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Getting The Most Out Of Online Dating
Online dating is now more popular than ever with more and more singles from all over the world choosing to search for love on the Internet. Dating online is a fun, effective way to meet new people, make friends and form new relationships. If youre new to the concept, though, the experience can be a bit daunting at first. Here are 10 handy tips to help you make the most out of the online dating world.
1. Be comfortable with your decision
Like lonely hearts ads and introduction agencies, cyberdating used to be thought of as a last resort, but that is no longer the case. Internet dating offers singles freedom from traditional restrictions such as distance and allows even busy professionals and single parents the chance to socialise and find love. Another great advantage of online dating is the fact that it offers the chance to know more about a person before you meet them and make a more informed choice about who you would like to date.
2. Find the site thats right for you
There are literally thousands of dating sites out there, each catering for different people and their needs. Take your time and check out a few sites before committing to spending any money. Some sites are free to use and many sites offer a free trial, where you can search for singles in your area without paying any money up front. If a site isnt quite what you hoped for, try another one. There are millions of people on the Net and plenty of places for them to meet. Keep trying and you will find the right place for you.
3. Be clear about what you want
Dating (both on and offline) means different things to different people. Some people are looking for a serious relationship, while some just want to chat, date or have casual relations. Its important to be honest with yourself about what youre looking to gain from the online dating experience, even if youre just looking to try it out and have some fun. There are sites that cater for all forms of dating and some that are geared towards particular requirements. Being honest with yourself will help you make the right choice and avoid disappointment. When its time to put your profile up on the site, being honest about your intentions will also help you attract likeminded people.
4. Put up a good profile
Like all first impressions, your profile or personal page on a dating site is extremely important. A good profile should be an accurate representation of who you are. It should also be geared towards making people want to get to know you. Never put yourself down, especially when it comes to your looks. There is a difference between being honest and realistic and letting your insecurities take over.
Self promotion is not an easy task for most people, but its important to remember that there is nothing wrong with being aware of your finer qualities. Concentrate on things you like about yourself, your interests, your dreams and anything else that sounds positive. If youre stuck, get your friends and family to tell you what they like about you and include that information in your description.
5. Upload your picture
Looks arent everything, but surveys have shown that most online daters do prefer to contact people who have pictures on their profiles. Dont be afraid to upload a photo: a picture can make all the difference when someone is deciding whether to contact you or not. Even if you are unhappy with your looks, chances are there is someone out there who will find you attractive. Let him or her decide without adding apologetic comments about your looks underneath the picture. If at all possible, choose a picture where you are smiling and looking happy to add to the positive feel of the profile.
6. Dont be afraid to contact people
If you joined a site to meet people, dont be afraid of contacting others. After all, they are also on the site for much the same reason. If you like somebodys profile get in touch and let them know; you never know what might happen.
7. Treat people the way you would like to be treated
The novelty of online dating can sometimes make people forget there are actual human beings on the other side of the computer. Always be respectful of peoples feelings, even if it turns out you and the other person are unsuitable for each other.
8. Good timing
The beauty of cyber dating is that you can afford to take your time before meeting people in person. Its good to get to know people online first, but if you feel the right moment has come to take things further dont be afraid of suggesting that. If you do, though, dont take it personally if the other person is not ready yet. Let them take their time.
9. Be safe
When dating (both on and off line) always use common sense. While the majority of people have honest intentions, it pays to be careful. Beware of people asking for money straight away, or those starting your online relationship by detailing a story of woes and asking for your help. It is advisable to never lend or give money to people you have only just met online.
When agreeing to meet people you met online, always meet in a public place and let friends or family know where you are if possible. Its perfectly acceptable to ask to bring a friend with you to your first meeting. Make a point of explaining that its nothing personal and be wary of people who try to pressure you into meeting them alone. Remember: Its advisable to get to know people online and on the phone first before going to meet them in person.
10. Dont give up
There are millions of people dating online at any given time and chances are that if you persist, you will find the person who is right for you. Dont take rejection too seriously and keep trying. If one site is not working out for you, it may be worth trying another one and seeing if you have better luck there. If you follow the tips detailed below, you will be in a very good position to find what you are looking for online.
BONUS : Gift Ideas For Your Girlfriend
So, is it her birthday? Your anniversary? A gift for valentines day perhaps? Or simply, is it a simple yet meaningful token of your expression of love for her?
Sometimes, one does not have to wait for a special occasion to give that loved one of yours that present that will last her the whole year or her whole life through. The following are creative and unique ways to tell your girlfriend how much she means to you.
Choose what you think is best for your girlfriend, the tips and advice below range in budget, style and originality. The skys the limit, or better yet, your choices are only limited by your imagination.
Surprise her with a limo
No, you do not have to buy it for petes sake. You could have one rented out.
Set a date with your girlfriend. Tell her youll pick her up. When you knock on her door, she will be surprised or probably be elated with the vision of that stretch car outside her house, or better yet, with the vision of her sitting inside it with you.
Then, take her out to dinner. Imagine her thrill of having to get off and ride in again in that limo. Of course, nothing still beats gentlemanly sincerity. Make sure you are doing this out of your expression of love for her and not primarily for the purpose of being flashy. Or maybe a little, but ensure that that is not your principal reason.
Keep it simple
It really does not matter if you do not have that much money. The cliché: it is the thought that counts, actually rings true. Your thought peppered with your creativity and genuine sincerity is all it takes to make that gift for your girlfriend memorable and extremely likable.
If your girlfriend likes flowers and stuffed toys, it would not hurt if you give her the following. Give her with a bouquet of flowers when you see her. Then, if both of you are to go to your house, fill your room with scented candles. Plus, take a stuffed toy animal she likes a monkey perhaps or a bear? Place it on your bed and have it hold a single red rose.
She will definitely swoon.
Or keep it hot and airy
A very different and exciting gift you could give to your girlfriend is a hot air balloon ride. Make sure though that she is not afraid of heights and is as equally adventurous as you, or at least willing to try something new.
You can catch a romantic ride on a hot air balloon. Sail on the air over rolling green hills or catch a sunset or a sunrise with your significant other. It is very romantic and quite beyond the ordinary.
Gift her with a great and memorable experience
Make her breakfast, for a change. Wake up early and prepare a breakfast that you know she likes. Make it a little bit different too from the usual stuff she used to see. If she likes pancakes, make her one or two. Make adorable cookie cutter pancakes and a fresh bowl of various fruits for the dessert.
Give her something that glows in the dark
Nope, it is not what you are thinking. Remember those glow in the dark toys that comes in various shapes, sizes and forms. They have stars, space ships and the letters of the alphabet to name a few.
Try sticking the glow in the dark letters forming the words I LOVE YOU on the ceiling above her bed. When she turns off the light to go to sleep, imagine her delight and surprise seeing those words from you.
Give her something that makes her bubbly
If your girlfriend loves fun and seems to savor being the bubbly life of the party, there is a gift that is perfect for her personality. A Cosmopolitan Kit will help your girlfriend learn the dos and donts of mixing that great cosmopolitan. This handy kit also consists of a drink guide, a mix for drinks as well as a CD to set the right mood.
All in all, these gifts are mere suggestions. You alone know what works best for your girlfriend and your relationship. Remember to not be afraid to try out something different, yet sincere. Unique but also familiar.
So, is it her birthday? Your anniversary? A gift for valentines day perhaps? Or simply, is it a simple yet meaningful token of your expression of love for her?
Sometimes, one does not have to wait for a special occasion to give that loved one of yours that present that will last her the whole year or her whole life through. The following are creative and unique ways to tell your girlfriend how much she means to you.
Choose what you think is best for your girlfriend, the tips and advice below range in budget, style and originality. The skys the limit, or better yet, your choices are only limited by your imagination.
Surprise her with a limo
No, you do not have to buy it for petes sake. You could have one rented out.
Set a date with your girlfriend. Tell her youll pick her up. When you knock on her door, she will be surprised or probably be elated with the vision of that stretch car outside her house, or better yet, with the vision of her sitting inside it with you.
Then, take her out to dinner. Imagine her thrill of having to get off and ride in again in that limo. Of course, nothing still beats gentlemanly sincerity. Make sure you are doing this out of your expression of love for her and not primarily for the purpose of being flashy. Or maybe a little, but ensure that that is not your principal reason.
Keep it simple
It really does not matter if you do not have that much money. The cliché: it is the thought that counts, actually rings true. Your thought peppered with your creativity and genuine sincerity is all it takes to make that gift for your girlfriend memorable and extremely likable.
If your girlfriend likes flowers and stuffed toys, it would not hurt if you give her the following. Give her with a bouquet of flowers when you see her. Then, if both of you are to go to your house, fill your room with scented candles. Plus, take a stuffed toy animal she likes a monkey perhaps or a bear? Place it on your bed and have it hold a single red rose.
She will definitely swoon.
Or keep it hot and airy
A very different and exciting gift you could give to your girlfriend is a hot air balloon ride. Make sure though that she is not afraid of heights and is as equally adventurous as you, or at least willing to try something new.
You can catch a romantic ride on a hot air balloon. Sail on the air over rolling green hills or catch a sunset or a sunrise with your significant other. It is very romantic and quite beyond the ordinary.
Gift her with a great and memorable experience
Make her breakfast, for a change. Wake up early and prepare a breakfast that you know she likes. Make it a little bit different too from the usual stuff she used to see. If she likes pancakes, make her one or two. Make adorable cookie cutter pancakes and a fresh bowl of various fruits for the dessert.
Give her something that glows in the dark
Nope, it is not what you are thinking. Remember those glow in the dark toys that comes in various shapes, sizes and forms. They have stars, space ships and the letters of the alphabet to name a few.
Try sticking the glow in the dark letters forming the words I LOVE YOU on the ceiling above her bed. When she turns off the light to go to sleep, imagine her delight and surprise seeing those words from you.
Give her something that makes her bubbly
If your girlfriend loves fun and seems to savor being the bubbly life of the party, there is a gift that is perfect for her personality. A Cosmopolitan Kit will help your girlfriend learn the dos and donts of mixing that great cosmopolitan. This handy kit also consists of a drink guide, a mix for drinks as well as a CD to set the right mood.
All in all, these gifts are mere suggestions. You alone know what works best for your girlfriend and your relationship. Remember to not be afraid to try out something different, yet sincere. Unique but also familiar.
