Setting Your Fundation On Dating Women

Setting Your Fundation On Dating Women

A huge part of attracting and seducing a woman happens before the two of you even speak. I would say probably 90%! Women want certain things from a man, and it is your job to present it to them. Better than presenting certain characteristics is to actually be someone who has these characteristics!

Its not unusual to be walking down the street and see an ugly man with a hot woman. At first it is very shocking seeing this big bellied, short, balled, man with a beauty. But if you were to meet this man you would see that he has plenty to offer.

Call to mind the first step of the four part progression: Put yourself in her line of sight and show the traits she wants to see (Alpha male traits). She has made up most of her mind about you before you ever speak to her.

The big problem for most men is that they are average in every way. They may be ugly, but they are also lacking in many other key areas. This is the trick that the ugly guy has up his sleeve. He knows how to adapt the right personality, attitude, and mindset to date beautiful women. Here are some reasons why he can get the girl why you cant.

Reason #1: He doesn't believe he needs to be good looking

The ugly guy doesn't believe that women will ever like him for his good looks. He knows that he needs to master other skills. He shows her that he is exciting and fun to be around. He has great social skills. This impresses her friends and her family.

The good looking guys assume that every woman should like him just because he has good looks. This means the good looking guy will lack in other areas. Some guys will try to buy her love with money, gifts, and favors. Thats fine as long as you want a girlfriend that uses you for those reasons.

Reason #2: She likes who he is

People like people who like them for who they are. People also like people for who they are. What I mean by this is that the ugly guy makes her feel good. She likes him for making her feel good. Other men will try to trick her into liking him. He will buy her things and do her favors. Its more rewarding for her when she doesn't feel forced into liking him.

Good looking guys have a problem with trying to attract a woman with favors and material things. Being a shoulder to cry on isn't the same as being the guy she gets to cry over. Witch guy would you rather be?

Reason #3: Ugly men go after what they want

Successful people don't make excuses for their failure. "I'm too fat!" "I don't make enough money." "I'm not good looking enough." This screams failure and low self-esteem. Its all true if you believe it.

Ugly men don't think like this. They surround themselves with positive people and have a great attitude. "I have so much to offer a woman." "There are so many great women to meet." "Witch girl should I approach first." This attitude allows them to go after what they want and to feel good about themselves.

Reason #4: Ugly men enjoy being men

So many men now of days are afraid of being a man. They don't want to put a woman in her place when she gets a little sassy. Its time for you to get over it. Ugly men are putting women in their place. This makes her more submissive to him.

Reason #5: Ugly men are upfront about who they are

You must sincerely want to improve yourself as a person. Not so you can get more dates. The dates will be a by product of your foundation. You see, ironically this is less about women and more about you. It is a fact than when you are just living your wonderful life as opposed to going out and chasing women, you will attract more women.

I know I'm really harping on foundation and self-awareness a lot here, but it's because it's so crucial and is really a "deal breaker". You need to master your inner game to truly succeed.

BONUS : Sexy Older Women Dating Younger Men - Cougars Abound

There is a current trend of older women dating younger men. The popular term for such women is “cougars.” Celebrity women who have reached a certain age are finding happiness with younger guys. Demi Moore is perhaps the leading example of this trend as she married Ashton Kutcher who was 15 years her junior. Madonna was married to Guy Richie (10 years younger) and when she split with him, she hooked up with Alex Rodriguez (15 years younger.)

Older women find younger men appealing for several reasons. Cougars tend to be successful career women. They have high level executive positions in major firms or own their own businesses. Many men their own age are threatened by their successes. Younger men, who were raised in a more egalitarian era, are likely to be supportive of the women in their lives.

Older women dating younger men also point to their partner’s youthful outlook on life. These men aren’t jaded about things like their older counterparts are.

Then there is the sex. Women peak sexually in their late 30s and into their 40s while men reach their greatest performance levels at age 19 and then decline. Many women feel that they missed out on something when they were younger and more inexperienced. The sexual prowess of a younger man is quite attractive to many women in their 30s and 40s.

But, the older women dating younger men trend works both ways. Many younger men find dating an older woman to be very rewarding.

Part of the attraction is certainly sexual. A mature woman knows her body. She knows what pleases her and she is not afraid to take the lead in the bedroom. Guys find this confidence to be quite the turn on.

Young men who date financially secure older women are also more likely to be able to chart their own path in terms of a career. There is less pressure to make money now when a woman can foot some of the bills. Many men dating cougars have found that they can return to graduate school or start a business – risks that wouldn’t be possible if they were dating women their own age.

Men are also likely to appreciate that older women are more emotionally mature and less needy. There is quite a bit less drama in a older women dating younger men relationship. After a fight, an older woman is less likely to call her sister or her best friend to rehash the experience. She’ll likely go to bed and tell her boyfriend they can discuss it in the morning.

One of the challenges in these cougar relationships is over fertility. An older women usually either already has children or doesn’t want them. Many of these relationships break up because the man wants the chance to be a father. If you can weather that storm, the relationships tend to be unusually strong.

Because of societal trends, the older women dating younger men movement is not likely to go away any time soon.