Dating How To Win The Best

Dating - How To Win The Best?

I believe that enough is being written about what you should do and what you should not in dating. Let me ask you another question - whether you deserve the best partner available out there? Is your answer is in yes, or are you getting scared with the thought? If you are a man, do you not think that you deserve to get the most beautiful, intelligent and loving lady? And if you are a woman, do not you believe that you deserve a prince and nothing less than a prince?

Not many of us think of this at all. We have all developed habit of satisfying ourselves with our low self-esteem and low desires. We dare not think of what I said earlier. Why not? Do you not think that you are good? Are you not the best? Unfortunately most of us do not believe that we are the best.

What stops us from thinking that we are the best? Money, physical beauty, personality, intelligence and reputation in society are some of the factors that make us believe that we are not the best. When we look around, we find people better than us in all these departments and that dampens our spirit. This is where we all make a mistake. Not many people have all the qualities combined. And believe me, that it is your idea that the best person out there is looking for somebody with loads of money, beauty and intelligence. You may be surprised to know that they may be looking for somebody like you.

The first requirement is to stop calling yourselves average. The second requirement is to make improvements wherever possible. And the most important requirement is to change our thinking and start believing that we deserve the best person out there. Please do what I have suggested. You may get a pleasant surprise.

BONUS : Dating Ideas For The Clueless

First dates never cease to be the one of the most thrilling events in one's life. However, dating can become boring if one allows it to be. Here are a few dating ideas that will surely make dating like a shiny new pair of shoes.

1. Island Picnic

If you have the moolah, you can always get travel arrangements and head to a deserted island. A simple picnic on a not-so simple island will give your dating life that kick you have always been waiting for. This will be very much appreciated by married couples as well.

2. Food Tripping Date

You don't have to spend so much if you will be only going to fast food chains. But it is a lot more fun to go restaurant-hopping and sampling each restaurant's specialties. Don't forget to skip some heavy snacks before doing this kind of date.

3. Wine Sampling

This could be more enjoyable if you are in a European country where all sorts of wines abound. However, many private wineries are springing up all over the place. Do your homework and see if you can find a local winery close to your location. Just make sure that you are not alcohol-intolerant to enjoy this dating idea.

4. Learn Something New

Learning a new skill could be handy. Learning a new skill with someone else is a surefire way to conjure an exciting mood during the date. Think Demi Moore and Patrick Swayze, except neither of you is a ghost, of course!

5. Window Shopping

Who says only women could enjoy this kind of date? Even if it is not a first date, as long as the guy also gets to go to the stores he likes visiting, it could be one fun time for the both of you. Also, it can make you both learn each others preferences when it comes to material things. Hint: gift hunches.

6. Truth or Dare Date

Pick a place to go to. Then while heading to that area, you can have fun learning about each other's secrets while playing truth or dare.

7. Sports Date

Go hiking, golfing, mountain-climbing or just about anything that makes you both tick. This is one of those feel-good date ideas since sports induce the production of that body chemical that makes you feel good. Sweet!

With those ideas, you will never run out of new and enthralling activities to do. Just be creative.