How People We Met Online Influence Our Life

How People We Met Online Influence Our Life?

Every single day of our life we are interacting
with a lot of people. People whom we know or
maybe we just met for the first time.

Some of them are positive, optimist kind of
people; others can be in bad moods, nervous
crying or screaming for no reason at everyone
they met. Others are suspicious all the time and
doubt every single word you are saying. All of
them can influence our mood, our day and even our
life if we let them to do it.

The same thing is happening when you are meting
people online.

You can meet here thousands of people. This is a
good thing just because your chances to find a
compatible person to talk to are unlimited.

But till you find that special one you’re
supposed to talk and interact with dumb,
desperate, sad, nervous or not too serious people.
If you spend too much time with an inappropriate
person, it can have some bad influence on you and
your mood.

It is important to know to sort people you are
talking to online. If you realize that the person
you started to talk to is annoying you somehow,
just say that an old friend of you is now online
and that you want to discuss with him, or just
say Good Bye.

Another fact I have notice is that all of us are
tempted to discus our problems with unknown
people because we know that them can't tell our
problems to all of our friends.

My aunt use to say all the time: "Anyone will
give you an advice but nobody is going to give
you a slice of bread, when you most need it." She
meant to say that to talk is easy and everybody
is happy to tell you his/her opinion even for the
conversation’s sake but this doesn't mean that
they are really good friends and could be
superficial or not very good intended.

Some of them are telling you that what you are
doing is not a good thing because you going to
have to loose or you will suffer in the future or
other can give you all kinds of recipes meant to
solve your problems.

The idea is that if we are paying attention to
everyone around us, they can influence our life
in a dramatic way. I am saying this because no
one can know better than us what is happening in
our life and in our soul. Nobody can know better
than us what we really want to have, what is
missing, or where we want to be in our life.

Be precarious, listen advices but do not pay too
much attention and be the master of your life.

BONUS : How Soon Should You Begin Dating After Getting Dumped?

This is a very common problem for many of us. Getting dumped hurts a lot. But one wants to go back to good life as early as possible, if for nothing than to forget the earlier pain. But since the pain remains and the thought of being hit again is overwhelming, it becomes difficult to decide.

When should one go back to dating scene after getting dumped? The answer for this question will vary from individual to individual. If your earlier partnership lasted for few months, you can recover sooner, but if the earlier partnership lasted for some years, it takes a lot more time to get prepared mentally to go back to the dating scene. The old wounds take a lot more time to heal, and sometimes they may never heal. If at this point of time, you manage to get a dating partner who understands and helps you come out of the memories, you are very lucky.

When you seriously date someone, you get involved. You plan for the future and you are recognized as a regular date of that person amongst your friends. You also give your trust to that person. You care for him/her and make many sacrifices to keep the relationship going. You dream of a bright future ahead and even make every move with consultation. This makes you both very involved with each other. If at this point, you are dumped, you will take lot of healing to come over the bitterness. You might have lost your faith in the opposite sex. So what is to be done?

Involve yourself with your work. Take up a new hobby. Make new friends. Join a club. Go around and enjoy the nature. And whenever you feel the pain of earlier love, feel it intensely. It does not help to push those feelings behind. They will remain there to resurface again. So feel every pain and cry over the loss if necessary. Express the anger and the bitterness. Cleanse yourself as much as possible of the memories.

After you are sure that you have regained your emotional stability, go back to the dating scene. If you find some one interesting with understanding, tell all after few meetings and ask for help and love in return of love. God willing, you will get it.