The Steps You Must Do To Succeed With Women

The Steps You Must Do To Succeed With Women

Have you seen that beautiful woman but been too afraid to approach her? You know the one I mean; there she is walking down a busy street, glancing in your direction.

The combination of attraction and paralysis is deadly. I know - I've been there.

Are you ready for the truth? This is going to blow your mind wide open.

Whether you want to find your dream girl and settle down in your country house with a white picket fence or just go home with a hot girl you meet at a club, you are only 4-simple-steps away from success.

It's the classic selling method. Master salesmen rely on this exact same easy-to-use 4-step process to sell their prospects in a matter of minutes...

Because it works like clockwork time-and-effortless-time-again.

These 4-steps are all you need to get started realizing your dreams of feminine conquest.

1. Prospecting - Before you get started, you need to take a few minutes to qualify your prospects. This is as simple as knowing what you want and honing in on your target like a heat-seeking ballistic missile. Figure out what you like and where you'll find it. Don't go looking for 20 something beautiful girls in an antique shop. You need to figure out where the girls are and go there.

You won't meet anyone sitting on the couch watching TV.

Once you find yourself in a situation where there are some beautiful women around, you need to pick the one you're most interested in approaching. Before you even approach try to make eye contact and smile. If she returns your smile, you're golden. If not, you might want to focus your efforts on someone else.

2. Approach - This is exactly what it sounds like. Once you select your target and get her in your crosshairs, you need to make her know that you're the one for her. Don't approach her with some slick line. Beautiful women have heard every line in the book and they are sick of it. A simple "Hi, my name is..." works better than any line ever could.

When it comes to approaching, remember that women aren't as shallow as men. Looks are not nearly as important to them. Confidence is the only thing that matters and by approaching without some tired line, you show her that you are confident in who you are.

3. Building A Connection - Have a conversation. You'll never get her to trust you enough to let down her guard if you can't have a conversation. Find out what she likes and latch onto it. Talk about what she's into. Ask lots of questions.

Genuine interest is helpful for two reasons: (1) It shows that you are interested in her... not just getting laid. (2) The quality of everything from dating to sex is going to be much much better if the two of you have something to talk about.

Do your homework and you'll be rewarded ten-fold.

4. Sealing The Deal - Salesmen call this "the closing." There is nothing more important than sealing the deal.

If you don't have the cojones to make evasive maneuvers... well, you just had a stimulating conversation and you'll probably end the night stimulating yourself. Just come out with it. Ask for her number. Say something like "I've gotta get going, but if you give me your number we can continue this conversation later."

Once you get her number leave. The longer you stick around the more likely you are to mess things up.

Yes, women want you to be with strong personality. Women want you to have the ability to protect them, yes, even the feminism, this is subconscious need.

You can show her your strong personality by saying big things. What do I mean when I say big things?

Big things should present your life as an adventure... It's can be everything, such as plans for life, your hobbies and much more...

BONUS : The Temptation Of Male Sex Desire – What’s The True Perspective? - Dating Advice For Men

What is it that single most powerful force that drives men to forego everything for the sake of sex with a woman? If you can study the problem with all the possible perspectives, perhaps it will become clear to you how the debilitating cycle sets in, in the first place and how to bypass it.

Try to recap a typical scenario of an average man’s situation. Man dates but unfortunately is faced with more disillusionment than fun and pleasure and this happens repeatedly. Have you ever wondered why? Well, the answer to this is very simple really. The more he runs after sex, and meets women only with this single point agenda, the more it eludes him, and the less he gets of what he wants.

All along however, it is your dream to be on the other side of things – where you never think of a woman leave alone having sex with her. And that’s the precise time when things start to happen and you get what you crave for.

Actually, the more you chase women and the concept of sex, the higher chances are there for them to desert you. There starts a merry-go-round, a cyclical pattern emerges, you need sex because you don’t have it, and then barbaric sex drive impels you to move at a break-neck speed, resulting in frustration, which again pumps up the speed further and so on.

Let us reverse the situation. A man who is dating many women, having relaxed sex without any hyped-up expectations and thoroughly enjoying it, is obviously more attractive to more number of women. Every second woman wants to give him a break and loves to date him. His need for sex is thereby not so frantic, nor is his craving for a woman. Women and sex run after him, and not the other way round.

So what is the secret behind this man’s success? How does he swim from one side of the river (desire-frustration-more desire) to the other side?

You really have to take a quantum leap to go to the other side. The process is called “Delay in Gratification”. Here you don’t deny or forget about your sexual needs, but just delay it. Some men accomplish this by taking up a serious hobby, which do not involve women even remotely, like writing, playing music, even working on cars and allow their need for women to completely vanish.

Once they reach this state of mental equilibrium, they choose to meet and go out with women. Women on the other hand find such guys extremely relaxing and comfortable to be with, as there is not an iota of “desperation” written across their faces as they are in complete control of their libido.

Much of this Delay In Gratification is possible once you fully understand the rules of the game of dating. You could say that in the dating game, means to reach the end is far more important, than the end itself. If you have ever gone fishing, you will understand this better. You don’t catch a fish, every time you cast the line. You repeat your effort several times, re-doing, refining your bait. Gradually you develop a natural instinct, when you know exactly how, when and where to cast the line, to get the catch of the day! And subsequently, what you do with your catch.

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