Love Quiz Do You Allow Your Partner To Retain Their Identity

Love Quiz- Do You Allow Your Partner To Retain Their Identity?

In love many of us have a picture of somebody ideal. We also have some expectations, rather a lot of expectations from our lover. Behavior, upkeep, dressing style, speaking style, hobbies, looks and many such character traits that are personal may get dictated by one lover to another.

This watch does not suit you. Why do you walk with such swagger? It does not look good? Why are you spending so much time talking on telephone? When will you improve your housekeeping? Please improve your dress sense. Look at others, how well they keep themselves. A lover can have his/her own idea about the beloved and try to mould the beloved accordingly. They rob the freedom from their lover. Is that love? Will this be loved and liked by the partner? Will this not affect the relationship?

You fell in love with an individual with many pluses and many minuses. After knowing all of them, you decided to build a relationship. After developing the relationship, you want your lover to change in many ways. Is that not breaking the unspoken promises? By demanding changes, we make our lover feel inferior. By demanding changes, we irritate our lover. We bring down the quality of love. How can you expect to be loved by someone who is getting regular instructions of change from you? You cannot expect love. But many of us do this consciously or unconsciously. We kill the beauty of love by this.

All of us have their freedom to be what they are. We should leave them as they are and focus only on love and relationship. That will help us live a fruitful life that is pleasant.

BONUS : Love Quiz - Do You Feel Loved?

Many relationships break despite lot of love between the partners. It seems that love is not enough to sustain a relationship. To keep a relationship on a high much more than love is needed. Talking about love let me ask you - do you feel loved? Your partner may have lot of love for you, but do you feel it? Do you experience it?

How about your partner? Does she/he feel your love? Do you show with many gestures that you love your partner? Let us go through a quick questionnaire. How many times in a day, do you say i love you? How many times in a month you go for dinner together? How many times during a week you talk with each other without any disturbance? How many times you go for a walk without any reason? How many gifts do you buy for your partner in a month? How many roses did you give on last Valentines Day? Do you go for work no your partners birthday or enjoy the whole day with them?

These are few questions I have raised to find out whether you express your love. It is good to love and better to express it. Please find out answers for all these questions about your partner also. If you find that they do not express love, you will get a clue to why you may be getting little dissatisfied in your relationship.

Expressing love is very important. The variety that you use to express your love will bring more excitement to your relationship. Unexpectedly announcing a holiday and a outing can give a thrill that is difficult to be matched by words. Actions speak louder than words and words express what is in our heart. Express and show to your partner that you love them and you care for their happiness and quality of life.