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Dating - Not Asking For Immediate Results Is Better
Today, most of the daters want immediate results after a date. They want to meet their dream date immediately. They want to fall in love immediately. They want to like each other immediately. There is hurry in dating. There is a demand that we must get good date immediately. This is like interviewing candidates for a position in your organization. You wish to get the best candidate as the first candidate and get frustrated if you don't get one after interviewing many. That frustration either makes you drop the idea of searching or you try to fit at least one candidate in the slot. But that will fail with disastrous results.
Are you doing something similar in dating? Do you not accept disappointments easily? Do you want your candy immediately like a child? That can lead to complications. You have to define your requirements and if you find that your date and you don't match, you have to drop him/her. You don't have to create excuses and fit him/her with you. That may lead to long-term pain.
Let us be sure. You are looking for a life partner. You have only one life and you must try and get the best partner you can to have happiness and satisfaction. Give dating enough time. Date few people before you decide about one. Make sure that your head is ruling you and not heart. Don't ask for immediate results. That can be painful over time.
BONUS : Dating On The Net Most Likely Seems On Its Aspect To Be Considerably Safer Than Traditional.
You get going at your own pace and only when you feel well to do. You dont have to concern about somebody else. Yet, relative being unknown afforded by online dating means that some standard of caution must be implemented.
The fact is that, first of all, completely you dont know the individual that you are talking to on the net. All of them for you is a sentence and possibly a picture, with that sort of uncertainty it can be easy to make any number of unlikely impression or images. Run down of online dating will always point to the extreme examples of physical meetings gone awry after online ourtships. I would affirm that these examples are extreme and actually more infrequent than with same stories in traditional dating.
First and foremost, never proceed at a pace that makes you feel uncomfortable. Whereas in a physical setting you can generally get a read or a vibe as to the sort of person you are speaking with, online dating makes that sort of gut impression more difficult to come by. It can take extended conversations before you feel comfortable enough to actually meet somebody, and that is perfectly acceptable. Remember that you truthfully dont know this person at all, and if they begin to pressure you into meeting them sooner than youre comfortable with, it may be a good idea to simply nip the relationship in the bud.
If at all possible, see if you can find out any information about the person online through mutual friends or acquaintances. One thing is true about the internet: It has made the world infinitely smaller. Chances are good
that, between you and your online interest, you share at least one common relationship. Use this to your advantage! Any information that you can find out about this potential romantic prospect is bound to be beneficial, if only for your own peace of mind. If said mutual relationships dont exist, follow the above advice and proceed at a pace that you are comfortable with.
When it does come time to meet your online interest for the first time, a little common sense goes a long way.
It is probably a good idea to make your first meeting public rather than private. Until you know somebody well enough, you might forgo the seclusion of dinner and a movie at one of your homes and instead opt for a restaurant and theater. Until you know somebody well enough and are comfortable with them, having people around when you meet is beneficial. It allows you to get a better feel for the type of person you are speaking with whilst maintaining a safe amount of distance from them.
Conclusively, always telling a friend or family member you are going to meet somebody and where you are going, never compromise. At least initially, you dont know what kind of this person very well at all. By doing simple steps, let a friend or family member knowing you are going to, you are avoided for a bad luck dating.