Finding Love Online Is Easy

Finding Love Online Is Easy

Romance in the new world has taken on new hues. It has embraced technology and dating today via the internet is extremely popular. All of us dream of meeting the ideal man or woman and have in our minds what we like and what we dislike. Online dating makes meeting the ideal very easy. You don’t have to spend time with a person to realize that the person is not the right one and, you can really get to know a person before actually setting up a meeting.

Online dating sites are professionally managed and great care is taken to make it a safe experience. The process is streamlined. You fill in your requirements and the site will send you lists of other members who maybe suitable. Then all you need to do is to look through the lists, short list a few, read their profiles, and then contact them through e-mails or “chat” services provided by the site. Once you touch first base you can get to known the person “virtually” and then decide to proceed to step 2 and meet the most likely candidate. According to studies, the success rate is 94%. And, there are more than 700 dating sites on the World Wide Web.

Professionally managed, the sites have articles that discuss different aspects of dating, tips on how to go about dating, as well as comprehensive FAQs. Most members are computer savvy and educated although there are a few dangers lurking even on dating sites. Tech savvy, online dating has reached new horizons with videos, live voice messaging, and forums.

You can know all you want by reading the profiles, and the match making service will help you narrow your choice using questionnaires and compatibility rankings. You can locate your ideal date by using many criteria like: profession, location, age, physical appearance, lifestyle, horoscope, as well as hobbies.

Online dating is a stress free and affordable way of meeting people, making friends, and finding Mr. Right. You are free to set your own boundaries and can decide whether you are looking for along term relationship or a casual one. The advantage is you can access the sites anytime and from anyplace. Morning, noon, or night the choice is yours.

Prepare yourself mentally. Write down what you like in a partner and what you dislike. Always be honest and fill in correct information on yourself. Projecting a star image will get you nowhere as sooner or later the truth will emerge. Ultimately a date must like you for yourself and not some mirage image of you.

• Read the dos and don’t s given on the site.
• Always be courteous. Don’t keep anyone hanging say yes or no as the case maybe. Follow the unwritten rules of etiquette.
• Protect yourself and never reveal personal information like phone numbers, addresses, or financial information until you are sure of the person and have verified his or her credentials.
• Read a few dating books before you begin your quest. And, once you begin, spare some quality time to read through profiles and make contact with suitable people.
• Be careful and plan to meet the ideal on a foursome date. Never meet anyone alone or in secluded spots. Read and understand rules of safety.
• If you have been in a relationship before or have children say so. Never hide facts.
• If a person is upsetting you or troubling you report the incident to the site management and block the person from contacting you or accessing your profile.
• Choose a site that has credibility and is a member of the TRUSTe program or has a BBB online reliability seal.

Realize your hopes and dreams by using online dating sites. They are safe and there is nothing to be afraid of. Ask around and you will find that many of your friends or colleagues have been quite successful at online dating.

BONUS : Finding Mr Or Miss Right!

Are you currently searching for that special someone? Your soulmate? Mr or Miss Right?

Would you like to know where to find them?

Don’t worry! I’m not going to set you up with some of my friends (sorry Johnno), or give you contact details for the local pick-up joint, or internet dating service.

But as someone who is sharing an incredibly loving and passionate relationship with my beautiful wife Helen, perhaps I can offer some help. (Let’s hope Helen reads that bit!!)

So here are my thoughts below. If you understand these points and take the appropriate actions, I believe you stand a VERY good chance of having your own “love of your life!”

MASSIVELY IMPORTANT POINT:

Ladies, you cannot and will not find Mr Right. Instead, become Miss Right and you will attract Mr Right.

Gentleman, you cannot and will not find Miss Right. Instead, become Mr Right and you will attract Miss Right.

Let me explain. We don’t find anyone. We attract people who are a match for whoever we currently are.

If you’re currently not attracting the kind of person you want in your life, perhaps it’s because you’re not the kind of person they’re attracted to? So if you want to attract your perfect match, become someone who is desirable. And then this person will come to you.

Your ability to influence and change others is limited. If you attempt to find the person of your dreams and make them like you, then you’re in for a long and difficult journey. However if you work on improving yourself, then you stand a much better chance of success.

So how do you become this person? How do you become Mr or Miss Right, in order to attract your soulmate?

For starters, why not work on these three areas:

(1) Learn to be happy.

Realise that your happiness does not depend on having this relationship. There is a saying, "Happiness is enhanced by others but does not depend upon others."

If you’re not already happy, then a relationship will not provide you with what you’re missing. If you're already happy, then a good relationship will build on that happiness. So if you seek happiness through a relationship, you will not find it.

You need to get rid of the idea of finding happiness "out there", in your partner, or in the relationship that you share. Happiness is found within yourself, and nowhere else.

So firstly, in order to become Mr or Miss Right, work on becoming happy.

(2) Learn to love yourself.

You can’t have a great relationship until you’re a person capable of giving and receiving love unconditionally. And the first part of achieving this is to learn to love yourself. A relationship is about giving, not receiving. How can you give love to someone if you have none within? How can you properly love someone else if you can't even love yourself? It’s impossible.

Learn to love yourself. Accept yourself for the perfect divine creation that you are.

(3) Learn to love life.

Stop trying to find that person who will complete you; who will bring joy, love, excitement and passion to your life; who will help you “live happily ever after”.

Instead, accept responsibility for creating the life of your dreams. Bring joy, love, excitement and passion to your own life. Live happily ever after anyway. Laugh, play and enjoy yourself. Learn, grow and live with passion in everything that you do.

If you’re happy, and you love yourself, and you love life then you will have so much more to give to others. You’ll have become an exceptional person. Your life will be great. And you’ll attract not only many great friendships, but also perhaps that someone special you’re so desperately searching for right now.

The answer to what you’re seeking is not within someone else, but rather it’s within you. It is your own attitudes and beliefs about yourself. It is a belief in love. It is a belief that you are worthy of love. It is a belief that you are a good, strong, confident and happy person. It is a belief that you have something great to share with someone else.

Once you have this self belief, or self love, then you have become Mr or Miss Right. Then and only then will you attract a relationship that is truly magical.

The hardest part is deciding to make it happen. After that it’s easy. Don’t become overwhelmed by the task ahead. Allow yourself to grow little by little, each and every day. Trust in the process, and enjoy it.

It’s your choice. Mr or Miss Right are found within. Choose to become that person now. Be happy. Love yourself. And love life. It’s worth the effort.

Lance Beggs.

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