Dating Communication Is The Key

Dating - Communication Is The Key

Sometimes when I read some questions posted by people on dating on forums, I find curious phenomena. They all discuss their problems, their questions and everything about dating from others, but they don't ask their dating partner about what should be done. I wonder that it is like this - a child is crying and the mother posts on the net that my child is crying, what should I do? Why not ask the child? Similarly most of the issues of dating can be easily sorted out if we ask our partner. Let us find out more.

Are you confident about your dating partner?

Are you confident about your relationship and your partner? If you are sure about your choice of dating partner than most of the problems can be solved. Whatever may be the issue, ask him/her. Sometimes people get baffled with straight queries, but once they realize that you are very honest and open about your dating relationship, they will love it.

Why fear in dating?

People fear that a small wrong step can spoil the dating and they will have to begin searching again. This is not true. Fear kills your natural behavior. Fear will make you very guarded in your dating. Please stop fearing. Sky will not fall. Be natural and worry not. If you are good and your dating partner likes you, everything will end Ok.

Dating and communication - Good communication is the key to success. Talk and listen as much as possible. Don’t hide feelings. Express them. Don’t hide fears, talk about them. Don’t hide desires; express them and you will get real satisfaction.

BONUS : Dating Dilemma Of A Shy Guy

Hi guys. My life is messed up. I feel like a loser when it comes to have girlfriend. Can’t tell you the trauma I go through when I see all my friends going out on date with the girls they meet at bars and pubs .you will usually find me sitting in a corner with my drink and feeling miserable on my self. I am not bad looking, am quite affable and caring in nature too, but because of my shyness I won’t able to approach any girl or talk face- -to-face to them if someone approaches me.

I feel really embarrassed before my friends. Some of my friends even tried to arrange a blind date for me, but it never seemed to work out. If I am remember, last time I dated was may be more than three years ago. But it’s high time to try for dating. I need to get rid of my shyness. I don’t want to be labeled as the guy who never gets a date, that’s kind of too upsetting.

So guys, tonight I am going out on a date with a girl my friend dated a couple of moths back. It’s a blind date as I have never met this girl. I’m too nervous; this date has to go well. I need to find a girl that I can say I’m dating, that I can say I am going steady with. I’m tired of always being the left out one when my friends and I go out. So every body, please wish me luck!