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How To Win Her Heart
Dating with a woman can be very interesting and
exciting. Let's say that you met a woman for some
time and you really like her and have a great
time with her. You are very proud with your
conquered because she is beautiful, smart and
interesting but you feel that you need to do
something to make your relationship stronger. All
you have to do is to win her heart.
You will see that after you win her heart this
beautiful lady will be only for you and you
wouldn't be worry to get dumped too early. But
wining her heart is not an easy thing; it takes
time, patience and also a little luck.
You don't know how to do it? Here are some useful
things that show you how to behave in order to
get her heart.
- first and the most important is to prove her
that you really love her; this doesn't mean that
you have to kiss her all the time, it is very
important to talk with her, ask about herself, to
see that you care about her
- give her the attention she deserves, always be
nice to her and pay attention to her as much as
she needs;
- be natural and sincere; arrange to be alone
with her and tell her what you feel
- romantic dinners are always a sure thing to
impress, but be creative and take her to a place
she has never been before, something special, to
never forget
- make her feel special and compliment her,
women love this
- make her laugh a lot in order to have a great
time with you, they don't like guys which make
them feel bored
- Surprise her with cooking for her; you haven't
done this before? no problem, she will be excited
to see that you do this sacrifice for her;
- be interesting and choose unusual things to do
together, some fun is always welcome
- let her know that you desire her in the way you
look at her and touch her
- don't push it, if she says no, accept that
- be a gentleman and respect her, show her that
she is special and unique
- be a good listener; when she is upset about
something, ask her what is wrong, help her to get
over it and tell her that it wasn't necessarily
her fault
- if she ask you for an advice, always be there
for her and help if you can by giving her the
advice which she is waiting for
- women are really emotional so you can win her
heart with romance; the key of romance is
spontaneity;
- you need to be inventive so she will never
figure out what you plan, because if she can
predict your next move your gestures will loose
all the effect
- impress her family and friends, especially her
mother, she may have a big influence on her
daughter choices
- be a challenge; women love challenges, but don'
t be inaccessible
- don't cheat on her; this will definitely mean
that you will lose her; if you want to win her
heart you have to show her that she is the only
girl for you
- call her in the middle of the night to see if
she is sleeping; it is a sign that you care and
you are thinking at her even night
- try to not use a foul language in presence of a
woman and always excuse yourself if you just said
a stupid thing
- be a good guy, understanding, clean and well
dressed
- pay attention to her even in front of your
friends, if she calls you when you are with your
friends show the same interest in her, don't be
rude
- recognize the small things, men often don't do
this, but this usually mean most
- sometimes you may tease her about her clothes
or jewelries and when she starts too, respond
with funny things
- give her some space; let her spend some time
with her family and friends as much as she needs,
to not feel like a prisoner in this relationship
- to not say that you are desperate, call her in
some day to compliment her, and after that don't
give her any signs about two days, she will
wonder if you are ok, so she will be thinking of
you
- also you may show her that you are special too,
so she will savoring every minute spend with you
Many relationships fail because after a while
this is getting boring. In these days women love
and need man as much as before, but they are
looking for a relationship in which their
emotional needs are met as well. But if you are
able to win her heart and make your relationship
always be interesting and funny, you will see
that this will last for much time.
BONUS : How To Write A Dynamite Personal Ad
The importance of photos and profile narratives and their quality is paramount. Logically it follows that you will want to place an ad about yourself which will excite the greatest interest in your potential viewers. You must know your audience. Important - Photo should have an easily visible (large view) of you. Most personals photos are dark and look like they were taken from far away. Closeness, that's the mood you want to create in your audience.
Some of the key elements in your personals ad which you may not have thought of, but will be judged by are;
Is he articulate?
Is she original?
Is she educated?
Is he charming?
Is he interesting?
Is she witty?
Is she courteous?
Is he outgoing?
Finally - Is he willing to put forth some effort in his ad to win me?
What you write will tell who you are! As we have just seen it's not just what you say about yourself and your desires that will tell her about you. The composition itself will spell out who you are. Better to put your best literary foot forward to make a positive statement about just exactly who you are.
At this point let us address the men and then a little alteration for the women will be in order. Ad techniques are different for both genders. Men are not especially looking for funny or good listeners, whereas women generally are.
For the Men
Let's begin by discussing structure. Structure will give a logical flow to your audience. There is nothing worse than a scatter-brained personal that is too busy, it turns women off.
1. Let us begin with the picture. Women are not visually stimulated in the way men are, so seductive is not the key. You must be well groomed and approachable. Look into the camera. Looking away will make you seem aloof. Use inviting body language. Smile, and bear your neck dimple. (Where the collar bone meets the neck) Military uniforms and business suits (ties) cover this area for a reason. We cover this vulnerable area so as not to portray vulnerability. In your personal ad you want vulnerability. Remember you are targeting women.
2. Salutations - According to Parade magazine a simple Hi! is a great opener. This is just the ice breaker.
3. Personal introduction - Give your name or nickname if you wish.
4. Biographical information - Start out with an opener which will grab her attention and reach into her heart. Appeal to her emotionally. Women are emotionally centered. Make it so that she must read your ad! After this stage give her just the facts. This directness shows strength and confidence. Both are qualities which women value. Be honest and avoid the heartbreak of separation caused by dishonesty. Maybe she would rather have a plumber than the CEO of Microsoft after all.
This is your online dating bio, so include what you wish. Items usually mentioned are; age, occupation, and children, race, place of birth, where you live, favorite foods, entertainment preferences, hobbies, music tastes, and education.
Finally, give them some tangible asset about yourself to make her want you. No boasting. Put it in such a way that you do not seem arrogant. Put it something like - I've been told that I have a great sense of humor or that I'm a great cook.
5. Now that you have told them you know who you are, tell them you know what you want. Do you want a down to earth gal? Say so. The divas will be repelled and the woman who appreciates it most will answer your call. Be descriptive and to the point!
6. Conclusion - Paint a mental image of what your lives would be like together. Something romantically appealing works wonders. In case you haven't noticed women love romance. Woo her. Be careful in your invitation not to use negative or conditional words like - if you are the one. Instead of this use - you are the one I would love to warm up by the fire with. She will know when you are speaking to her, if she is the one. Use these final words to make her feel like a kindred soul.
Once your ad is structured coherently we must now ensure that the following elements have been included.
1. Salutation - Short, polite. Hi! or Howdy, whatever best suits who you are.
2. Descriptive adjectives - Positive and powerful superlatives which will enhance her imagery experience and build curiosity. Infect her with your zest for life
3. Spelling and grammar - Look intelligent, educated, and thoughtful.! Consult a spell check or dictionary and correct errors. We are not all English professors, Have someone critique your writing.
4. Warm text - Use key words that stimulate emotion. Words such as fun, romance, love, happiness, and feel give a warmth to your writing and will give her a positive reading experience. Again, this will give her a little insight as to what life with you might be like.
5. Courtesy - Don't use harsh language or slang. Best to come across in a serious dating forum as polite.
We realize that there is a trend of extremism out there that feels the need to shock. She will appreciate you even more for being a gentleman online.
6. Spur her to action - At the end of your ad be sure to urge them to reply now. Make it a suggestion. Say something like - Why not email me now and seize the day with me? I'll be right here waiting for you !
We have an example of a dynamite personal ad at http://christiandatemate.com
For the ladies
Fortunately for women the online dating scene is predominantly male in terms of numbers. This works to your advantage - more fish to choose from. However you cannot rest on your laurels though. You still need at least a cursory knowledge of what motivates men, blended with your own original creative touch.
Hopefully you took the time to read the menÂs section. All of the above applies to women as well with a few exceptions. Make them want to read your ad using compelling imagery. Remember men are more visually stimulated than you are.
Use a complimentary photo of yourself. Alluring is good, but be careful not to send the wrong message. Be sure to project yourself as warm and inviting. Smile and look into the camera. Use body language that says come a little bit closer.
Best wishes in your quest!
The importance of photos and profile narratives and their quality is paramount. Logically it follows that you will want to place an ad about yourself which will excite the greatest interest in your potential viewers. You must know your audience. Important - Photo should have an easily visible (large view) of you. Most personals photos are dark and look like they were taken from far away. Closeness, that's the mood you want to create in your audience.
Some of the key elements in your personals ad which you may not have thought of, but will be judged by are;
Is he articulate?
Is she original?
Is she educated?
Is he charming?
Is he interesting?
Is she witty?
Is she courteous?
Is he outgoing?
Finally - Is he willing to put forth some effort in his ad to win me?
What you write will tell who you are! As we have just seen it's not just what you say about yourself and your desires that will tell her about you. The composition itself will spell out who you are. Better to put your best literary foot forward to make a positive statement about just exactly who you are.
At this point let us address the men and then a little alteration for the women will be in order. Ad techniques are different for both genders. Men are not especially looking for funny or good listeners, whereas women generally are.
For the Men
Let's begin by discussing structure. Structure will give a logical flow to your audience. There is nothing worse than a scatter-brained personal that is too busy, it turns women off.
1. Let us begin with the picture. Women are not visually stimulated in the way men are, so seductive is not the key. You must be well groomed and approachable. Look into the camera. Looking away will make you seem aloof. Use inviting body language. Smile, and bear your neck dimple. (Where the collar bone meets the neck) Military uniforms and business suits (ties) cover this area for a reason. We cover this vulnerable area so as not to portray vulnerability. In your personal ad you want vulnerability. Remember you are targeting women.
2. Salutations - According to Parade magazine a simple Hi! is a great opener. This is just the ice breaker.
3. Personal introduction - Give your name or nickname if you wish.
4. Biographical information - Start out with an opener which will grab her attention and reach into her heart. Appeal to her emotionally. Women are emotionally centered. Make it so that she must read your ad! After this stage give her just the facts. This directness shows strength and confidence. Both are qualities which women value. Be honest and avoid the heartbreak of separation caused by dishonesty. Maybe she would rather have a plumber than the CEO of Microsoft after all.
This is your online dating bio, so include what you wish. Items usually mentioned are; age, occupation, and children, race, place of birth, where you live, favorite foods, entertainment preferences, hobbies, music tastes, and education.
Finally, give them some tangible asset about yourself to make her want you. No boasting. Put it in such a way that you do not seem arrogant. Put it something like - I've been told that I have a great sense of humor or that I'm a great cook.
5. Now that you have told them you know who you are, tell them you know what you want. Do you want a down to earth gal? Say so. The divas will be repelled and the woman who appreciates it most will answer your call. Be descriptive and to the point!
6. Conclusion - Paint a mental image of what your lives would be like together. Something romantically appealing works wonders. In case you haven't noticed women love romance. Woo her. Be careful in your invitation not to use negative or conditional words like - if you are the one. Instead of this use - you are the one I would love to warm up by the fire with. She will know when you are speaking to her, if she is the one. Use these final words to make her feel like a kindred soul.
Once your ad is structured coherently we must now ensure that the following elements have been included.
1. Salutation - Short, polite. Hi! or Howdy, whatever best suits who you are.
2. Descriptive adjectives - Positive and powerful superlatives which will enhance her imagery experience and build curiosity. Infect her with your zest for life
3. Spelling and grammar - Look intelligent, educated, and thoughtful.! Consult a spell check or dictionary and correct errors. We are not all English professors, Have someone critique your writing.
4. Warm text - Use key words that stimulate emotion. Words such as fun, romance, love, happiness, and feel give a warmth to your writing and will give her a positive reading experience. Again, this will give her a little insight as to what life with you might be like.
5. Courtesy - Don't use harsh language or slang. Best to come across in a serious dating forum as polite.
We realize that there is a trend of extremism out there that feels the need to shock. She will appreciate you even more for being a gentleman online.
6. Spur her to action - At the end of your ad be sure to urge them to reply now. Make it a suggestion. Say something like - Why not email me now and seize the day with me? I'll be right here waiting for you !
We have an example of a dynamite personal ad at http://christiandatemate.com
For the ladies
Fortunately for women the online dating scene is predominantly male in terms of numbers. This works to your advantage - more fish to choose from. However you cannot rest on your laurels though. You still need at least a cursory knowledge of what motivates men, blended with your own original creative touch.
Hopefully you took the time to read the menÂs section. All of the above applies to women as well with a few exceptions. Make them want to read your ad using compelling imagery. Remember men are more visually stimulated than you are.
Use a complimentary photo of yourself. Alluring is good, but be careful not to send the wrong message. Be sure to project yourself as warm and inviting. Smile and look into the camera. Use body language that says come a little bit closer.
Best wishes in your quest!
