an ashtray.
Unhealthy, smoky bars are boring and drunks dont interest me. Then theres the loud thumping music where you have to shout at each other to be heard.
Where at home and in your own time, you can go online and pick a suitable profile to email and organize to meet.
I love doing this.
So for pure convenience and ease, online dating is the number one place for meeting women!
Online dating is a major breakthrough for single men.
You can meet women you wouldnt otherwise ever have the opportunity to meet!
Therefore it creates an even playing field for men who otherwise dont enjoy trying to pull women in bars.
By learning some basic skills and getting experience, any man can succeed online.
Massive Reason #2. Not Having To Face Rejection by Approaching Women Cold!
This is a major bonus for guys who are recently divorced, split up and have lost their confidence and experience with meeting women.
It is the best way to ease back into the dating scene
You dont have to boldly approach a woman in public and get her number for a date.
You do it online via email, with no nervousness to deal with at all.
And if you contact a profile and she ignores your email, so what?
You just move on to another until you find one to meet, easy!
Therefore you are not confronted with your fear of being rejected in public, with online dating.
And if you do get ignored or knocked back, no one knows but you and it doesnt MATTER.
There are plenty more to choose from
And by the time you meet, youve already chatted via email and on the phone so there is no need to be nervous when you meet her for coffee.
Massive Reason #3. Confidence Building!
You gain confidence by meeting women online and having success with seduction.
This is a massive benefit.
When I divorced after nine years I was nervous approaching women and
had little success.
Once I had been online dating for six months I was back on my feet with women.
I now have the belief and confidence to approach and meet women everywhere.
I also have more skill at handling cold women and rejection when it happens.
Because Ive learnt that its impossible to succeed 100% of the time.
Every No means you are closer to a Yes.
So if you are not getting rejected, you arent in the game!
You HAVE to be in the game!
The confidence you get meeting and seducing women online will lead you to meeting the perfect lady for you. Whether that is online or offline. Its getting the experience that is important.
As Tony Robbins would say, Repetition is the mother of skill. :-)
Massive Reason #4. The Infinite Amount of Suitable Women!
It truly is an infinite amount of women available online to meet.
By having such a large pool of single women to contact, there is no need to ever be short of at least one date a week.
Its just a case of being organized and only contacting local women to make the most of your time.
There will be anything from two to thirty two different sites in your region to join and check out profiles.
There is also many NEW women joining everyday this will continue forever!
So its a must for single men to get good at online dating.
You can never run out of women to contact. Even if you exhaust one service you can try another. By the time youve gone through all suitable profiles to meet on the other service, the original one will have new stock! :-)
Online dating is also very affordable!
Massive Reason #5. Ease of Finding Suitable Partners!
By creating your own criteria and sticking to it, you can find someone suitable so much quicker than offline.
That is of course if they are honest in their profile
(Which sometimes they arent.) :-)
This saves you a lot of time and money by having criteria.
For example, I dont date women with children.
Which is hard in my age group.
But dating women with kids will never work out for me, so I just have to stick with my criteria.
I also dont date smokers anymore
So the more experience and confidence you get. The more definitive your criteria get.
By narrowing my criteria I have meet some great ladies a lot quicker than if I had dated just anyone who would go out with me.
Also when you approach someone in a bar you know nothing about them.
Online you get to know a reasonable amount before you make contact.
This really does increase your odds of meeting suitable partners.
I love online dating I much prefer it to bars as an alternative.
Its paved the way for me to be comfortable when I am single. Because I know there is a LOT of suitable women online and Ill be back dating a nice lady sometime soon .
All the best to you
Regards
Mick Jones
Author
http://www.howtomeetwomenontheinternet.com
