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Safety In Chat Rooms
Chat rooms are all the rage on the world wide web. They offer web surfers with a way to connect with people who share a similar hobby or interest, discuss careers and advice, etc. But, chat rooms are also commonly used for other purposes and this includes online dating. If participated in using common sense, chat rooms can be a lot of fun. But, there are several ways to ensure that your chat room experience is not one to regret.
When talking with individuals in chat rooms, never give out your home telephone number. Why? Because individuals can use your telephone number in a reverse lookup and gain your mailing address, thereby finding out where you live.
Do not give out your home address in online chat rooms. This is a recipe for disaster and the reason is because you do not know who is in the chat room or who is watching and you do not want perfect strangers to know where you live.
Never announce your daily schedule in chat rooms. Not that anyone would knowingly do this, in part because it makes no sense, but users must be careful of how they answer certain questions. If you are a college student and mention a specific class, someone could ask what college you attend and ask what time your class is later on in the conversation. Without even realizing it, you have told a room full of strangers where you will be and what time you will be there. For obvious reasons, this is probably not the best idea.
A lot of people do this, but caution should be given when sending a photograph to anyone in chat rooms. Everyone likes to have a face to go with the name of their new friend, which is understandable, but try to avoid sending a picture to everyone and anyone that you meet in chat rooms.
As a final thought for safety in chat rooms, common sense will get your through the process safely. The internet is a wonderful way to meet new friends and can provide an outlet for people to find comfort in the shoulder of a stranger, but there are important rules to follow when using chat rooms. If the topics become extreme or the conversation turns strange in any way, sign out and ignore the individual with whom you were just talking. Using chat rooms as a hobby can be a lot of fun, but never allow it to become your entire social circle.
BONUS : Safety Tips For Online Dating
When you are looking to give online dating a try, you must know from the beginning that online dating, just as a traditional dating, does carry with it a few risks. However you like to do it, dating is a dangerous game.
While Internet dating can open many doors for daters, you need to be smart and safe when meeting people online. Most of people online are honest and sincere people who are looking for a partner, but there are also people with ill intentions. When getting to know people online you should follow some basic safety rules.
To make the online dating experience a great one, you should keep in mind some safety tips such as:
- you have to be patient; online dating requires a lot of patience; even if you are anxious to meet new people, don't rush into meeting with strangers; you should take time to know the person before you meet in real life
-one of the most important rules is that you should keep your personal information private; if you don't know who you are dealing with, do not provide personal information about yourself; don't share your real name, phone number, place of work, address, or any other identify information while chatting or emailing until you are comfortable doing so; this information may fall into wrong hands
-also never give out personal financial details of wages, salaries, savings, investments, bank credits or card details
-even if you decide to make a date, you should not give personal information about yourself until you know the person better
-if you decided to meet the person face to face, you better choose a meeting during the day and in a public place
- but you shouldn't jump from online chats to a face to face meeting; first you have to collect some information about that person; it is better to talk on the phone, and use it as an additional checkpoint; a phone can reveal much about a person's communication and social skills; in this way you can protect your security
-ask for a photo, this will give you a good idea of the person's appearance; it she comes with excuses, it means that she has something to hide
-also it is important that you use a recent picture and be truthful in your description about yourself; think about the fact that maybe someday you will have to meet her face to face and then she will get angry to see that you have lied from the beginning; so you can end a possible relationship before it begins
-don't be afraid to flirt a little if that's how you feel, but don't be too flirtations as it could be taken the wrong way
-wait until you find your soul mate, don't fall in love with the first girl who is chatting with you; make carefully choices about the information you provide to a date and also be conservative regarding choices of physical and emotional intimacy
-take all the time you need to test a person to see if she is lying and pay carefully attention along the way; if you think she is lying, act accordingly; move on to someone you can eventually trust
-if you feel something is not right, listen to your gut and get out the situation; use common sense to make good decisions; trust your instincts and immediately quit corresponding when you feel unsure; if she is not your type let her know politely by proposing her to be just friends
-so if anything makes you feel uncomfortable and if you have some doubts about that person, walk away for your own safety and protection
-watch out for someone who seems too good to be true because may not be who she says
-stop communicating with anyone who pressures you for giving your private information
-you can ask a lot of questions and make sure you are satisfied with the answers you get
-only meet when you are ready, and when you consider that you have all the information you need about that person
-never meet someone who argues against your instincts or pressures you in any way
-it is better to stick reputable and honest online dating services for your safety
I wish you good luck in finding your soul mate and it is up to you now to keep your own safety and protection.
When you are looking to give online dating a try, you must know from the beginning that online dating, just as a traditional dating, does carry with it a few risks. However you like to do it, dating is a dangerous game.
While Internet dating can open many doors for daters, you need to be smart and safe when meeting people online. Most of people online are honest and sincere people who are looking for a partner, but there are also people with ill intentions. When getting to know people online you should follow some basic safety rules.
To make the online dating experience a great one, you should keep in mind some safety tips such as:
- you have to be patient; online dating requires a lot of patience; even if you are anxious to meet new people, don't rush into meeting with strangers; you should take time to know the person before you meet in real life
-one of the most important rules is that you should keep your personal information private; if you don't know who you are dealing with, do not provide personal information about yourself; don't share your real name, phone number, place of work, address, or any other identify information while chatting or emailing until you are comfortable doing so; this information may fall into wrong hands
-also never give out personal financial details of wages, salaries, savings, investments, bank credits or card details
-even if you decide to make a date, you should not give personal information about yourself until you know the person better
-if you decided to meet the person face to face, you better choose a meeting during the day and in a public place
- but you shouldn't jump from online chats to a face to face meeting; first you have to collect some information about that person; it is better to talk on the phone, and use it as an additional checkpoint; a phone can reveal much about a person's communication and social skills; in this way you can protect your security
-ask for a photo, this will give you a good idea of the person's appearance; it she comes with excuses, it means that she has something to hide
-also it is important that you use a recent picture and be truthful in your description about yourself; think about the fact that maybe someday you will have to meet her face to face and then she will get angry to see that you have lied from the beginning; so you can end a possible relationship before it begins
-don't be afraid to flirt a little if that's how you feel, but don't be too flirtations as it could be taken the wrong way
-wait until you find your soul mate, don't fall in love with the first girl who is chatting with you; make carefully choices about the information you provide to a date and also be conservative regarding choices of physical and emotional intimacy
-take all the time you need to test a person to see if she is lying and pay carefully attention along the way; if you think she is lying, act accordingly; move on to someone you can eventually trust
-if you feel something is not right, listen to your gut and get out the situation; use common sense to make good decisions; trust your instincts and immediately quit corresponding when you feel unsure; if she is not your type let her know politely by proposing her to be just friends
-so if anything makes you feel uncomfortable and if you have some doubts about that person, walk away for your own safety and protection
-watch out for someone who seems too good to be true because may not be who she says
-stop communicating with anyone who pressures you for giving your private information
-you can ask a lot of questions and make sure you are satisfied with the answers you get
-only meet when you are ready, and when you consider that you have all the information you need about that person
-never meet someone who argues against your instincts or pressures you in any way
-it is better to stick reputable and honest online dating services for your safety
I wish you good luck in finding your soul mate and it is up to you now to keep your own safety and protection.
