Reading Body Language

Reading Body Language

Body language is a discipline about non-verbal
behavior, one of the most powerful, private and
quite language because it helps you understand
emotions and feelings of people around you.

Body language is one of the most important
languages to learn because after you know how to
interpret the behavior of others you will know
what they really think.

Reading and interpreting body language is an art
and science. She makes every action with a
purpose and it expresses something. Therefore, it
is very important to discover reading body
language, signals, smiles, gestures.

Maybe you have a friend, a girl one, and you want
to know if she is interested in you, or it is a
girl that you like and you do not know how to
approach her, or just you meet her in a club and
she looks interested in you, learn to read her
body language to know her feelings. You can see
exactly what a woman thinks by reading her body
language, pay attention to the signs, read them
and use them to your advantage.

Women's body language is very subtle so you
should know to read it. Let us say that she is a
girl that you really like and you meet her at a
party. Watch her closely as soon as you get a
sign that she is interested in you too, to make
sure that you catch her with your charm.

You can find out her thoughts and feelings by
reading the signs:

* watch her head toss, if she throw her hair over
her shoulders and show off her neck, it means
that she want to attract attention

* if she pushes her fingers throw her hair means
that she really love to be conquered

* she looks into your eyes with deep interest
means that she wants to meet you better

* while talking to you, she blinks more than
usual, fluttering her eyelashes

* if she get nervous while you are looking at her
means that she is a little shy, but she has
interest in you

* her skin tone becomes red while being around you

* big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing
with a relaxed face

* she bumps into you and touches you accidentally
means that she wanted to be sure that you sow her

* she is dressed very sexy , to show her nipples
underneath and she is fixing her outfit to make
herself look better, means that she is friendly
and free

* also, the most appealing position for men is a
woman sitting with one leg pressed against the
other, placing one hand on her thigh, it's surely
a clear call for attention

* if her pupils dilated when she is looking at
you means that she likes you

* she shows her shoulders, legs or feet means
that she is comfortable with the surroundings and
with you

* raises eyebrows while talking is a sign of
attraction

* when you talk with her if she is looking at
your mouth while talking and smiles at every
slick thing you try to say, you definitely caught
her

* if she bites her lips often means that she is
nervous and you better stop staring at her

* also, if she sits with her arms crossed
together she is very angry and she don't want to
have nothing with you at the moment

* if she touches the edge of the glass with her
fingers, is an sexual sign, it is a sign of
intrinsic calmness, self control and waiting to
sit by her

* another sign that she is interested in you is
if she plays with her jewelries while you are
passing over her, especially with stoking and
pulling motions

If the girl you like gives you this signs that
she is interested in you too, do not lose time
and make the first step to catch her. Learn to
hold eye contact longer than her, show her that
you are not afraid and do not look away until she
does. Use a confident voice tone - this turns
women on.

Also, knowing reading body language can help you
detect if a person is lying you:

- if she is not looking in your eyes directly
while speaking

- is nervous and uncomfortable being with you

- she is saying different stories on different
frames

- is extremely defensiveness

As you see, it is very important to know to read
the women’s body language, even if you want to
attract one, even if you have already a
girlfriend to know which her feelings for you are.

BONUS : Real Romance: A Guide To Transforming An Online Romance Into An Offline Reality

Okay, so you’ve finally managed to ask that amazing person out (through e-mail of course) that you’ve met thru online dating but are you ready for a possibly real relationship in the real world?

Well, for starters, don’t even think that just because online dating services have somewhat made the whole dating scene a “little less complicated”, it doesn’t automatically mean that they’ve been able to make things any easier. Sure, online dating services have been able to make the whole “meet and greet” process “quick and simple” but that’s where online dating ends and real life dating begins.

There are many online dating sites on the internet that are not just offering their free online dating services and some “valuable” tips on how to get things going in the “real world” may actually help you a bit but in order for you to survive the real world dating scene, you must have realistic expectations.

While you must be open minded about the whole adult online dating scene, you must not be naïve to believe in everything that you read/see on other people’s profiles. Again, while not everyone are coming up with false claims about themselves, its better be safe than sorry.

Sometimes it’s actually wiser to just meet up with the person that you’ve met thru online dating after interacting online for just awhile. While this will give you some time to actually get to know your new “friend”, this short span of time will at least give you a hint if this person that you’ve met through online dating is really someone whom you’d like to date outside the online dating arena. Try to interact on a more “personal basis” aside from exchanging e-mails or online instant messages, why not try to communicate the “old fashioned way” by calling each other up? Sometimes you can also get a better feel of a person’s personality by the way they carry themselves while they speak. There are some people who tend to have a weird laugh, even a creepy one, so can are you still willing to date someone like that? It’s best to a least get over some of the minor glitches that comes with online dating before you end up wasting your time with the wrong person.

As for finally going out on your date with someone you’ve met from these free online dating service sites, it’s best to keep things casual at first. Don’t try to rush intimacy because it might just blow back to your face. Try to get to know more of the person you’ve met through online dating just a little deeper before you decide on “taking the plunge” because you never can be too careful with strangers. Some might actually turn out to be psychos, married people or sexual predators even. It’s always best to not let your guard down even if the person you’ve met through online dating “seems nice”.

Once you’re already sitting across your date from the online world. You must remember some simple rules when trying to engage in some “witty conversation”:

Never ask overtly sexual questions nor make sexual innuendoes: men usually commit this mistake when they meet someone that they’re really physically attracted to. While there are those who to quick test the waters and are seeking to easily get lucky. Women sometimes makes the same mistake and basically for the same reasons as men but the point is, even though these people have put themselves out in the online dating scene, they are not offering free sex to just about anyone that they meet.

Never interrogate your date: while it’s good that you’re very much interested in your date and would want to get to know him or her on a deeper level, it is never safe to assume that you can ask your date just about anything that pops in your head. This can just make your date feel every uncomfortable and uneasy – how would you feel if you been made to feel like you’re under a microscope being scrutinized?

Be open minded: always remember that you’re two different people. No matter how much you have in common, you still have your own thoughts and ideas and while you or your date may not always agree on some things it’s best not to bee too biased or judgmental over other people’s opinions.