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How To Succeed At Online Dating
Dating is a fun and exciting adventure especially if you find someone that matches your expectations perfectly. Online dating is more like a blind date than you might think. So just how can you make your online search for a date a successful one? Here are some ways on how you can have a successful online dating experience:
Attitude is everything
Attitude is an important ingredient in ensuring dating success. A good attitude whether online or offline is always a plus that adds to anyones charm. It is through your attitude that a major part of your personality is uncovered. You attitude about yourself also says a lot about how you expect others to treat you. Attitude affects everything else that you do. It really doesnt matter whether youre creating a profile, writing an email, or talking over the phone all these give clues as to the type of person you are.
Be respectful
It is important that you respect your online dates. Respect can help you a lot in your online dating and make it much easier to ask for personal information from your prospective dates. In return they are more likely to reciprocate your respect and be willing to share their personal information.
You should always put your best foot forward you never know when that online date could turn out to be your one true love. Online dating is always an opportunity to meet other people, and maybe that special someone that you end up sharing the rest of your life with.
Forget shyness
Shyness makes it hard to create a rapport with other people. Online dating a more interactive activity and offers a great opportunity for shy people to get over their shyness. Remember that you decided to try online dating to meet people, not to shy away from them.
Start developing your confidence by slowly making friends with the opposite sex. Just think of it as a chance to make friends first, which is much less threatening. There are so many opportunities that await you for either in friendship or love. Be positive and learn to enjoy what online dating has in store for you.
Study the responses you get
As mentioned, online dating is an opportunity to explore. For those who are new to online dating it is a good idea to get to know several prospective online dates. Say whatever comes to mind and afterwards study their responses. Carry your conversation as far as it will go, and if doesnt work out then you can always meet someone else. Maybe youll be luckier the next time around.
BONUS : How To Succeed In Love And Relationship
So many men approach me saying something like "I am interested!" But the look on their face shows otherwise... They do not get clear about what they want or do not. Its important to know what you really can not tolerate in a partner. You should Make a list of your "don't wants" and then cut it down to the 5-10 most important. I don't have a positive outlook on a date if that person is always looking at the floor, not at you when talking and there seems to be no joy for them in life... What happens to humor and that little smile that will say a lot to me about who you are? Humor and a smile also shows me that joy won't be a problem if involved in a relationship with me.
I have come to learn that positive begets positive, and in a world that seams so negative, and morals paramount to a plan B, I choose the humorous and smiley guy any day of the week or month. I have learned that to look beyond the looks and to look at the big picture is so important. People change as life goes on you know. I have been married for 15 years and what I looked for was someone that was truly faithful and had a sense of humor. Someone who made me laugh. It has been a wonderful 15 years and I hope for many more to come.
Its good manners to look at a person when you are being spoken to, yet a lot of honest and loving persons prefer to avoid eye contact. It's good for a man and woman who are in love to look unto each other's eyes so that each can know the internal feelings of the other concerning the relationship and also each can make a correct judgment on what type of a person he/she is.
How about my friend who says she is in a relationship with someone who doesn't care about her and always putting her down, No matter what he does for this girl, nothing is ever good enough for her. And he tries so hard to please her. What is he doing so wrong to deserve all of this!! Sometimes it really hurts. Try something new. You know the best way to have things stay the same is to never do anything different. Vary your daily routine, just to keep yourself awake. Shake yourself up and notice what happens. Keep yourself open to chance opportunities, and then take advantage of them. One thing is for sure, there are people who will never get satisfied with what they have. you will hear them complaining about the size of their shoes as much as they complain about size of the coins in their pockets.
Its imperative to learn the art of showing a positive attitude toward life. This really draws attention both to yourself and your friends. I went out one day with a guy my age, and all the time i was enjoying my drink, this fool was trying to hit on the twenty one year old standing next to me. Of course if you love yourself you don't need anyone else to. For me, this was so obvious, i did not ask any questions. Do you know why i did not? Because this jerk did not have any answer. I hit him hard on the face and told him to forget.
So many men approach me saying something like "I am interested!" But the look on their face shows otherwise... They do not get clear about what they want or do not. Its important to know what you really can not tolerate in a partner. You should Make a list of your "don't wants" and then cut it down to the 5-10 most important. I don't have a positive outlook on a date if that person is always looking at the floor, not at you when talking and there seems to be no joy for them in life... What happens to humor and that little smile that will say a lot to me about who you are? Humor and a smile also shows me that joy won't be a problem if involved in a relationship with me.
I have come to learn that positive begets positive, and in a world that seams so negative, and morals paramount to a plan B, I choose the humorous and smiley guy any day of the week or month. I have learned that to look beyond the looks and to look at the big picture is so important. People change as life goes on you know. I have been married for 15 years and what I looked for was someone that was truly faithful and had a sense of humor. Someone who made me laugh. It has been a wonderful 15 years and I hope for many more to come.
Its good manners to look at a person when you are being spoken to, yet a lot of honest and loving persons prefer to avoid eye contact. It's good for a man and woman who are in love to look unto each other's eyes so that each can know the internal feelings of the other concerning the relationship and also each can make a correct judgment on what type of a person he/she is.
How about my friend who says she is in a relationship with someone who doesn't care about her and always putting her down, No matter what he does for this girl, nothing is ever good enough for her. And he tries so hard to please her. What is he doing so wrong to deserve all of this!! Sometimes it really hurts. Try something new. You know the best way to have things stay the same is to never do anything different. Vary your daily routine, just to keep yourself awake. Shake yourself up and notice what happens. Keep yourself open to chance opportunities, and then take advantage of them. One thing is for sure, there are people who will never get satisfied with what they have. you will hear them complaining about the size of their shoes as much as they complain about size of the coins in their pockets.
Its imperative to learn the art of showing a positive attitude toward life. This really draws attention both to yourself and your friends. I went out one day with a guy my age, and all the time i was enjoying my drink, this fool was trying to hit on the twenty one year old standing next to me. Of course if you love yourself you don't need anyone else to. For me, this was so obvious, i did not ask any questions. Do you know why i did not? Because this jerk did not have any answer. I hit him hard on the face and told him to forget.
