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The Ins And Outs Of Online Dating
Dating online is a new medium and some studies have had higher success rates in getting that first date than the conventional method of going to a public place and meeting someone. The reason why there is a higher rate is because people only meet others who share the same interests.
This new method of interaction and hopefully meeting the right person has its advantages and disadvantages.
1. Security
The advantage of personally signing up on an online dating service is that the person can meet many people without the risk of revealing oneÂs personal information. The only time this happens is when the searcher does it voluntarily to the potential partner.
The disadvantage here is that information, even in general, can be fabricated. Some sites donÂt have a place on the page to show the picture of the person and even it is available, people donÂt put up a picture and can pretend to be someone and prey on an innocent victim.
2. Affordable
By paying a small membership fee and being a member of an online dating service, a person will be able to save money on someone who shares the same interest and actually have a good time.
The disadvantage here is that though the person may save some money in the short term, it does not guarantee the date may work and the person has to search again. The match making service simply delayed the inevitable of spending more money rather than saving.
3. Broad Market
Dating online allows one to meet people from other cities or even other states. It helps a person make new friends and even build up a network that can even be used for other functions such as business.
The disadvantage of finding love through online dating is that given the distance, one of the people has to make the important decision to relocate to be together leaving friends and family behind.
4. Customer base
The dating service helps people who have a hard time finding the ideal person in life by having a huge membership base giving a wide range of choices of people to choose from.
The problem here is that eventually the number of people will decrease since other matches will happen. If one does not act quickly, one will miss the right person to someone else.
Online dating can be fun, whether to meet new friends or meet that potential partner. This match making service using the computer is for young and old just remember there are no guarantees. It is still a gamble one must take in reaching that goal of finding a soul mate.
BONUS : The Irresistible Power Of Dating Other Women  Variety Brings Spice To Life!
I have decided to bring upfront this important aspect of the dating scenario  multiple choices of women that lie ahead of all of us. This should be one of your primary priority area of consideration  because it is under your control if you so decide.
There happens to be existing a bit of dichotomy in this dating game  mostly created by women themselves. For your understanding, I want to break the existing myth  women do not like men dating more than one man. Did I hear someone say - Monogamous?
So many times I have heard some one say something on similar lines:
- This oneÂs made just for me.
- I knew she should be just right for me
- I know my soul mate, when I see one
- God, help me, I donÂt want to lose her
The lists of such exclamations are endless. A man meets a woman, finds her extremely beautiful and desirable, and then goes and spoils it all by idolizing her. He instantly puts her on a pedestal and from then on his entire world revolves around her.
What a waste, what a mistake!
This kind of infatuation and fixation is a sure no-no for women. It kills any sense of excitement and thrill expected to exist in a budding relationship. Let me take you through a discussion, where I analyze WHY you should keep on seeing other women, even if you have your eyes fixed on one.
1. Attitude and confidence  Open other windows
When you are Âfixed or Âstuck with only one woman, you immediately shut out any buffer zone  or the comfort zone, which all of us need, in case something goes seriously wrong. In case she gets you out of her life  you spend the next few miserable months, or even years, thinking what is it that you said wrong, did wrong or hurt her unintentionally. Remember that song of the Beatles  Yesterday? You keep on longing for that single Yesterday.
Since you have pinned all your hopes, aspirations and dreams on one solitary woman, you have lost all your sense of balance and proportion. Our inherent Âfear of loss arises out of the belief that there are Âno options anymore. This is it. The moment you realize  O my God, so many women, so little time, your spirit automatically lifts up sky high. As a natural consequence, you will relax, learn to be calm and collected in your deportment. You no longer fear any one, now, isnÂt that a wonderful feeling?
2. Perspective and comparison  Compare, Contrast, Consider
If you start believing that the single woman who you have selected is the end all and be all of life, how are you going to assess her unless you know some other women too? You need to draw some kind of standard parameter guidelines, by which you can weigh the attraction level and find rationality for your feelings. If you have nothing else to compare her with, how will you ever know the millions of alternative behavioral norms that even exist?
3. Perceived value  Women envy, Owners pride!
Women go for the JonesÂs. Whatever the neighbor (in this case read it as other women) has, I must have it too. Right from jewellery, clothes, perfume to men! A man who is popular, talked about, seen everywhere and goes around with another woman, well, what is he like, is there any chance for me? Make a beeline for him! Join the race. A man who is WANTED. Who you see at the pub is ordinary, within reach. The Âunconquered triggers the killer instinct.
4. The Obsessive Self-destruct  Killing You Softly
Any sort of compulsion results in hasty, unrealistic and destructive decisions. The moment the world of choices open up, you automatically cease to show any compulsive behavior. The essence of this message is that you see and date as many women as there are available, till you meet the most promising one and it should be YOU who take the final call and NOT the woman!
5. DonÂt let her feel Âtied down too early
Women hate to be treated exclusively right from the word go. Even if your intention is a temporary liaison, she gets a wrong signal. She immediately concludes that you are intent on a serious monogamous relationship. Now her pace and sense of rhythm does not allow this. The whole episode then becomes full of disharmony.
So the take home is message is this: Keep your options open. Keep all windows open. Date as many women as you like, more so, if you have located the woman of your dreams. Do not over-indulge or spoil everything by idolizing her. To keep her interests alive, see other women. It pays, both in the short and long run.
This article may be re-published with appropriate attribution to the author including name and website © Copyright.
I have decided to bring upfront this important aspect of the dating scenario  multiple choices of women that lie ahead of all of us. This should be one of your primary priority area of consideration  because it is under your control if you so decide.
There happens to be existing a bit of dichotomy in this dating game  mostly created by women themselves. For your understanding, I want to break the existing myth  women do not like men dating more than one man. Did I hear someone say - Monogamous?
So many times I have heard some one say something on similar lines:
- This oneÂs made just for me.
- I knew she should be just right for me
- I know my soul mate, when I see one
- God, help me, I donÂt want to lose her
The lists of such exclamations are endless. A man meets a woman, finds her extremely beautiful and desirable, and then goes and spoils it all by idolizing her. He instantly puts her on a pedestal and from then on his entire world revolves around her.
What a waste, what a mistake!
This kind of infatuation and fixation is a sure no-no for women. It kills any sense of excitement and thrill expected to exist in a budding relationship. Let me take you through a discussion, where I analyze WHY you should keep on seeing other women, even if you have your eyes fixed on one.
1. Attitude and confidence  Open other windows
When you are Âfixed or Âstuck with only one woman, you immediately shut out any buffer zone  or the comfort zone, which all of us need, in case something goes seriously wrong. In case she gets you out of her life  you spend the next few miserable months, or even years, thinking what is it that you said wrong, did wrong or hurt her unintentionally. Remember that song of the Beatles  Yesterday? You keep on longing for that single Yesterday.
Since you have pinned all your hopes, aspirations and dreams on one solitary woman, you have lost all your sense of balance and proportion. Our inherent Âfear of loss arises out of the belief that there are Âno options anymore. This is it. The moment you realize  O my God, so many women, so little time, your spirit automatically lifts up sky high. As a natural consequence, you will relax, learn to be calm and collected in your deportment. You no longer fear any one, now, isnÂt that a wonderful feeling?
2. Perspective and comparison  Compare, Contrast, Consider
If you start believing that the single woman who you have selected is the end all and be all of life, how are you going to assess her unless you know some other women too? You need to draw some kind of standard parameter guidelines, by which you can weigh the attraction level and find rationality for your feelings. If you have nothing else to compare her with, how will you ever know the millions of alternative behavioral norms that even exist?
3. Perceived value  Women envy, Owners pride!
Women go for the JonesÂs. Whatever the neighbor (in this case read it as other women) has, I must have it too. Right from jewellery, clothes, perfume to men! A man who is popular, talked about, seen everywhere and goes around with another woman, well, what is he like, is there any chance for me? Make a beeline for him! Join the race. A man who is WANTED. Who you see at the pub is ordinary, within reach. The Âunconquered triggers the killer instinct.
4. The Obsessive Self-destruct  Killing You Softly
Any sort of compulsion results in hasty, unrealistic and destructive decisions. The moment the world of choices open up, you automatically cease to show any compulsive behavior. The essence of this message is that you see and date as many women as there are available, till you meet the most promising one and it should be YOU who take the final call and NOT the woman!
5. DonÂt let her feel Âtied down too early
Women hate to be treated exclusively right from the word go. Even if your intention is a temporary liaison, she gets a wrong signal. She immediately concludes that you are intent on a serious monogamous relationship. Now her pace and sense of rhythm does not allow this. The whole episode then becomes full of disharmony.
So the take home is message is this: Keep your options open. Keep all windows open. Date as many women as you like, more so, if you have located the woman of your dreams. Do not over-indulge or spoil everything by idolizing her. To keep her interests alive, see other women. It pays, both in the short and long run.
This article may be re-published with appropriate attribution to the author including name and website © Copyright.
