When Should I Not Date Someone

When Should I Not Date Someone?

Very good question! There are actually times when you should consider not dating anyone! Why, you may be wondering can’t I date someone whenever I want to? Well, there are various times in a person’s life that involving someone in your own personal issues or problems is not a good idea. In fact, this may create problems for the person you are trying to date. You may be wondering what instances would you not want to consider dating someone, these tips will assist you in deciding whether or not you should:

1) You’re married! Absolutely out of the question for you to decide that you want to date. Married means you’re committed to someone else and you should be off limits to freely date. Remember you’re not single anymore! So, don’t even think about dating. This would be totally unfair to the person you may consider dating.

2) Just recently divorced. You may want to consider holding off on dating until you get readjusted to single life and your new status of now being unmarried and on your own. Once you give yourself enough time to readjust, preferably at least one year, then go for it! Start dating if you want to.

3) Lost your job and place to live because of your reduced or no income. There are a lot of people that are living together because they don’t have a home or job. So, the person they’re dating may decide to let the other person live with them. This is not a good idea and is not a good reason to date someone! Big mistake and most couples regret this later. In most of these situations, the person that supports the person not working and without a home, begins to have resentment. They feel taken advantaged of and used because they are now the primary bread winner for the person they are dating who is no longer working. Often in these situations, the couple really doesn’t know each other, and actually started living together after only a few dates. Consider giving the person you’re dating another alternative of having some where else to stay instead of with you!

4) You’re already dating someone you’ve been with for a long time. Don’t date someone else if you’re not willing to break off your relationship with your present girlfriend or boyfriend. You can play the field, but, let the person you’ve been dating know that you want to branch out and they can too. If you’re not ready to do this, then don’t start trying to date someone else!

5) You’ve just lost a loved one. It’s difficult when you’ve lost someone you loved. So, you may want to consider waiting awhile before you start dating someone else. It takes time for your heart to start healing. You’ll need time to yourself for awhile before you bring someone else into your life to date. This would not only be fair to you, but to the person you plan on dating in the future.

There are other instances that I’m sure you can think of when knowing whether or not you should start dating. Only you will know this. Dating for most people is considered an important element of their lives. When choosing to date, just remember the responsibility you have to yourself and others to ensure that you’re doing the right thing, at the right time, and what will ultimately make you happy and feel good without creating problems for yourself and others along the way!

BONUS : Where Can I Meet Someone I Want To Date?

Good question! You know there’s lots of places you could meet someone you’d like to date. What’s important here is that you don’t limit yourself on where you can meet someone. Go with how you feel, and if it feels right to you at that moment, then go for it! What do you have to loose?

Jackie was down in the dumps because she hadn’t met anyone since her break-up with Matthew six months ago. She had dated Matthew for almost two years and they decided to go their own separate ways because they felt after two years they really weren’t compatible. They also discovered that their marriage goals were different. Jackie wasn’t ready to settle down and have kids and Matthew was ready to get married and start a family. So, they decided to go their own separate ways. Jackie was alone and with no one. She was depressed and didn’t know what she was going to do. Her friend Monica, decided to help Jackie with her quest of trying to find out where she could meet someone to date. So, Monica started looking for information to help Jackie find a place to meet someone and low and behold, she ran across the tips and information provided in this article to assist her friend in meeting someone. Monica also found this information helpful to her as well. So, here we go! Try some of these tips and information which may assist you in meeting that someone special:

1) Consider your favorite hobbies or things you like to do when trying to find someone to meet for a date. You will probably find that this will lead you to a place that you can meet someone to date. For example, if you like going to concerts, you may want to book a ticket to a concert and this will provide you with a venue to meet someone. Or, if you like reading, go to your favorite bookstore to pick up a book and maybe you’ll meet someone special! Get the idea? By using your hobby or what you like to do, this could lead you in the direction of meeting someone you may want to date.

2) Make a connection through a dating service to meet someone. There’s lots of those to choose from these days. In fact, you can join dating services via the internet or off line. So you may want to consider this source when you’re trying to meet someone to date.

3) Social events are a good way to meet someone. Such social events would be festivals, parades, sporting functions and other types of events. At these particular events there are multitude of people in attendance, so the possibilities of meeting someone is practically endless!

4) Various clubs are a good source for meeting people, such as; health fitness clubs, professional clubs, comedy clubs, night clubs, and any other types of clubs you can think of which would be of interest to you in meeting someone.

5) If you like fun in the sun, consider amusement parks, beaches, and maybe the zoo. If you like it inside, consider going to a video arcade where you can meet someone who’s interested in video games like you.

6) Hey what about the mall or supermarket? Yeah, that’s right! These are great places to meet people. Maybe you like to shop, or possibly don’t really have a choice, then why not consider meeting that special someone you may want to date at the supermarket or mall. You never know if you’ll meet your prince or princess on aisle nine where your favorite bread is located in the supermarket!

7) Movie theaters are also good places to meet someone you may want to date. As you already probably know, lots of people go to the movies on a daily basis so you may catch the love of your life there. Go ahead, try it!

8) Business seminars and conventions are also good places to meet someone as well. I know you’re probably saying, hey I’m on business this isn’t a social trip. Well, that’s okay! There’s nothing wrong with mixing business with pleasure. I’m sure you’ll have some down time after your business is completed to mingle and chat with other business associates attending the seminar or convention. Perfect opportunity to meet that someone special!

9) Why not at work, if you’re comfortable meeting someone at your workplace that you may consider dating. It may not necessarily be a person working for the same company you’re working for, it could be someone who works at another company in the same building.

10) Consider your friends and relatives as a source for meeting someone you may want to date. You never know you friend or relative may know someone that you can make a love connection with!

So, as you can see there’s lots of places you can meet someone you may want to date. You can probably think of more places to meet someone yourself in addition to the tips listed here. So go ahead, get started picking a place you can meet someone and you’ll eventually meet the right person to date!