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Taking The Plunge  Meeting Your Online Match (part 2)
In the first part of this article we looked at choosing the right circumstances for your perfect date, now lets take a look at the most important part of the equation  you! Thinking about making the best possible impression on your date, here are a few dos and donÂts:
Do  Shower, brush your teeth and wear clean clothes! Ok, ok, so that sounds like the most obvious thing in the world, right? Wrong! Good personal hygiene is really essential to successful dating, and many people make this basic blunder when meeting their match.
DonÂt  Dress like youÂre going to a job interview. Maybe if youÂre going to the opera, or a posh restaurant a suit or a gown is appropriate; likewise if you dress smartly all the time anyway and you feel comfortable that way then go right ahead. However, if your usual attire is baggy slacks and a t shirt, you might want to consider tarting yourself up a little to show that you care, but digging out that old wedding suit and slathering a pound of Brylcreem over your hair is not going to make you seem appealing; dress like yourself  wear what you feel most comfortable and confident in.
Do  Try to relax and be confident (but not cocky!). If youÂre typically nervous on dates, try some breathing exercises - breathe steadily in through your mouth and out for your nose, counting slowly to seven in your head for each breath. Controlling your breathing in this way also lowers your heart rate and blood pressure, making it easier for you to relax into the situation. Some people find that a small drink before a date helps to calm their nerves; this is not a bad solution BUTÂ
DonÂt  Get stinking drunk before or during your date because youÂre nervous. Many people find they drink more quickly or heavily in pressure situations, not only because the alcohol helps us feel relaxed but because it gives us something to do with our hands and mouths. Keep an eye on the level in your glass, try not to drink too quickly, especially if your date is not doing so and, if you do find yourself drinking particularly quickly, try making every other drink a soft one.
Do  Make good quality conversation with your date. This means having plenty to talk about but also allowing your date space to talk  try not to dominate the conversation. If youÂre worried about drying up in conversation try looking back through the messages you have previously exchanged; what do you already know about your date? Think of questions you can ask that will give your date plenty to talk about without being too probing.
DonÂt  talk about your ex all night! This is one of the worst faux pas you can make on a date. ItÂs ok to make a passing mention or respond to a question (briefly!), but in the main your date is not going to want to hear about your previous failed romances. You should also avoid talking about your health problems, asking inappropriate or overly prying questions or making poorly chosen comments about your dateÂs appearances; ÂI like your hair/earrings/tie is probably a safer bet in most circumstances than ÂWhat a great bum you haveÂ!
Above all, do remember that a good date should be fun for both parties. If youÂre relaxed, having a good time and being yourself then youÂve immediately improved your chances of a successful dating experience.
BONUS : Teen Online Dating: Is It Safe?
The most common idea of dating online is two weird people pretending to be something that they are not, but this isn't always the case. Online dating services offer a lot to adults and allow them to connect with other people looking for that special someone. Now, when you think of teen dating you may realize all the dangers that are involved. Although you think of all the dangers, there are also some good things that can come out of teen dating online.
The dangers in teenage dating online are very clear. Although teens may thing that they are safe online and behind a computer, they are not. Millions of people have access to information in your computer if they know how to access the system. When you log onto your computer and the internet, it is an open portal for many people to get into. Teen dating sites are also an open door to these thieves and sexual predators. When a teen is on an online dating service you should monitor the information they give out, like where they live and numbers etc.
Before registering on a online dating site you should research the site and make sure there aren't a lot of reports of identity theft or online stalkers. If there are, you should find a different site to register at. You should also not give out any information on where you live, your phone number, pictures or even event you are going attend. Stalkers will feed off this information and try their hardest to get it. Be wary of what you say. Be aware that profiles can easily be hacked into and imitated, so make sure you know that you are talking to the person you know before you give out any information. You should also talk to your parents before entering the world of online dating. It may seem like a hassle or a bore but you should make sure you have their approval before you access these sites. They may want to know the pros and cons before allowing you access to it, and you should make sure you know what not to do on an online dating site.