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Tips For Average Guys Dating Beautiful Women
Can you believe that she accepted a date with you? Dating beautiful women can be a challenge because men put them on a pedestal.
Dating beautiful women is a real ego-booster to most men. They not only make you feel good about yourself, but they increase your status in the eyes of other men. Ironically, they also increase your desirability in the eyes of other women too!
Highly attractive women have a lot of opportunities to date rich, powerful, and attractive men. As a result, as a group, they tend to develop some bad habits that make them less desirable as long term partners. For instance, they are likely to be vain, high maintenance, and manipulative.
If you happen to be dating beautiful women and arent very wealthy or particularly attractive, you have some challenges to deal with. Heres some advice about how to handle dating beautiful women.
1.) Be different. When every man is fawning over a woman, they begin to look alike to her. You stand out by being different.
2.) Treat her badly. If every man is treating her like a goddess, there is nothing you can do to differentiate yourself. But if you ignore her, act unaffected by her good looks, and avoid looking lustful, she is likely to want to pursue you. You have become the guy who didnt knock himself out for her and thats attractive to her.
3.) Ignore her. When you see a beautiful woman with her plain sidekick (and she will have one), focus in on her friend. The beautiful woman will get insanely jealous because she cant stand any other female getting attention (hence, her plain friend) and she will begin to pursue you. This is how you start dating beautiful women.
4.) Tease her. Most men who want to date a particularly beautiful woman will suck up with complements. Instead, take the route of teasing her. Point out her flaws in a lighthearted way. That way, shell want to work to get you.
5.) See her as a complex woman. Most men dating beautiful women look at them as pretty packages. Go deeper. Talk about her hobbies and interests. Make her comfortable by talking about the things which engage her mind.
6.) Wait to call her. If you get her number, dont call the next day. Wait a few days to call her. She expects you to be panting for her and will respect you more if you dont seem desperate.
7.) Dont push for sex. Okay, the ultimate reason for dating beautiful women is because you are sexually attracted to her. But, she knows that every guy is hot to get her into bed. But playing hard to get, you pique her interest in you.
Dating beautiful women is not for the faint of heart. But, even if you dont have the wealth of Bill Gates or the power of Henry Kissinger, you may find that treating an extremely attractive woman with some distance may be the ultimate aphrodisiac.
BONUS : Tips for Dating a Woman with Kids
Dating a woman with kids poses its own challenges. In most relationships, the chemistry is between a man and a woman. When you are dating a woman with kids, the relationship becomes between a man, woman, and child.
First of all, you should know that it is harder for single moms to find dates than it is for women without children. Many men shy away from single moms because they dont want to deal with the challenges of children. This means that a single mom may be more approachable and eager to date you. That doesnt mean that shell have lots of time for you though. Dating a woman with kids means that you compete for her time, and her kids will always come first.
A single mom will probably be working full time, going to little league practice or ballet lessons, and having a social life besides. Where she fits you into the picture may be limited. For instance, she may want to see you for dinner on Wednesday nights only because thats dads night with the kids. She may only be available for dates every other Saturday.
You will have to decide together when to get to know her kids. It is bad parenting to bring a succession of men into her kids lives. So, despite the fact that her kids are the most important thing in the world to her, you may find yourself being excluded from this realm for six months or more. When you do meet the kids, you have to decide how you will relate to them. Theyre not your children, but you will want them on your side. While younger children are easier to impress just toss a ball or draw with them older kids have their own activities.
Most children wish that their mom and dad would get back together. They are likely to see you as a threat to this fantasy. In almost all cases, there is at least initial resistance to having you in their moms life. You will also have the challenges of authority when you are dating a woman with kids. When you give an instruction to a child, they are likely to say youre not my dad. Think through your response to this challenge carefully ahead of time as it may set the tone for the rest of your relationship with the child.
Another problem with dating a woman with children is that it can get quite expensive. After you have settled into a relationship and you know her kids, dates often become family outings. Instead of going for pizza and beer with your girlfriend, you are likely to end up at Chuck E. Cheeses with the kids in tow. Forget going to an amusement park unless the kids get to come along.
And, sex becomes tricky when you are dating a woman with kids. Some women are reluctant to bring you home for an overnight because of the message that will send to the kids. She is also not likely to want to come over to your place because that involves finding someone to watch the kids.
If she does allow you into her bedroom, you may well be interrupted by children at a key moment. Be prepared for children to invade every aspect of your life. One final note if you do get involved with a womans children and subsequently break up with her, you will almost always lose your relationship with the kids. In this case, you will suffer from double heartbreak. This is not to say that you should avoid dating a woman with kids. Instead, be aware of the challenges and the possibilities.
Dating a woman with kids poses its own challenges. In most relationships, the chemistry is between a man and a woman. When you are dating a woman with kids, the relationship becomes between a man, woman, and child.
First of all, you should know that it is harder for single moms to find dates than it is for women without children. Many men shy away from single moms because they dont want to deal with the challenges of children. This means that a single mom may be more approachable and eager to date you. That doesnt mean that shell have lots of time for you though. Dating a woman with kids means that you compete for her time, and her kids will always come first.
A single mom will probably be working full time, going to little league practice or ballet lessons, and having a social life besides. Where she fits you into the picture may be limited. For instance, she may want to see you for dinner on Wednesday nights only because thats dads night with the kids. She may only be available for dates every other Saturday.
You will have to decide together when to get to know her kids. It is bad parenting to bring a succession of men into her kids lives. So, despite the fact that her kids are the most important thing in the world to her, you may find yourself being excluded from this realm for six months or more. When you do meet the kids, you have to decide how you will relate to them. Theyre not your children, but you will want them on your side. While younger children are easier to impress just toss a ball or draw with them older kids have their own activities.
Most children wish that their mom and dad would get back together. They are likely to see you as a threat to this fantasy. In almost all cases, there is at least initial resistance to having you in their moms life. You will also have the challenges of authority when you are dating a woman with kids. When you give an instruction to a child, they are likely to say youre not my dad. Think through your response to this challenge carefully ahead of time as it may set the tone for the rest of your relationship with the child.
Another problem with dating a woman with children is that it can get quite expensive. After you have settled into a relationship and you know her kids, dates often become family outings. Instead of going for pizza and beer with your girlfriend, you are likely to end up at Chuck E. Cheeses with the kids in tow. Forget going to an amusement park unless the kids get to come along.
And, sex becomes tricky when you are dating a woman with kids. Some women are reluctant to bring you home for an overnight because of the message that will send to the kids. She is also not likely to want to come over to your place because that involves finding someone to watch the kids.
If she does allow you into her bedroom, you may well be interrupted by children at a key moment. Be prepared for children to invade every aspect of your life. One final note if you do get involved with a womans children and subsequently break up with her, you will almost always lose your relationship with the kids. In this case, you will suffer from double heartbreak. This is not to say that you should avoid dating a woman with kids. Instead, be aware of the challenges and the possibilities.
