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How To Be A Pickup Artist
Are you tired of striking out with women? Are you clueless about what it takes to pickup hot girls? Well comb the gel out of your hair and put the Porche key back in your pocket.
It's not how much money she thinks you have. Picking up women is not rocket science. It's a simple step by step process. Women are people. People are ruled by basic laws of psychology. Use psychology correctly and she will give you what you want. Use it incorrectly and she will be confused and probably creeped out. Here is the simple three step pickup method.
STEP ONE: Be confident: Confidence is king. Walk like you have a purpose. Make eye contact. Don't look away when she looks at you. Smile and say hello.
So she is beautiful, so what. She's still just a person. If she thinks you are intimidated by her you're done before
you start. So show confidence even if you don't feel it. The guy in the bar who buys expensive drinks and flashes his diamond ring is not confident. He's trying to buy something. The woman who goes with him is looking for sugar daddy and when sugar daddy runs out of money he runs out of luck.
STEP TWO:TALK: Chit cat. Make small talk. Don't launch into your life story. Keep it light. Make her laugh.
If it's a bitter cold day rub your hands together and say something like; "Man I could really go for some ice cream right now." Remember, smile and make eye contact.
Get her talking, but be casual about it. Don't ramble on in a high pitched voice. Don't tell her every intimate detail of your day. Just chat about nothing and get a smile out of her. If she sees your confidence she will fall out laughing at your dumb joke or silly comment. People are all the same. Everyone wants to get in on the fun. Convince her that you are having fun and she will want to join in.
STEP THREE: Introduce yourself and go for the pickup: "I'm Greg, do you wanna get a cup of coffee? There's a place right around the corner."
For that sexy neighbor downstairs, "I'm Jeff, I live upstairs. I was gonna order a pizza and watch a DVD. Wanna join me?"
For a girl you already know or see around a lot: "Are you going to be at "Pete's" tonight? We can buy each other drinks."
Avoid traditional dating. I'll say it again, "Avoid traditional dating at all costs!" Keep it casual. The structure of traditional dating is too high pressure. Also, you can't have a bad date if you never really have a "date".
The most important thing is "DO IT!" Start approaching women right now. Remember, confidence is sexy.
If she says no to the pickup ask for her phone number. If she says no to that, give her yours. Then smile, say "Okay, maybe I'll see you around. Bye." and move on to the next woman.
Don't take a no personally. Don't get mad and cuss her out. For God's sake DON'T BEG!!!
She could have a thousand reasons for saying no that have nothing to do with you. Remember, women are people. People have lives. She might say yes next time. Getting mad only hurts your chances of success in the future.
Don't treat a woman like a one shot opportunity. You'll come acrross as desperate. Remember, you must appear confident.
Confidence is key and confidence is king.
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BONUS : How To Be Adventurous With Women Unique Hot Spots To Bring A Women
If your first date with her is considered as the first getting-to-know-you-better session, the subsequent programmes carry an unsaid message. I have decided to go out with you, to have some fun together. Under these circumstance, follow some golden rules which demonstrate what activities should be avoided and why. Also covered is what you should do to optimize the opportunity of being with her.
Drinks at Bar
The money to be dished out is heavy normally and the whole scenario is very single oriented. Good for starters only.
Dining at Restaurant
Where is the creativity in dining out? Except may be choosing something exotic for her or discovering a quaint little restaurant in a more quaint street. But at the end of the day, remember you have to foot the bill. And in return you might just get a peck on the cheeks.
Movies
Nothing is as boring as locking yourselves up in a dark theatre. God forbid, if the movie turns out to be bad, it is your choice which is under severe scrutiny!
To add a little spice into the scheme of things and create an interesting environment, try something which has some in-built adventure in it. Here are some easy-to-follow examples:
Local Shops
It is difficult to find a woman who does not like shopping even window shopping is good enough. The more unusual the shops are, the more energetic she gets. The underground music stores are good places to roam about, browse, share and listen or even buy. Not too hard on the pocket.
Games
A mini golf, the pool club or an arcade games really help liven up the evening.
Cooking demonstration
Show how domestic you can get. Take her to a cookery program. Immediately shows you care for such otherwise feminine stuff.
Flea markets, bazaars, or fairs
These places can also generate a lot of fun. The antiques, second-hand goods stores are all extremely stirring experiences. And a fair is always fun for people of all ages. Time clicks away in a jiffy.
Click! click! - the photo shoot
I have always found this activity extremely creative. And its not very expensive to carry out. Get a digital camera, make your date the subject for the day, and go on clicking ! She feels like a queen the whole time and never mind if all the pictures are taken with her eyes shut! You can have loads of fun even discussing this topic later.
Any venues with a strange or dramatic (historical) background
Castles, old houses, ruins.
But before taking her to such places, do a bit of homework. Let her not find out your poor grades in ancient history!
The above-mentioned activities are very useful because it helps you save your precious dollars, at the same time does not make any compromise on the quality time that both of you decide to have together. Events like candle-lit dinners, etc can be reserved for a later date. Creativity and being original is what will keep her attracted to you. Brass tacts of romancing can be organized later, when you know each other better.
This article may be re-published with appropriate attribution to the author including name and website © Copyright.
If your first date with her is considered as the first getting-to-know-you-better session, the subsequent programmes carry an unsaid message. I have decided to go out with you, to have some fun together. Under these circumstance, follow some golden rules which demonstrate what activities should be avoided and why. Also covered is what you should do to optimize the opportunity of being with her.
Drinks at Bar
The money to be dished out is heavy normally and the whole scenario is very single oriented. Good for starters only.
Dining at Restaurant
Where is the creativity in dining out? Except may be choosing something exotic for her or discovering a quaint little restaurant in a more quaint street. But at the end of the day, remember you have to foot the bill. And in return you might just get a peck on the cheeks.
Movies
Nothing is as boring as locking yourselves up in a dark theatre. God forbid, if the movie turns out to be bad, it is your choice which is under severe scrutiny!
To add a little spice into the scheme of things and create an interesting environment, try something which has some in-built adventure in it. Here are some easy-to-follow examples:
Local Shops
It is difficult to find a woman who does not like shopping even window shopping is good enough. The more unusual the shops are, the more energetic she gets. The underground music stores are good places to roam about, browse, share and listen or even buy. Not too hard on the pocket.
Games
A mini golf, the pool club or an arcade games really help liven up the evening.
Cooking demonstration
Show how domestic you can get. Take her to a cookery program. Immediately shows you care for such otherwise feminine stuff.
Flea markets, bazaars, or fairs
These places can also generate a lot of fun. The antiques, second-hand goods stores are all extremely stirring experiences. And a fair is always fun for people of all ages. Time clicks away in a jiffy.
Click! click! - the photo shoot
I have always found this activity extremely creative. And its not very expensive to carry out. Get a digital camera, make your date the subject for the day, and go on clicking ! She feels like a queen the whole time and never mind if all the pictures are taken with her eyes shut! You can have loads of fun even discussing this topic later.
Any venues with a strange or dramatic (historical) background
Castles, old houses, ruins.
But before taking her to such places, do a bit of homework. Let her not find out your poor grades in ancient history!
The above-mentioned activities are very useful because it helps you save your precious dollars, at the same time does not make any compromise on the quality time that both of you decide to have together. Events like candle-lit dinners, etc can be reserved for a later date. Creativity and being original is what will keep her attracted to you. Brass tacts of romancing can be organized later, when you know each other better.
This article may be re-published with appropriate attribution to the author including name and website © Copyright.
