Is Your Moving On Break Up Tearing You Up

Is Your Moving On Break Up Tearing You Up

When one of the parties in the relationship is thinking of moving on, break up focused conversations can be difficult to have. If your boyfriend or girlfriend approaches you with talk about a breakup, it may be difficult for you to hear what he or she has to say to you. Still, when your current significant other approaches you with a conversation about moving on, break up talk is going to have to happen.

This is actually a primary time for you to figure out what is going wrong in the relationship so that you can rectify the situation now rather than struggling to fix things in the future. It is common not to know how to handle moving on, break up decisions are often hard to swallow when you do not see them coming. Even if your boyfriend or girlfriend approaches you with the idea of moving on, break up is not necessarily inevitable, because there are healthy things that you can do in order to rectify the situation.

Most breakups can be avoided simply by figuring out what has led to the dissension in the relationship and nipping those problems in the bud before you chase your significant other away completely. If you want to keep your significant other from leaving the relationship and eventually moving on, break up centric conversations are going to need to happen so that the issues in the relationship can be fully explored. By exploring these issues and figuring out what went wrong, or what is going wrong at present, then you will have a much easier time of keeping your significant other from moving on, break up averted.

When it comes to preventing him or her from moving on, break up conversations should include the following:

- You should specifically ask why your significant other is unhappy in the relationship.

- You should specifically ask if there is anything that you can do to rectify the situation.

- You should retain all of the information that your significant other gives you so that you can make positive changes in the relationship according.

Once you have a strong basis for what is going wrong in the relationship, the next step is to make the necessary positive changes in order to keep your ex from moving on. If there is a communication breakdown, obviously you need to communicate more effectively.

If your significant other is unhappy with something else, find a solution and begin to implement it however necessary to keep your significant other from finding a reason to leave you. It may seem like a lot of work at the outset, but it will be well worth the effort if it means preventing your significant other from breaking up with you and moving on, break up averted.

BONUS : It’s Time For My Date To Meet My Family And Friends, What Should I Do?

If you’re letting your date meet your family and friends you must be getting more serious about the person you’re dating. That’s good. You may be a little apprehensive about your date meeting your family and friends because you want things to go well. You want your friends and family to like the person you date and your date to like them. Don’t worry about it! Just be yourselves and move forward with the introductions! Here are some tips and information that may help you when you’re preparing to have your date meet your family and friends:

1) You may want to prepare your date for meeting your family by making them aware of any family traditions or what may be expected by your family. For example, if your family expects on Sundays that everyone in the family attend dinner at your parents home by 5:00 p.m., let the person you’re dating know this.

2) Introduce your date to your friends. Yes that’s right it’s okay to see what your friends think about your date! Just don’t hold your friends opinion to heart if they don’t like the person you’re dating. Ultimately it’s your choice on how you feel about the person you’re interested in.

3) Let your date know about certain family members and friends that may cause or have a prospective problem with your date. You know the family member or friend who does not think anyone you date is good enough for you and their attitude is usually very negative. Let your date know what to expect and that this would be normal behavior for that particular person. That way your date won’t be surprised if your family or friend is negative towards them. This will hopefully ease a potential problem brewing for your date prior to them meeting people they don’t know.

4) Make sure your date will be comfortable or is actually ready to meet your family and friends. If they’re not, then hold off on them meeting them. You want to make sure that your date is ready to take that leap and you don’t want to push them into doing something they’re not prepared to do. Take it slow, you’ll eventually get there. Remember, patience is a virtue!

5) Anything else you can think of to prepare your date to meet your family and friends. Just make sure your date is prepared to meet the other significant people in your life.

Meeting your family and friends can be an interesting and informative experience for your date. It can also be a challenge to your relationship that could possibly be a relationship ender. That’s why it’s important for you to give your date some background information on your family and friends. Think about the two of you, it’s your relationship and you both must be happy with each other. So, follow your heart and you’ll both make the right decision about each other before and after your date has met your family and friends.