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Words Of Advice On Dating Online
Dating online has made the world a smaller place since meeting that special someone no matter how near or far is just a click away.
If one decides to try online dating, here are few advices one must remember along the way;
1. Take it slow
There are a lot of nice people online but there are also some bad people who just take advantage of others. To be sure whether the person one is corresponding with is for real or just playing games, it is best to look out for inconsistencies. If at any instance, there is a feeling of doubt or something wrong, then its best to stop and move on.
2. DonÂ’t give out personals
Since one does not have any idea who this person can be, it is best not to give out any personal information such as last name, real email address and contact numbers. If the person one is corresponding with keeps on pressuring on this issue, it is best to also stop making contact with that person.
3. Ask for a photo
Some people say it does not matter what is in the outside but what is inside the person. Physical appearance believe it or not matters. To authenticate the person one is talking with online, it is best to ask for a photo. For security reasons, it will be best not just one picture but in various settings. If this person is not able to do this, then one should also stop making contact with this person.
4. Proceed with caution
Earning the trust of people does not happen overnight. By taking some time to know more about this person, one will be able to see if this can on any further or be better off meeting someone else.
5. Meet only when ready
Even if a certain level of trust has been established, it is best to only decide to meet when one is ready. Just like meeting someone for the first time, one should take it slow.
6. Choose a public area
Before meeting this person, it is best to tell people like friends and family where one is going. In the interest of safety and security, it is also best to meet in a public place. If there are many people that are around, the safer it will be in case the date does not workout.
Meeting people online may be a little different from meeting someone new through friends. The similarities in both situations are; it takes time to know a person and there is nothing wrong being too careful especially with matters of the heart.
BONUS : Working With Your Ex Boyfriend To Get Back Lost Love
One thing should be said up front, desperation will not convince your ex boyfriend to get back with you. Being needy will serve only to push him away. Instead, the task is to toughen up and take the steps that are necessary in order to get back what you have lost. It will be hard work, and you will have to make some sacrifices, but it will bring you and your ex together with a much stronger bond.
First thing is to not call your ex boyfriend to get back with him until you've had time to think things through. Communicating while you are emotionally distraught will only serve to put strain on what few bonds remain between you and your ex boyfriend. Instead, you should take the time to reflect and figure out why your relationship turned out the way it did.
This process is all about identifying your needs and wants, and working to figure out his needs and wants. This self reflection will enable you to find yourself. Once you have done this, you should forgive you ex boyfriend for any and all past wrongs. Without do so, the grudge you carry will prevent your ex boyfriend to get back to a mental place where you two can work things out.
During self reflection, you may find that you are clingy and possessive. This can be hard to defeat, but the two of you need independence, to develop self reliance. This separation will cause the bond between you to grow and become stronger. The way to get your ex boyfriend to get back with you is to start assessing the little things that were between you causing stress. This will be a slow process, but it will be things that allow you to start showing that you are about action.
Think of the favorites between you two: places, drinks, foods, events, all of the things that you two shared a common fondness over. Let him know that you were thinking of him when you experienced the favorite. To push your ex boyfriend to get back with, you it is most important that you be yourself. If you lie to yourself and pretend to be someone your not, you are only adding stress to an already stressed situation.
Here is the rub: if your ex boyfriend is currently seeing someone else, back off. You will only end up hurting your self. Instead, you should wait to see if your ex boyfriend, to get back with you, calls you. If he doesn't take the time to contact you, then you should realize that it is unlikely he will and the only thing that will happen is more heartbreak.
Overall, it takes hard work in order to win your ex back. You need to identify the problems that have existed and do what you can to fix them with out being untrue to yourself. The way to get your ex boyfriend to get back with you is through self growth and forgiveness, not neediness and vengeance.
One thing should be said up front, desperation will not convince your ex boyfriend to get back with you. Being needy will serve only to push him away. Instead, the task is to toughen up and take the steps that are necessary in order to get back what you have lost. It will be hard work, and you will have to make some sacrifices, but it will bring you and your ex together with a much stronger bond.
First thing is to not call your ex boyfriend to get back with him until you've had time to think things through. Communicating while you are emotionally distraught will only serve to put strain on what few bonds remain between you and your ex boyfriend. Instead, you should take the time to reflect and figure out why your relationship turned out the way it did.
This process is all about identifying your needs and wants, and working to figure out his needs and wants. This self reflection will enable you to find yourself. Once you have done this, you should forgive you ex boyfriend for any and all past wrongs. Without do so, the grudge you carry will prevent your ex boyfriend to get back to a mental place where you two can work things out.
During self reflection, you may find that you are clingy and possessive. This can be hard to defeat, but the two of you need independence, to develop self reliance. This separation will cause the bond between you to grow and become stronger. The way to get your ex boyfriend to get back with you is to start assessing the little things that were between you causing stress. This will be a slow process, but it will be things that allow you to start showing that you are about action.
Think of the favorites between you two: places, drinks, foods, events, all of the things that you two shared a common fondness over. Let him know that you were thinking of him when you experienced the favorite. To push your ex boyfriend to get back with, you it is most important that you be yourself. If you lie to yourself and pretend to be someone your not, you are only adding stress to an already stressed situation.
Here is the rub: if your ex boyfriend is currently seeing someone else, back off. You will only end up hurting your self. Instead, you should wait to see if your ex boyfriend, to get back with you, calls you. If he doesn't take the time to contact you, then you should realize that it is unlikely he will and the only thing that will happen is more heartbreak.
Overall, it takes hard work in order to win your ex back. You need to identify the problems that have existed and do what you can to fix them with out being untrue to yourself. The way to get your ex boyfriend to get back with you is through self growth and forgiveness, not neediness and vengeance.
