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Five Adult Date Tips For True Success
Have you ever wanted to know the secrets to meeting beautiful singles? Or the secret to scoring that perfect date? The answer is a lot simpler than you may think.
Dating single women and men has never been more easy, thanks to the internet. It is now possible to meet and establish a relationship with someone half-way across the globe from the comfort of your own home. The traditional practices of dating have been surpassed by todays standards of more practical and easier ways of dating. However, old etiquettes and traditional rules should definitely not be easily forgotten. Along with all the new features of the millennium dating style, comes these important adult date tips:
1. Meeting on the internet has brought a sense of insecurity to many online singles where trusting can often create a real dilemma in your vital decision making. There is nothing more important than establishing a trusting and honest relationship with your potential encounters. The most important of all adult dating tips is that you should take your time, get to know and feel comfortable with your new online romance.
2. Establish a personality check. Find out as much as possible about your person of interest. Dont be afraid to snoop around and ask personal questions to see who that person has met online. Unlike traditional means, asking friends about a person wont be possible, so try to find out as much information through other site members. This does sound like you will be conducting an investigation, however you have to be sure that the person you are meeting is genuine and not a psycho. Another good handy tip is to find out the persons real name and do a little Google searching for that name. Youll be surprised at what you can find through search engines. For example, Google can often reveal some personal information that person has made public in the past.
3. The Information technology revolution has opened the doors to so many different and wonderful ways of communicating. For those that have never heard of webcam, MSN chat and Skype, we highly recommend you invest a little time and money into these technologies. They will enable you to meet and see each other in cyberspace before you decide to take the real plunge and meet face to face. Again, it must be stressed, spend as much time as possible on live chat until you feel it is safe to see that person in the flesh. Also, dont be shy to ask if you can see other family members on the webcam. Knowing your potential partners entourage is definitely a bonus.
4. The time has come to meet face to face, so where or how exactly do you plan to meet this person? Out of all the adult dating tips, it is important to ask the person what he / she is going to wear. This is not because you want to know what type of clothing brand they like, but such information will help you stakeout the person (from a distance) before you decide to meet. You can spy on the person from a distance and decide whether or not to approach them. If it isnt the same person you expected, then you can abort your meet and explain it to them in an email or by phone.
5. So youve decided to take the plunge and meet, have you thought about the actual meeting place and time? A dark, obscure alley at 9 pm is probably not the ideal place. Make plans for a busy place, such as a café, restaurant or even a nightclub. Maybe even bring a friend with you just to feel safe, that does not include your parents or grandparents. The rest is pretty much up to you. You may decide to have a casual fling or a deep meaningful relationship. Either way, always play it SAFE and carry some protection, never leave home without it.
So there you have it, the most important adult dating tips you will ever need to know before taking those first steps in online cyber dating. You can never be too sure who you are going to encounter, however you can go by these basic and essential recommendations to minimise your risks and maximise your joyful experience. Good luck!
BONUS : Five Big Myths About Women Debunked
1. Women don't like or enjoy sex as much as you do.
Is there anyone who still believes this? Read an issue of Cosmopolitan or watch an episode of Sex and the City, and you'll know what's up. When you're fighting hard for that tiny little bang (which is supposed to be your orgasm) while your girl has just gone off for the third time in a row, it makes you wonder who really enjoys sex more, right?
Whenever you go out, keep this in mind: The girl you're talking to wants to have sex every bit as much as you do. It's just that she needs more time to relax and lose her inhibitions, because society is likely to label a more sexually active girl a whore. Just provide the circumstances in which she can feel comfortable in your company, and the rest is guaranteed.
2. Women don't like porn and aren't turned on by visual triggers.
There's an urban legend that women don't like to watch porn well, my friend, it's time to blow that one out of the water. The fact is they DO like to watch porn it's just that they won't admit it. According to my girlfriends and countless other women I've asked, upon seeing a new man, a woman always looks at his ass first and even librarian types will sneak a second or third glance.
Although women tend to be more attuned to their other senses sounds and smells than men, visual triggers are just as important to them. Your girlfriend will occasionally watch a porn flick when she's horny, although she won't spend an hour every day searching for sex on Google.
3. Women like badass machos who are rough and don't show any emotion.
It's a common misconception in our society that men should be as badass as Chuck Norris and never cry or show any emotion. If you think this is the key to getting laid, then I hate to be the one to break it to you, but being badass won't make you a man.
A man is confident and knows how to lead a woman and how to make decisions. But a man should also be passionate and capable of showing emotion toward a woman.
Would you prefer a teddy bear to a real, live girl? Just as you like it when your girlfriend gives you a kiss or caresses your face, she also likes to feel the same kindness from you.
4. Women need a lot of freedom, and they hate to be controlled.
Don't be afraid to show emotion and tenderness when you're with a girl but please be careful not to become a wimp and lose control. A woman likes to be controlled by a strong man to a certain degree, and to keep her, you must be prepared to give her your own special brand of tough love.
A girl likes to feel secure and likes to have a guy who is able to protect her. But how can she feel secure that you can provide for her properly if you let her take control? Taking control might feel nice to her the first time she does it. But after a while, she finds it increasingly boring and tiresome.
A woman does need freedom, but at the same time, she likes to be taken care of. Thus, a man who knows how walk that thin line between giving her enough space and making all her decisions for her will be very attractive to a woman.
5. You need to become a player and develop serious game to attract women.
To attract women, you don't need any fancy techniques or skills. What you DO need is to learn how to take care of yourself and dress properly, to develop certain social skills, to live your life with passion (note that passion doesn't have to mean bungee jumping; you can be passionate about everyday things too) and to loosen up and be yourself around women.
If you're starting from ZERO, there's a learning curve you'll have to go through. Most important, you need to approach and talk to many women before you can actually come out of your shell and be your true self. Interacting with many women is also key to finding your Manliness, which you may have been pressured to hide by society and/or your upbringing. Your shortlist for success is:
a. Take care of yourself.
b. Go out and socialize.
c. Be passionate about your life, and feel good in your skin.
d. Let go of societal pressure to have a girlfriend, and you'll see that she comes to you when you least expect her.
Want to learn more about these topics? I've written an e-book called All About Women that takes you by the hand and guides you through everything you need to know: how women think, how to be the Man, where and how to approach women without fear, how to make your dates more effective and how to move easily from your first conversation to sex. If you liked this article, make sure to check out my book!
1. Women don't like or enjoy sex as much as you do.
Is there anyone who still believes this? Read an issue of Cosmopolitan or watch an episode of Sex and the City, and you'll know what's up. When you're fighting hard for that tiny little bang (which is supposed to be your orgasm) while your girl has just gone off for the third time in a row, it makes you wonder who really enjoys sex more, right?
Whenever you go out, keep this in mind: The girl you're talking to wants to have sex every bit as much as you do. It's just that she needs more time to relax and lose her inhibitions, because society is likely to label a more sexually active girl a whore. Just provide the circumstances in which she can feel comfortable in your company, and the rest is guaranteed.
2. Women don't like porn and aren't turned on by visual triggers.
There's an urban legend that women don't like to watch porn well, my friend, it's time to blow that one out of the water. The fact is they DO like to watch porn it's just that they won't admit it. According to my girlfriends and countless other women I've asked, upon seeing a new man, a woman always looks at his ass first and even librarian types will sneak a second or third glance.
Although women tend to be more attuned to their other senses sounds and smells than men, visual triggers are just as important to them. Your girlfriend will occasionally watch a porn flick when she's horny, although she won't spend an hour every day searching for sex on Google.
3. Women like badass machos who are rough and don't show any emotion.
It's a common misconception in our society that men should be as badass as Chuck Norris and never cry or show any emotion. If you think this is the key to getting laid, then I hate to be the one to break it to you, but being badass won't make you a man.
A man is confident and knows how to lead a woman and how to make decisions. But a man should also be passionate and capable of showing emotion toward a woman.
Would you prefer a teddy bear to a real, live girl? Just as you like it when your girlfriend gives you a kiss or caresses your face, she also likes to feel the same kindness from you.
4. Women need a lot of freedom, and they hate to be controlled.
Don't be afraid to show emotion and tenderness when you're with a girl but please be careful not to become a wimp and lose control. A woman likes to be controlled by a strong man to a certain degree, and to keep her, you must be prepared to give her your own special brand of tough love.
A girl likes to feel secure and likes to have a guy who is able to protect her. But how can she feel secure that you can provide for her properly if you let her take control? Taking control might feel nice to her the first time she does it. But after a while, she finds it increasingly boring and tiresome.
A woman does need freedom, but at the same time, she likes to be taken care of. Thus, a man who knows how walk that thin line between giving her enough space and making all her decisions for her will be very attractive to a woman.
5. You need to become a player and develop serious game to attract women.
To attract women, you don't need any fancy techniques or skills. What you DO need is to learn how to take care of yourself and dress properly, to develop certain social skills, to live your life with passion (note that passion doesn't have to mean bungee jumping; you can be passionate about everyday things too) and to loosen up and be yourself around women.
If you're starting from ZERO, there's a learning curve you'll have to go through. Most important, you need to approach and talk to many women before you can actually come out of your shell and be your true self. Interacting with many women is also key to finding your Manliness, which you may have been pressured to hide by society and/or your upbringing. Your shortlist for success is:
a. Take care of yourself.
b. Go out and socialize.
c. Be passionate about your life, and feel good in your skin.
d. Let go of societal pressure to have a girlfriend, and you'll see that she comes to you when you least expect her.
Want to learn more about these topics? I've written an e-book called All About Women that takes you by the hand and guides you through everything you need to know: how women think, how to be the Man, where and how to approach women without fear, how to make your dates more effective and how to move easily from your first conversation to sex. If you liked this article, make sure to check out my book!
