Don T Be Blind Learn Blind Date Tips

Don't Be Blind - Learn Blind Date Tips

There is no need to make a person swear off of blind dates forever just because one didn’t work out well. Here are some tips on how to prevent a blind date from becoming a disaster.

1. Snoop around a bit.

Don't go to a blind date without having any hint as to what kind of person you are about to entrust your one evening with. A little bit of planning will go a long way toward having a successful blind date. Talk on the phone. Email each other. Do those mild background checking techniques that will make you less worrisome when the actual date happens.

2. Go for a casual date. It is never cool to plan like you are about to make a marriage proposal when you are just about to go to a blind date. A cozy café or park that allows lots of conversation and exchange of ideas will do the trick.

3. First impressions last forever. Blind dates should be informal. However, that doesn't mean you are allowed to show up in your gym clothes. Overdressing is overkill, too. Women, any suggestive outfit should be saved for your fifth or sixth date if you click. Men, keep your bowties and suits reserved for your wedding. It would be wise to show your personal taste as long as you strike a good balance.

4. Know your manners.

A blind date could still go bad no matter how you prepare for it. It is just the way of nature telling you that the chemistry is just not there. But the lack of spark during the first date does not necessarily translate to never clicking with the person. It could be that it is just a bad day for the two of you or the weather is simply not cooperating. Keeping an open mind will avoid you from sulking about how bad your date went. Don't forget to respect your date as you would like to be respected. Don't be too rigid, have fun.

BONUS : Don’t Let The Blues Of Singlehood Affect You

Hi all. My name is Charles. I moved to this new city with my girlfriend few months back as she got a job here. Even I managed to get a good job here without much trying. Life was going on well until we broke up. Now I am single and it really sucks! i feel totally lost in this new city. If I were in my hometown, I would have hanged out with my friends in bars and pubs and probably I would not have minded my single stature. But as am new to this place, I hardly know anyone here to go out with. So my personal life has been kind a stagnant.

It’s been few days since I am single. Now I feel it’s not that bad to be single here. This new town is quite beautiful with lots of mountains and plantation area. I can try out exploring this town as well the nearby cities. I can go for trekking on weekends. Now I realize even I’m not ready to get back into a relationship so suddenly. So maybe I’ll remain single for some time.

But I need to meet some other single people here that I can make friendship with, so that I will have someone to talk to out here. May be I should look out the hot spots in this city where all the single people go, the good bars or clubs. Or may be I should even try for these dating sites i have heard about. Who knows if I will find someone interesting there, then I won’t have to go to a bar alone looking like someone miserable and preying on every single girl you see there. Then I don’t think life will be so boring and monotonous as it is now.