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How To Avoid Online Dating Risks
Online dating has become a popular service nowadays. In fact, so many people all over the world, mostly singles, are members of various online dating services to find their perfect match.
While online dating services have benefits, there are some serious drawbacks to it too. The most important concern is your safety risk. How would you know that the otherwise sweet and loving chat mate of yours you need in an online service turns out to be a rapist or stalker?
Like traditional dating, online dating has some risks. To avoid danger, consider the following tips.
1. In your profile, it is good not to include detailed personal information, such as your personal home address, job address, telephone number, or email address. Dating sites, especially the reputable ones, make sure that all their members are safe. Some do it by checking the criminal records of their members, some automatically deleting any detailed information in your personal profile.
2. It would be good if you know more about the person you just met online before giving him or her any personal information about you. Take some time in knowing him or her first before setting up a date with the person.
3. Don't put false information in your profile or a fake photograph. If you want people to be honest with you too, be genuine in your information. Honesty is the best policy. A cliché, yes; but it works in online dating.
4. It might be good to have an email account set up in fee email sites like Yahoo or Hotmail. Give this email address to online users who want to have your email, instead of your main email address. In case you don't want a person to contact you again, then at least your main email address is safe and free from his or her emails.
5. Be wary of people who are lying to you. Be careful of people who:
- Want to meet up with you instantly and pressures you.
- Bug you to give your personal contact details when they themselves don't want to give you their personal contact information.
- Are not consistent in giving you information about their martial status, age, employment, among others.
- Avoid answering questions that are reasonable directly.
6. If somebody is bothering you already, stop sending him or her messages immediately.
Online dating is fun, but you have to be aware that it also has safety risks as well.
BONUS : How To Be A Pickup Artist
Are you tired of striking out with women? Are you clueless about what it takes to pickup hot girls? Well comb the gel out of your hair and put the Porche key back in your pocket.
It's not how much money she thinks you have. Picking up women is not rocket science. It's a simple step by step process. Women are people. People are ruled by basic laws of psychology. Use psychology correctly and she will give you what you want. Use it incorrectly and she will be confused and probably creeped out. Here is the simple three step pickup method.
STEP ONE: Be confident: Confidence is king. Walk like you have a purpose. Make eye contact. Don't look away when she looks at you. Smile and say hello.
So she is beautiful, so what. She's still just a person. If she thinks you are intimidated by her you're done before
you start. So show confidence even if you don't feel it. The guy in the bar who buys expensive drinks and flashes his diamond ring is not confident. He's trying to buy something. The woman who goes with him is looking for sugar daddy and when sugar daddy runs out of money he runs out of luck.
STEP TWO:TALK: Chit cat. Make small talk. Don't launch into your life story. Keep it light. Make her laugh.
If it's a bitter cold day rub your hands together and say something like; "Man I could really go for some ice cream right now." Remember, smile and make eye contact.
Get her talking, but be casual about it. Don't ramble on in a high pitched voice. Don't tell her every intimate detail of your day. Just chat about nothing and get a smile out of her. If she sees your confidence she will fall out laughing at your dumb joke or silly comment. People are all the same. Everyone wants to get in on the fun. Convince her that you are having fun and she will want to join in.
STEP THREE: Introduce yourself and go for the pickup: "I'm Greg, do you wanna get a cup of coffee? There's a place right around the corner."
For that sexy neighbor downstairs, "I'm Jeff, I live upstairs. I was gonna order a pizza and watch a DVD. Wanna join me?"
For a girl you already know or see around a lot: "Are you going to be at "Pete's" tonight? We can buy each other drinks."
Avoid traditional dating. I'll say it again, "Avoid traditional dating at all costs!" Keep it casual. The structure of traditional dating is too high pressure. Also, you can't have a bad date if you never really have a "date".
The most important thing is "DO IT!" Start approaching women right now. Remember, confidence is sexy.
If she says no to the pickup ask for her phone number. If she says no to that, give her yours. Then smile, say "Okay, maybe I'll see you around. Bye." and move on to the next woman.
Don't take a no personally. Don't get mad and cuss her out. For God's sake DON'T BEG!!!
She could have a thousand reasons for saying no that have nothing to do with you. Remember, women are people. People have lives. She might say yes next time. Getting mad only hurts your chances of success in the future.
Don't treat a woman like a one shot opportunity. You'll come acrross as desperate. Remember, you must appear confident.
Confidence is key and confidence is king.
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Are you tired of striking out with women? Are you clueless about what it takes to pickup hot girls? Well comb the gel out of your hair and put the Porche key back in your pocket.
It's not how much money she thinks you have. Picking up women is not rocket science. It's a simple step by step process. Women are people. People are ruled by basic laws of psychology. Use psychology correctly and she will give you what you want. Use it incorrectly and she will be confused and probably creeped out. Here is the simple three step pickup method.
STEP ONE: Be confident: Confidence is king. Walk like you have a purpose. Make eye contact. Don't look away when she looks at you. Smile and say hello.
So she is beautiful, so what. She's still just a person. If she thinks you are intimidated by her you're done before
you start. So show confidence even if you don't feel it. The guy in the bar who buys expensive drinks and flashes his diamond ring is not confident. He's trying to buy something. The woman who goes with him is looking for sugar daddy and when sugar daddy runs out of money he runs out of luck.
STEP TWO:TALK: Chit cat. Make small talk. Don't launch into your life story. Keep it light. Make her laugh.
If it's a bitter cold day rub your hands together and say something like; "Man I could really go for some ice cream right now." Remember, smile and make eye contact.
Get her talking, but be casual about it. Don't ramble on in a high pitched voice. Don't tell her every intimate detail of your day. Just chat about nothing and get a smile out of her. If she sees your confidence she will fall out laughing at your dumb joke or silly comment. People are all the same. Everyone wants to get in on the fun. Convince her that you are having fun and she will want to join in.
STEP THREE: Introduce yourself and go for the pickup: "I'm Greg, do you wanna get a cup of coffee? There's a place right around the corner."
For that sexy neighbor downstairs, "I'm Jeff, I live upstairs. I was gonna order a pizza and watch a DVD. Wanna join me?"
For a girl you already know or see around a lot: "Are you going to be at "Pete's" tonight? We can buy each other drinks."
Avoid traditional dating. I'll say it again, "Avoid traditional dating at all costs!" Keep it casual. The structure of traditional dating is too high pressure. Also, you can't have a bad date if you never really have a "date".
The most important thing is "DO IT!" Start approaching women right now. Remember, confidence is sexy.
If she says no to the pickup ask for her phone number. If she says no to that, give her yours. Then smile, say "Okay, maybe I'll see you around. Bye." and move on to the next woman.
Don't take a no personally. Don't get mad and cuss her out. For God's sake DON'T BEG!!!
She could have a thousand reasons for saying no that have nothing to do with you. Remember, women are people. People have lives. She might say yes next time. Getting mad only hurts your chances of success in the future.
Don't treat a woman like a one shot opportunity. You'll come acrross as desperate. Remember, you must appear confident.
Confidence is key and confidence is king.
This article was published using Article Submitter
