Online Dating Four Reasons Why Men Should Meet Women Online And

Online Dating: Four Reasons Why Men Should Meet Women Online (and One Reason Why They Shouldn't)

Men, if you don't already have women chasing after you every day, then you should be dating women online. Here are the Four most compelling reasons why men should be seeking out and meeting women online, and one reason why they absolutely shouldn't.

1) Online dating is the most amazing gift to men invented since woman herself. (Well, most women.)

Think about it for a moment. For one small flat fee (and sometimes for no fee at all) you can scope out women, learn what they like, what they don't like, check out their picture and actually begin swapping emails, IMs and talking with them.

Here's what you don't have: To get dressed up; to gas up your car; to spend hours of your prime time; to buy drinks for people you don’t' know; to fail in public.

On balance, it's a pretty convenient and effective method of meeting women.

2) There are MILLIONS of women ACTIVELY LOOKING for you online. They are not coy "bar chicks" or girls with boyfriends. They are what we call in marketing, HOT LEADS. Smoking hot! Because they are coming out to meet you half way. You just have to learn how to become the bait they are seeking.

Now, there are two basic reasons women are there on line. Some are there to look for a guy to marry. Some are looking for a guy to just hook up with.

But that pretty much explains guys, too. So no matter what reason you're looking for women, there are women looking for you, too.

3) Women online range from not-so-hot to super-hot. I have personally hooked up with some of the most beautiful women of my life from online. And any cursory tour through one of the better sites will show you – this is not a side option for single guys – it’s a MUST DO!

So the attractiveness of women online pretty much mirrors the attractiveness of women anywhere, right? Well, that's to be expected. But when you are at a bar or club trying to meet women, you only have a few dozen to choose from at most. And everyone is going to be hounding the hot ones.

Online, you've got those MILLIONS to choose from. What's even better is that you can search for them by location, income, religion. . . all this stuff you can get out of the way before you even say Hi.

4) Online dating is THE place to practice your game. Whether you still remember awkward Junior High School dances like it was yesterday, or you effortlessly meet and hookup with women all the time, Online is the place to practice without personal rejection.

There are lots of great techniques for meeting and seducing women. Whatever "way" you are, or whatever "technique" you choose, you'll have more time to practice it online. Whatever you do, learn from your mistakes as well as your successes. Not everything is going to work every time, and you shouldn't expect it to.

One other great advantage to online dating is that you don't have to fear rejection. These women you approach don't know you. Your friends aren't there to watch you crash and burn. So, you can take risks that you wouldn't normally take if you were talking to a woman in person.

And that means you'll succeed more than in person, too.

Maybe.

But there is one reason NOT to go online to meet women: Being closed minded. You are going to be exposed to lots more women online than you've ever seen before. If you are closed minded when you write or talk with them, you're sure to fail. If you are not willing to get out of your rut and try something different, to learn something new, then you are sure to fail. If you don't learn how to listen and read women's profiles properly, to truly understand what they mean in their profiles or emails to you, you are sure to fail.

So, don't be closed minded. Online dating is the single best method for meeting women today if you approach it properly. Done wrong, it can lead to the same results you've always had, and that may not be what you want.

BONUS : Online Dating Guide For Newbies

Learn how online dating can be fun. This article will show you how to take advante of this new experience.

A dating service is not a new idea; they've been around for several decades. What's different about today's dating service is the vehicle they use to connect people to one another.

There was a time when online dating was not looked on as favorably as it is today. In its infancy, online dating was sometimes seen as the only way less desirable people could get a date. That's no longer the case. Online dating is growing rapidly, and is used by people of every age. It crosses all the lines of race, religion, political affiliation and net worth.

Even though you start out in the comfort and safety of your own home, typically the goal of online dating is to find someone you want to meet in the real world. Caution and safety are primary considerations throughout any dating process, but are particularly important where online dating is concerned.

When you begin looking for an online dating service you'll want to look for sites that offer several screening filters to validate identification. This helps determine if the person signing up is really who they say they are.

Browse through several online dating sites before settling on one. If you do a search on Google for online dating sites, there are over 3 million. Don't let that overwhelm you. Just pick a few and spend a few minutes on each one. You can also find review sites that may be helpful in assisting you with your decision. You may want to consider signing up with more than one site.

Be honest when creating your profile. Remember that you're looking for someone to start a relationship with and you certainly don't want to base it on lies and deception. For best results, you'll have to include a picture; uploading several would be even better. Make sure it's a recent one, not one from years ago.

Make sure your personality shines through in your correspondence. It's a little tougher to do online since you don't see facial expressions and hear intonations, but with a little practice and the help of some emoticons and online shorthand, you'll become much better at it very quickly. Of course, if you have a web cam, so much the better.

Don't let your profile paint a boring picture. List your passions, your hobbies, your taste in food, movies, music, authors or artists. You want people to understand who you are and what you're looking for.

You should never be uncomfortable with your dating experience. If a conversation becomes awkward or offensive, get out of it. Most sites will allow you to block members if you choose to. Don't hesitate to use that feature to eliminate unwanted correspondence or contact from a particular member.

There's no need to be upset or feel offended if someone you're interested in doesn't respond. There are way too many people to choose from to let a few no-responses discourage you. Think of them as first dates that didn't work out and move on.

Online dating doesn't have to end in a romantic encounter. Many people just want to keep things casual and remain friends. An online dating service can provide them the opportunity to meet people they would otherwise never have met.

Online dating can be quite effective and fun. Dont be afraid of it!