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The Five Killer Mistakes Men Make Dating Online
The Five Killer Mistakes Men
Make With Online Dating!
By Mick Jones;
Author of 'How To Meet Women on the Internet.'
Here are the top five mistakes men make when they start to date online and how to avoid them!
Mistake#1.
Having a Boring, Average Profile!
You have to put some real effort into your profile to make it shine above the masses.
Creating a unique, well-thought-out profile will instantly give you an advantage over 90% of the other men.
Tip one.
Create an interesting / different profile with some humor.
Be sure to have nothing negative in your profile
Tip two.
Have a good, recently taken photo!
Try a head and shoulders shot and smiling to begin with.
Mistake#2.
Placing Too High a Value on a Potential Date!
This is another instinctive mistake when first starting out.
Your mind plays tricks on you and you put the lady on a pedestal before even meeting her!
Especially if you havent had a date for a while
Tip one.
Treat every potential date as an opportunity for YOU to check HER out and see if you fancy her!
Tip two.
NEVER expect to meet the love of your life on a first date.
This way you will never be disappointed and sometimes very pleased.
Mistake#3.
Not Meeting Her Quickly Enough!
I did this myself for far too long.
The longer you leave it before you meet, the less likely it is to happen.
So forget about emailing for months and getting all worked up over email.
As soon as possible, meet for coffee and a chat to see if you like each other.
This will save you a lot of time and energy and disappointments.
Tip one. Ask for a coffee date in the first two weeks of emails.
Tip two. If she doesnt agree to meet, move on and dont worry about it.
There are plenty more :-)
Mistake#4.
Emailing Interstate and Overseas Profiles!
I did this a lot when I first started dating online.
Its tempting to do but is a complete waste of your time, energy and focus.
Unless you are rich and have a lot of spare time, dont bother with interstate and overseas profiles.
What are the odds of you two ever hooking up?
Very little chance of it
Why would someone interstate or overseas be better than someone local?
Tip one.
Only focus on and contact women in your immediate area.
Tip two.
Keep it down to 100 km radius from your home. This will keep your expenses and time travels down
Mistake#5.
Not Choosing the Meeting Café.
This is more important than it sounds. Women like to be led by a decisive man. So decide/suggest the café, time and date.
If she cant make it when you suggest, reschedule to suit her within reason.
She will get the impression you are not timid and are comfortable making decisions this is good.
Tip one. Make the first date during a week night. This will suggest you have a life and are busy on the weekend.
Tip two. Be relaxed at the coffee date. Dont mention past partners or that you havent been dating for a long time. Just have some fun and BE happy
Avoiding these five mistakes will save you a lot of time, money, energy and focus with online dating. This will prevent you from quitting before you get the results you desire and deserve.
Have fun and many happy seductions
Regards
Mick Jones
Author
BONUS : The Gift Of Online Dating
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The pros of online dating include the fact that you do not have to indulge in expensive and unnecessary socializing at bars or discotheques. The entire concept of online dating is centered around people from all over the world grouped into compatible age groups. This enables well-designed and structured interaction and eliminates the need for formal introductions by friends and family members. The system enables people of all ages to interact with one another in a private and low profile environment.
Online dating enables you to tap technology to provide a choice that no offline resource could ever offer. There are dedicated online dating resources that cater to communities all over the world. The concept is designed to attract the prospects for you and enable you to avail of quality listings that are in accordance to the preferences emphasized by you. Online dating forums have grown along with the idea. The unique ability to establish contact with people beyond geographical constraints widens your horizons.
The advent of internet technology and business ideas that find expression within the paradigms of the industry, have resulted in enhanced interactions between people from all over the world. The interactions may be with different intent, but the opportunities to be tapped are always many. The reason for online dating being a profitable indulgence, personally, is that it is basically a dedicated process. The online dating concept aims at match making via a dedicated dating system that is put into place to offer visitors and members the chance to meet other interesting people who are narrowed down according to the preferences specified at the time of registration. There are a number of free online dating sites too, but they should be used with absolute discretion and only after conducting preliminary research.
The sole purpose of the online dating effort is to enable the members who access the site regularly to meet new and eligible matches, an opportunity of a lifetime. This comes from the fact that the members can specify the geographical location of the prospect sought. The term by itself is very exciting to imagine and online dating seems the answer to the aspirations of men and women from around the world to meet their dream partner. Online dating enables members to narrow down their search for company, by saving on time and effort.
The pros of online dating include the fact that you do not have to indulge in expensive and unnecessary socializing at bars or discotheques. The entire concept of online dating is centered around people from all over the world grouped into compatible age groups. This enables well-designed and structured interaction and eliminates the need for formal introductions by friends and family members. The system enables people of all ages to interact with one another in a private and low profile environment.
Online dating enables you to tap technology to provide a choice that no offline resource could ever offer. There are dedicated online dating resources that cater to communities all over the world. The concept is designed to attract the prospects for you and enable you to avail of quality listings that are in accordance to the preferences emphasized by you. Online dating forums have grown along with the idea. The unique ability to establish contact with people beyond geographical constraints widens your horizons.
